Why does religion condemn suicide?

javi2541997 July 04, 2022 at 15:12 7850 views 94 comments
I am bringing another topic which shows a big difference between Western and Asian culture. Suicide is a taboo topic that has been used both in philosophy and religion. It is important to differentiate them in two main blocks:

Religion:

According to Catholic teachings about suicide. St. Augustine of Hippo, an early Christian bishop and philosopher, wrote that “he who kills himself is a homicide.” In fact, according the Catechism of St. Pius X, an early 20th-century compendium of Catholic beliefs, someone who died by suicide should be denied Christian burial.
On Islamic understandings, the fate of those who die by suicide is similarly dreadful. Hadiths, or sayings, attributed to the Prophet Muhammad warn Muslims against committing suicide. The hadiths say that those who kill themselves suffer hellfire. And in hell, they will continue to inflict pain on themselves, according to the method of their suicide.
In Hinduism, suicide is referred to by the Sanskrit word “atmahatya,” literally meaning “soul-murder.” “Soul-murder” is said to produce a string of karmic reactions that prevent the soul from obtaining liberation. In fact, Indian folklore has numerous stories about those who commit suicide. According to the Hindu philosophy of birth and rebirth, in not being reincarnated, souls linger on the earth, and at times, trouble the living.

Literature or artistic perspective:

His name was Kozaburo Eto. This young student killed himself on february 11th, exactly the Constitution’s day. He did it lonely in the darkness of his job staying apart from television or looks. It was a solemn and respectful act. This was the main critical action against politics I ever seen in my life.
Yukio Mishima, the way of samurai, pages 81 and 82.

And what I envied most about him was that he managed to reach the end of his life without the slightest conscience of being burdened with a special individuality or sense of individual mission like mine. This sense of individuality robbed my life of its symbolism, that is to say, or its power to serve, like Tsurukawa’s, as a metaphor for something outside itself; accordingly it deprived me of the feelings of life’s extensity and solidarity, and it became the source of that sense of solitude which pursued me indefinitely. It was strange. I did not even have any feeling of solidarity with nothingness - Yukio Mishima, The Temple of the Golden Pavilion.

What I have discovered along this year is the big difference between the concept of death in these doctrines. Religion itself clearly condemn it. Nevertheless, Japanese authors like Mishima sees it as a solemn act with liberation.
Doesn't matter how controversial suicide is I think is a respectful act which reflects individualism. We have to respect when someone decides to end their life and not condemn it.

Comments (94)

Cuthbert July 04, 2022 at 15:43 #715432
It is a big difference. I don't think it has always been that way. When a politician resigns in disgrace, he is sometimes said to 'fall on his sword', that is, he 'kills' himself rather than face the shame of 'living'. It is a matter of honour. 'Death before dishonour' is another Western saying reflecting this principle. In a Victorian novel, a disgraced soldier might be left alone in a room with a pistol, the expectation being that he would 'do the decent thing' and end his own life. But these are relics. The predominant view is that suicide is a sign of mental disturbance. It evokes pity rather than either admiration or blame. To condemn someone for committing or attempting suicide or to express admiration for their sense of honour are now both taboo in the West.

Regarding cultural stereotypes, there is or was a belief in some parts of the West that Japanese culture held suicide for honourable motives in very high regard and that suicide was seen as a duty on a disgraced man. It was believed (rightly or wrongly) that Hindu widows were duty bound to kill themselves on their husbands' pyre. In the modern West, any connection of suicide to honour and disgrace or to sin and damnation is forbidden and will attract the strongest condemnation.
javi2541997 July 04, 2022 at 15:59 #715440
Quoting Cuthbert
The predominant view is that suicide is a sign of mental disturbance.


I never understood why [suicide] is seen that way. So I guess I am in the minority side.

Quoting Cuthbert
In the modern West, any connection of suicide to honour and disgrace or to sin and damnation is forbidden and will attract the strongest condemnation.


It is forbidden because religion has a lot of power in the making of laws in Western world. They always have condemned it and then they influenced the legislative process to make it as a law or rule. To be honest I think it is unfair.
Would you call "delinquent" to a suicidal person?

Cuthbert July 04, 2022 at 16:11 #715445
Sorry, to clarify. The thing that is 'forbidden' in many social circles in the West is referring to suicide as sinful or worthy of condemnation. If you say that a suicide is somehow to be blamed then people will think you are cruel and heartless and have no understanding of the sadness and mental disturbance that leads to someone taking their own life.
Moses July 04, 2022 at 16:13 #715446
Quoting javi2541997
Doesn't matter how controversial suicide is I think is a respectful act which reflects individualism. We have to respect when someone decides to end their life and not condemn it.
Reply to javi2541997

This is true if we adopt value neutral individualism, but the Judeo-Christian tradition is not fundamentally individualistic. In Judaism -- out of which Christianity comes from -- our bodies are not on our own, but rather basically considered on loan from God. You're not allowed to self-harm either. The ten commandments tell us "thou shalt not murder" and suicide can reasonably be interpreted as "self murder" although the picture is not quite this black and white and the Bible portrays numerous suicides in various conditions, some of which appear to be condoned. When I write of suicide here I'm talking about suicide not under duress and of full consciousness of one's actions.

Suicide traditionally gets the worst treatment in Judaism in the afterlife. Only God has the right to give and take life and killing oneself is considered playing God. It was a mortal sin in Catholicism until 1983. It also leaves no opportunity for repetentence/atonement.
Cuthbert July 04, 2022 at 16:25 #715448
An exception is someone who has committed a major crime. If he kills himself then he may be publicly condemned for cowardice and for evading justice.
javi2541997 July 04, 2022 at 16:48 #715458
Quoting Moses
This is true if we adopt value neutral individualism, but the Judeo-Christian tradition is not fundamentally individualistic. In Judaism -- out of which Christianity comes from -- our bodies are not on our own, but rather basically considered on loan from God.


Yes, that's true. I do understand that in these specific religions our body belongs to God so, whenever we hurt ourselves, we are hurting God too.
But I am not agree. I just see it as the average religious subterfuge which only prolong our suffering. It is not fair the statement that I hurt God killing myself but not when I am suffering previously.
If we constantly use the argument of "not hurting" God we are forced to always suffer
javi2541997 July 04, 2022 at 16:49 #715460
Quoting Cuthbert
If you say that a suicide is somehow to be blamed then people will think you are cruel and heartless and have no understanding of the sadness and mental disturbance that leads to someone taking their own life.


Agreed. At least this is the thought I wish is implemented in most people's minds
Moses July 04, 2022 at 16:53 #715463
Reply to javi2541997 Quoting javi2541997
But I am not agree. I just see it as the average religious subterfuge which only prolong our suffering. It is not fair the statement that I hurt God killing myself but not when I am suffering previously.
If we constantly use the argument of "not hurting" God we are forced to always suffer


I don't think suicide hurts God (God is all-powerful), but it is bad for one's soul if such a thing exists. If there is no soul we will already spend the vast majority of time in nothingness so nothing really matters, but in in the off chance there is a soul one ought to live as good as possible and heighten one's spiritual state as this life is not the end.

Everyone suffers, and often in their own unique way. Others can often help us alleviate our own suffering.
javi2541997 July 04, 2022 at 17:24 #715471
Quoting Moses
If there is no soul we will already spend the vast majority of time in nothingness so nothing really matters


Well, I think this is one of the main uncertainties of our lives: the pointless of existence. What really matters at all?

Quoting Moses
Everyone suffers, and often in their own unique way. Others can often help us alleviate our own suffering


Good point but trust me, it impossible to help. We will suffer most of the days in this life. We can help each other but it would alleviate few seconds compared to all hours with pain
Moses July 04, 2022 at 17:57 #715473
Reply to javi2541997

Go find love, Javi.
javi2541997 July 04, 2022 at 18:03 #715475
Reply to Moses

I cannot looking for something that doesn't exist
Moses July 04, 2022 at 18:22 #715480
Reply to javi2541997

If you believe that you're already dead.

The Old Testament commands one to choose life.
javi2541997 July 04, 2022 at 18:27 #715481
Reply to Moses

This is why I sound sceptical with religion or sacred books. Why does the Old Testament commands me to choose life over and over again? Like why the prophets were obsessed with the act of living.
Paulm12 July 04, 2022 at 18:40 #715485
Doesn't matter how controversial suicide is I think is a respectful act which reflects individualism. We have to respect when someone decides to end their life and not condemn it

One of the tricky things here is individualism itself is a very western idea, influenced a lot by Judeo-Christian ideas.

For many religions, life is sacred and as a result, suicide is a denial of this.

Perhaps one could make an argument in places like Japan where space was limited suicide was more condoned for this reason. But I think the explanation of honor and bringing honor to your family makes more sense.
Moses July 04, 2022 at 19:03 #715487
Reply to javi2541997

That commandment, found in Deuteronomy, is from God.

At the end of the day you're going to make the final decision: Life or death. Love or lovelessness. It's up to you.
javi2541997 July 04, 2022 at 19:10 #715488
Quoting Paulm12
Perhaps one could make an argument in places like Japan where space was limited suicide was more condoned for this reason


Sorry but I do not understand this argument. Do you mean space as the territory itself?
Japan has never been so drastic with suicide until the last decade of this century creating the Ministry of "Loneliness" Tetsushi Sakamoto (?? ??) Minister of Loneliness.
Their artists have always showed suicide as art or as an act of purity
javi2541997 July 04, 2022 at 19:11 #715489
Quoting Moses
At the end of the day you're going to make the final decision: Life or death. Love or lovelessness. It's up to you.


Is up to me but whatever I would do it would make some suffer or pain to others, for example my parents or others who care about me. It is not so easy to make "own decisions"
unenlightened July 04, 2022 at 19:13 #715491
Organised religion forbids the miserable serfs and slaves from any escape from their exploitation. Because the organisation wants to continue to exploit. Just as the shrinks used to treat attempting to escape as a mental illness (drapetomania), so the modern shrink treats the attempt to escape oppression and exploitation by suicide as a mental illness today. Any resemblance between religion and psychiatry is purely un-coincidental.
javi2541997 July 04, 2022 at 19:26 #715496
Reply to unenlightened

Well written, sir. Excellent statement :100: :clap:
Tom Storm July 04, 2022 at 19:52 #715500
Reply to javi2541997 I work closely with psychiatry departments in our big city hospitals. In a clinical setting, suicide is understood as an individual's response (albeit regrettable) to situations they find overwhelming and is understood contextually. I have responded to many individuals who wanted to kill themselves. In every case I've seen it is because life has become unbearable through chronic pain, the loss of a loved one, major depression, sexual abuse, trauma - that kind of thing. Most people do find a way to work through the issues and find reasons to live.
javi2541997 July 04, 2022 at 20:11 #715505
Reply to Tom Storm

Most people do find a way to work through the issues and find reasons to live.


Glad to know most of the people find out a situation where they can skip suicide. But Tom, I want to respect all of those who end up in this context. I will not criminalise them. Whenever this issue happens we have to take care of them with honoured acts.
I wish I could understand them better. But I am closer to the meaning of suicide in a Japanese literature point of view
Moses July 04, 2022 at 20:16 #715506
Reply to javi2541997 Quoting javi2541997
Is up to me but whatever I would do it would make some suffer or pain to others, for example my parents or others who care about me. It is not so easy to make "own decisions"


Suicide causes immeasurable pain and suffering to those who knew the deceased. Parents never get over it. You'd be causing immeasurable suffering to your parents and siblings.
javi2541997 July 04, 2022 at 20:30 #715508
Reply to Moses

You'd be causing immeasurable suffering to your parents


Exactly. This a very important point. Parents do not deserve experience the pain of losing a son because of suicide. I guess it could be the worst scenario possible.
But I am not referring to individuals who are surrounded by family or good friends. I am referring to lonely people. This tend to be the main characteristic of a suicidal.
Bartricks July 04, 2022 at 21:06 #715514
Reply to javi2541997 Surely the reason it is often condemned as immoral is simply to discourage people from doing it?

Death is a great harm to the one who undergoes it. Most recognize this and are sufficiently responsive to instrumental reasons to not do it. Most recognize, for instance, that killing oneself to avoid having to attend a boring meeting would be very stupid.

But if one can persuade someone that it is immoral as well, then one has double bubbled it. And that person is now less likely to kill themselves than if they only recognized instrumental reason not to do so.

That doesn't mean it is immoral, it's just an explanation of why it might be condemned as being. The bottom line is that it's such a great harm to die we want to prevent people from doing it in moments of stupidity
javi2541997 July 05, 2022 at 04:13 #715665
Quoting Bartricks
The bottom line is that it's such a great harm to die we want to prevent people from doing it in moments of stupidity


Understandable. But I do not see "stupidity" when someone is walking through a period where they want to kill themselves. I think is a very serious situation and I can't imagine a person with the aim of killing himself just randomly.
Every suicidal tend to have a respectful cause to their actions
Bartricks July 05, 2022 at 04:32 #715668
Reply to javi2541997 But sometimes it can be stupid. And most of the time it is not going to be in the best interests of the person who is contemplating doing it. Given this, it may be morally justifiable to condemn it as immoral. Not because it is, but in the hope that the person who is misunderstanding what's in their best interests might nevertheless respond to moral reasons.
Of course, sometimes it won't be contrary to the person's interests. But most of the time it will. And trying to persuade someone not to do something that it is contrary to their interests seems like a respectful thing to do.
javi2541997 July 05, 2022 at 04:57 #715677
Reply to Bartricks

What I try to contemplate with you is that a person with these kind of thoughts rarely have interests or a stupid reason. They just want to finish their lives. Simple as it sounds. The paradox here is the issue that specialists who want to prevent these people from killing themselves tend to show them the pursue of a life full of stupidity and useless. Or as they say so constantly: The way of keep living not matter the suffering
180 Proof July 05, 2022 at 05:20 #715684
Quoting unenlightened
Organised religion forbids the miserable serfs and slaves from any escape from their exploitation. Because the organisation wants to continue to exploit. Just as the shrinks used to treat attempting to escape as a mental illness (drapetomania), so the modern shrink treats the attempt to escape oppression and exploitation by suicide as a mental illness today. Any resemblance between religion and psychiatry is purely un-coincidental.

:fire:

Reply to javi2541997 Reply to javi2541997
Quoting 180 Proof
What's the hurry? Why seek a permanent escape from temporary problems? How can you be so optimistic that the end is certainly the end of suffering?
javi2541997 July 05, 2022 at 05:44 #715697
Reply to 180 Proof

Why seek a permanent escape from temporary problems?


Unfortunately, they are not temporary but perpetual.

How can you be so optimistic that the end is certainly the end of suffering?


It is not about optimism but hope. I guess it is a weak decision to fix the problems but the concept of "end" could be the finish of some important issues such as suffering or depression.
180 Proof July 05, 2022 at 06:01 #715701
Quoting javi2541997
Unfortunately, they are not temporary but perpetual.

Then you dispute
Quoting Tom Storm
Most people do find a way to work through the issues and find reasons to live

or the finding that many suicide-attempt survivors realize they did not really want to die?

javi2541997 July 05, 2022 at 06:14 #715703
Reply to 180 Proof

That's a very important conjecture. To be honest, 180 Proof, I don't know what to answer precisely because I don't know what it feels like when someone survive a suicide-attempt. I wish most of the cases we see the scenario which @Tom Storm shared with us and they end up finding a cause to keep living.
But, probably, there are other examples of survivors that realize that they do not want to die because the act itself can hurt others connected to them such as family or friends
Agent Smith July 05, 2022 at 06:16 #715705
Well, as far as I can tell, suicide is usually/always the last option. In other words, it's forced upon the suicider. To that extent, the person who takes their own life isn't guilty of any offense as free will isn't part of the equation.

The logic of the suicider is plain & simple: Algos or Thanatos and we all know everybody's terrified of jahanam.

That said, killing oneself is, if you examine it closely, a gross aberration - it goes against the very essence of (all) life which is to, well, live (for as long as possible with immortality being no. 1 on the wish list). Ergo, the antagonism the living bear against suiciders is as expected - they (the living) are made a mockery of (their basic survival instinct is being ridiculed) and nobody and I mean nobody likes to be laughed at/made the butt of a joke.

Suicide is an insult to life, delivered in the most :vomit: ways possible.

There's more...chew on that for the moment.
javi2541997 July 05, 2022 at 06:34 #715707
Reply to Agent Smith

Suicide is an insult to life, delivered in the most ways possible.


I think one of the main inconvenients here is the act of seeing "life" as something sacred or worthy. You see suicide as an insult to life because (I guess) you understand there are a lot of reasons to keep living doesn't matter the "temporary" problems we have to deal with.
But what if I say that life is pointless... I am not insulting myself but doing an act of revolution against the status quo. Some see it as the worst scenario but others see it as a solemn solution to the problems.
Bartricks July 05, 2022 at 10:52 #715745
Reply to javi2541997 I don't know what you are saying anymore.
Do you agree that it is contrary to one's interest to kill oneself, extreme unending agony aside?
javi2541997 July 05, 2022 at 10:58 #715748
Reply to Bartricks

What I want to say is that suicide depends on circumstances. We cannot say as an overall that the act itself is "contrary to one's interests" because we do not really know what struggles someone who has such big dilemma.
So, I am not sure I am agree if suicide is contrary to my own interests.
Bartricks July 05, 2022 at 11:00 #715749
Reply to javi2541997 But killing someone harms them, yes? It may sometimes be the lesser of two evils, but it's still a harm, isn't it?
javi2541997 July 05, 2022 at 11:14 #715752
Reply to Bartricks

Well, yes. It is harm to all the people who are related to the suicidal because they would suffer their lost, but I do not see it as harmful to the dead one because he/she chose this path to end their pain
Bartricks July 05, 2022 at 11:52 #715755
Reply to javi2541997 So killing someone does that person no harm?! Killing an unloved hermit is a harmless thing to do?
This doesn't sound right at all. Death is a colossal harm to the one who dies. That's why it's used as a punishment. That's why killing others is so wrong. And it's why killing oneself to avoid a boring meeting would be stupid (whereas killing oneself to avoid endless agony would not be).
javi2541997 July 05, 2022 at 12:11 #715757
Reply to Bartricks
That's why killing others is so wrong.


Exactly, and do you know why is it wrong? Because the killer is selfish and is manipulating other people's lives. That's why is unfair and sad one someone kills another. Each human should have the right of deciding about their own existence. I mean, the chance to decide whenever I don't want to live anymore
Bartricks July 05, 2022 at 12:26 #715759
Reply to javi2541997 We are talking at cross purposes. I am not denying that a person is entitled to kill themselves if they so wish.
My point is that death is extremely harmful to the one who dies. And thus to kill oneself is to do oneself a great harm. It is going to be irrational under most circumstances. It would be a case of jumping out of the frying pan into an even hotter fire.

javi2541997 July 05, 2022 at 12:32 #715760
Reply to Bartricks

But... Do you mean harmful in a physical or psychological context? Because for sure it is so painful killing myself if I do sp in a hot fire. Nevertheless, a suicidal tend to find out another alternatives such as hanging.
It would sound so drastic but after doing such act the suicidal would find inner peace and stop suffering from psychological harm
Bartricks July 05, 2022 at 12:33 #715763
Reply to javi2541997 So if you hang an unloved hermit you have done him no harm?
javi2541997 July 05, 2022 at 12:48 #715771
Reply to Bartricks

Physically yes, but not mentally.
Anyway, why I have to do such act? The hermit can do it himself
Bartricks July 05, 2022 at 14:05 #715790
Reply to javi2541997 The point is that killing the hermit does the hermit great harm.

So death is a great harm to the one who dies. A huge harm. It's one of the biggest.

So, if you kill yourself, then you are doing yourself a great harm.

That's a stupid thing to do, unless doing it prevented you from coming to an even greater harm.

Imagine you are upset one day and you decide to saw one of your ears off, a la van gogh. That's not sensible. You've made your situation worse, not better. Now you are upset and you only have one ear.

That's what death does. It makes our situation worse, not better. The only exception would be if your life is terrible with no prospect of it being otherwise.
Agent Smith July 05, 2022 at 14:41 #715799
Quoting javi2541997
life is pointless


[quote=Albert Camus (The Myth of Sisyphus)]There is only one really serious philosophical question, and that is suicide.[/quote]

Quoting javi2541997
seeing "life" as something sacred or worthy.


My oversight, apologies.

Algos hunts with the hounds and runs with the hares. O horror of horrors! Do you see any light at the end of this tunnel? I'm dead beat! You're on your own! Good luck.

javi2541997 July 05, 2022 at 14:43 #715800
Quoting Bartricks
Imagine you are upset one day and you decide to saw one of your ears off, a la van gogh. That's not sensible. You've made your situation worse, not better. Now you are upset and you only have one ear.


But here Van Gogh injured himself without dying. It is not the same goal. Probably he did so, as you explained, just to calm some of his anger but I guess he never thought about suicide at all.

Quoting Bartricks
The only exception would be if your life is terrible with no prospect of it being otherwise.


Then, you are agree with me with the fact that suicide could be the ending to many unfixable problems.
javi2541997 July 05, 2022 at 14:45 #715801
Quoting Agent Smith
Do you see any light at the end of this tunnel?


I see it but I am not brave enough to walk up there :death:
Ciceronianus July 05, 2022 at 15:19 #715803
It's quite simple. No persons, no religions.
Tate July 05, 2022 at 15:35 #715807
No, it's that a certain critical population level is required for the existence of a priestly, educated class. In Rome, just maintaining the population at a steady level required that every woman have like five babies (or thereabouts, don't remember the specifics).

Agent Smith July 05, 2022 at 16:05 #715809
Quoting javi2541997
I see it but I am not brave enough to walk up there :death:


I'm sorry.
Agent Smith July 06, 2022 at 02:56 #715916
Quoting Bartricks
That's a stupid thing to do, unless doing it prevented you from coming to an even greater harm


Keep it coming! :clap:
Agent Smith July 06, 2022 at 03:03 #715917
Were there any cases of suicides during the holocaust? I don't recall reading of mass suicides among those interned in Nazi concentration camps. Too tired to think (of killing oneself out of hell)?

[quote=Ms. Marple]Most interesting.[/quote]

javi2541997 July 06, 2022 at 04:30 #715943
Quoting Agent Smith
Were there any cases of suicides during the holocaust? I don't recall reading of mass suicides among those interned in Nazi concentration camps


That's a pretty good question and thought. I do not recall a specific case of a suicidal victim doing such act just to avoid the concentration camp.
Nevertheless... we have to highlight that Adolf Hitler killed himself before seeing the loss of Nazi Germany
Agent Smith July 06, 2022 at 04:33 #715945
Quoting javi2541997
Adolf Hitler killed himself


He was well-fed and well-rested...he had time to ruminate.
180 Proof July 06, 2022 at 04:43 #715950
Quoting javi2541997
I do not see it as harmful to the dead one because he/she chose this path to end their pain

How does one know that, certainly causing so much "pain" to family and friends, one's own "pain" will end with deliberately killing oneself?
Agent Smith July 06, 2022 at 04:47 #715953
At first, I thought there was something paradoxical in that the warning shot (Algos/Hell) is more dangerous/terrifying than taking a bullet (Thanatos/Death).

However, it makes sense like this :point: [math]Algos \to Thanatos[/math]
javi2541997 July 06, 2022 at 05:35 #715965
Quoting 180 Proof
How does one know that, certainly causing so much "pain" to family and friends, one's own "pain" will end with deliberately killing oneself?


We do not have clear information about after death experience yet. This kind of "uncertainty" gives some "hope" to all of those who are suffering a lot of pain in life.
It is true that the act of suicide could be selfish towards family and friends who would suffer the lost of the deceased.
I think suicide should be understood in an individualistic way. If we see it as "collective" it would lose their real nature or meaning.
Tom Storm July 06, 2022 at 06:50 #715989
Quoting 180 Proof
How does one know that, certainly causing so much "pain" to family and friends, one's own "pain" will end with deliberately killing oneself?


I don't know what it was like in the USA, but here 30-40 years ago there was often a puerile romanticism around suicide, especially amongst nascent-Emo young people who thought that the act of suicide had a mystique to it. The option of suicide was often wielded at others with passive-aggressive defiance. It was a kind of an aesthetic, soft-core existentialist posture. Was that just us?
180 Proof July 06, 2022 at 09:00 #716035
Reply to Tom Storm I think it was fairly pervasive here in the states in the 90s & 00s in the emo / grunge scenes. Outside of those "teen-angsty" scenes though I'd lost a few friends and a couple of exes in the 80s to suicide (and a few more to fatal thrill-seeking since). Plenty more suicide attempts too.
Paine July 07, 2022 at 00:36 #716316
I am not sure how to distinguish between willful ending of life from choosing to not defend life. I have one old friend who fought to the last and another who did not. They are both dead now.
javi2541997 July 07, 2022 at 05:09 #716367
Quoting Paine
They are both dead now.


Here is your answer then. There is not a difference between the two scenarios of your friends. One interpreted death in his own beliefs or thoughts and the other did the same too but the result is the same for both: deceased
Agent Smith July 07, 2022 at 06:50 #716387
Well, if suffering is self-caused (karma/east and you sow what you reap/west) then death (Algos' alterego Thanatos) must be too, oui? We're all committing suicide then, right?
javi2541997 July 07, 2022 at 07:41 #716402
Quoting Agent Smith
if suffering is self-caused (karma/east and you sow what you reap/west) then death (Algos' alterego Thanatos) must be too, oui?


Exactly. Well written, Sir. I see suffering and death correlated in self-caused actions. I don't see it in exterior facts but it is true that we also have to take some consideration about them.

Quoting Agent Smith
We're all committing suicide then, right?


One day, soon or after, we will be dead. Each is individual is free to choose the path to do so.
baker July 07, 2022 at 17:28 #716534
Quoting Tom Storm
I have responded to many individuals who wanted to kill themselves. In every case I've seen it is because life has become unbearable through chronic pain, the loss of a loved one, major depression, sexual abuse, trauma - that kind of thing. Most people do find a way to work through the issues and

find reasons to live.


The real question is whether those people who failed in their suicide attempt "found reasons to live" because those reasons were somehow already present for them prior to the suicide attempt, or did they find them precisely because they seriously attempted suicide.

It is imaginable that a serious suicide attempt (one where the reasonably predictable outcome of the method is death) brings about a special change in the person's cognition (on a biochemical level).

Note how suicide survivor stories differ: those who survived falls from great heights or gunshot wounds to the chest or abdomen seem to be far more optimistic than those who survived a medication overdose or slit wrists.

baker July 07, 2022 at 17:29 #716535
Quoting Moses
Suicide causes immeasurable pain and suffering to those who knew the deceased. Parents never get over it. You'd be causing immeasurable suffering to your parents and siblings.


More likely, it's those same parents and siblings -- and friends or a spouse -- who actually drive a person into suicide.

More pertinent than suicide is the prevalence and relevance of people wishing that someone would kill themselves (or generally, that they would die).


Quoting Bartricks
Do you agree that it is contrary to one's interest to kill oneself, extreme unending agony aside?


The sad irony of it all is that it can be the same people who tell you not to kill yourself who also wish you would be dead.
baker July 07, 2022 at 17:29 #716536
Quoting Bartricks
So death is a great harm to the one who dies. A huge harm. It's one of the biggest.


What's the bigger harm (or harms)?
baker July 07, 2022 at 17:31 #716537
Quoting javi2541997
Nevertheless... we have to highlight that Adolf Hitler killed himself before seeing the loss of Nazi Germany


Not just he, but many other Nazis as well.
javi2541997 July 07, 2022 at 18:20 #716547
Quoting baker
Not just he, but many other Nazis as well.


Exactly, because those Nazi officials understood suicide as a honorable ending. Quite similar to Japanese commanders after Nagasaki and Hiroshima attacks.
javi2541997 July 07, 2022 at 18:27 #716551
Quoting baker
It is imaginable that a serious suicide attempt (one where the reasonably predictable outcome of the method is death) brings about a special change in the person's cognition (on a biochemical level).


It would make a big impact whenever you feel you are closer to death than ever. It takes a while until a suicidal makes his final "choice" because he tends to plan which path is better to end his life.
If after giving a try it results in surviving that's would affect psychologically. To be honest, I would feel pretty bad with myself and think: "I am so pathetic that I can't even end my own life"
[...] I don't know. I don't think I would feel better if I survive a suicidal attempt.

Keep in mind that suicide (supposedly) is the end to all pain and suffering. It has to work. A suicidal doesn't expect to fail the attempt
baker July 07, 2022 at 18:37 #716554
Quoting javi2541997
A suicidal doesn't expect to fail the attempt


Presumably some suicide attempts are intended to fail to begin with (the harm inflicted upon oneself is clearly not grave enough).
javi2541997 July 07, 2022 at 19:03 #716565
Quoting baker
Presumably some suicide attempts are intended to fail to begin with


Then, those suicide attempts are fake. We cannot play about dying or not dying because whenever we pass through it there is no coming back. This is why, supposedly, a suicidal wants to attempt. Not come back to "life" because it "s*cks"
So, if I try a suicide attempt with the intention to fail, I am contrary to the nature of suicide itself.
Tom Storm July 07, 2022 at 19:34 #716574
Quoting javi2541997
Exactly, because those Nazi officials understood suicide as a honorable ending.


Not really. It was mainly driven by fear. Fear of being held responsible and of being put on display and fear of reprisals. Some Nazi's even killed all their children before killing themselves. They were mostly like terrified rats leaving a sinking ship.
javi2541997 July 07, 2022 at 19:48 #716578
Quoting Tom Storm
It was mainly driven by fear. Fear of being held responsible and of being put on display and frar of reprisals.


So interesting indeed. They were more afraid of the reprisals than dying and end his life destroying everything they built during Nazi Germany.
Bartricks July 07, 2022 at 21:13 #716585
Reply to baker Extreme unending agony. Under those circumstances it seems the lesser of two evils and thus rational. So it must be a very great harm if that's what it takes to eclipse it.
baker July 10, 2022 at 20:41 #717440
Quoting Tom Storm
Not really. It was mainly driven by fear. Fear of being held responsible and of being put on display and fear of reprisals.


How do you know that?

Can you substantiate your claim with empirical evidence, or is it just conjecture?

baker July 10, 2022 at 20:42 #717441
Quoting javi2541997
They were more afraid of the reprisals than dying and end his life destroying everything they built during Nazi Germany.


Again:

How do you know that?
Can you substantiate your claim with empirical evidence, or is it just conjecture?
baker July 10, 2022 at 20:44 #717442
Quoting Bartricks
Extreme unending agony.


That requires belief in one's eternal damnation. This is a very specific belief.
Tom Storm July 10, 2022 at 21:24 #717451
Quoting baker
How do you know that?

Can you substantiate your claim with empirical evidence, or is it just conjecture?


This is reasonably well established, in as much as it is part of the official record left by historians such as Ian Kershaw in Nemisis and Joachim Fest Inside Hitler's Bunker: The Last Days of the Third Reich and Hugh Trevor Roper's The Last Days of Hitler and others.
baker July 10, 2022 at 21:37 #717460
Reply to Tom Storm Can you provide direct quotations?
Your interpretation is not in line with Nazi ideology. It's certainly an interpretation in line with what many people _wish_ that the Nazis would think and feel, or what many people believe that the Nazis _should_ think and feel, but that still doesn't make it the case.
Tom Storm July 10, 2022 at 21:42 #717463
Quoting baker
Can you provide direct quotations?


No - I don't have time to go over the books and pull them out. If that's a problem for you feel free to ignore my comment.

Quoting baker
Your interpretation is not in line with Nazi ideology.


It's not my interpretation and you're assuming that actually Nazi's actually followed their ideology even in adversity.

baker July 10, 2022 at 21:54 #717470
Quoting Tom Storm
It's not my interpretation


You framed it that way earlier on.

and your assuming that actually Nazi's actually followed their ideology even in adversity.


In WW documentaries, I have heard of suicide letters from them that give me reason to believe that they in fact did. In those letters, they said things like, "I cannot bear to live in a world ruled by an inferior race".

I also had a friend whose father was a real Nazi from WWII. I got to know him. I have reason to believe that these people would rather die, even by their own hand, than live under the rule of those they deem inferior to themselves.

Bartricks July 10, 2022 at 23:00 #717504
Reply to baker I do not see that. That's a possible explanation of why we have reason not to kill ourselves unless we are in unending agony. But the point is that if we only have instrumental reason to kill ourselves if we are in unending agony, then death must be extremely harmful to the one who dies. Not quite as harmful as suffering a life here of extreme agony - hence why we would have instrumental reason to kill ourselves under those circs - but very harmful.

And that's why religions typically condemn it. It is, I think, primarily out of a concern to prevent someone harming themselves
javi2541997 July 11, 2022 at 04:28 #717619
Quoting baker
Can you substantiate your claim with empirical evidence, or is it just conjecture?


It is just a conjecture because, sadly, I am not able to know what is inside of a suicidal mind. Some defend that those commanders committed suicide trying to avoid being captured. Others defend the thesis that the killed themselves as an act of honour.
The second thesis, I completely believe it related to Japanese commanders. They did Seppuku as an act of honour towards the emperors for not winning the WWII.
Agent Smith July 11, 2022 at 04:53 #717626
We can do whatever we want to our property. For instance, my watch - I can hammer it to pieces, gift it to someone, wear it, throw it into the lake, so on and so forth! Nobody will say a thing...or will they???!!!

"Our" life, in religion, isn't ours and/or it isn't a property.

Simple!
Merkwurdichliebe July 11, 2022 at 05:45 #717633
Agent Smith July 11, 2022 at 05:47 #717635
Reply to Merkwurdichliebe :rofl: Trying (hard) to reason!
baker July 12, 2022 at 19:10 #718088
Quoting Bartricks
Extreme unending agony.


Quoting baker
That requires belief in one's eternal damnation.


Quoting Bartricks
I do not see that.


Extreme unending agony is possible only in a scenario of eternal damnation. In most other scenarios, death of the body is taken to mean the end of suffering.


And that's why religions typically condemn it. It is, I think, primarily out of a concern to prevent someone harming themselves


I'm not so sure that religions' inention is that compassionate.
baker July 12, 2022 at 19:17 #718089
Quoting javi2541997
Others defend the thesis that the killed themselves as an act of honour.
The second thesis, I completely believe it related to Japanese commanders. They did Seppuku as an act of honour towards the emperors for not winning the WWII.


In traditional Japanese culture, there is also the concept of rebirth tied in with suicide; there, suicide isn't seen as the total end of one's existence, the way it is usually seen in secular Western culture.
javi2541997 July 12, 2022 at 20:03 #718107
Quoting baker
In traditional Japanese culture, there is also the concept of rebirth tied in with suicide; there, suicide isn't seen as the total end of one's existence, the way it is usually seen in secular Western culture.


Exactly, I think Japanese culture (as an overall) doesn't see death as an ending and I think that is so respectful and aesthetic. I sometimes miss the freedom of speaking about death because soon or later I will experience it. I don't want to see it as a taboo topic or so dramatic. I want to understand it as a natural process.
Bartricks July 13, 2022 at 01:33 #718182
Reply to baker Quoting baker
Extreme unending agony is possible only in a scenario of eternal damnation. In most other scenarios, death of the body is taken to mean the end of suffering.


If death ends your suffering, then it's hard to see how it would be so harmful that only extreme unending agony in this world could make it in one's interest to kill oneself.

The point, however, is that death is clearly extremely harmful. That's in the bank. There's no serious dispute over it. The dispute is over 'why' it is extremely harmful, not whether it is.

Epicurus argued that death is not harmful at all, but virtually everyone rejects his conclusion - as it is so obviously contrary to reason - and debates instead what precisely has gone wrong with his argument.

The important point, where the rationality of suicide is concerned, is that the evidence that death is extremely harmful - one of the most harmful things that can befall one - is overwhelming. Poor reasoning about the harmfulness of death is also commonplace. But that it is extremely harmful is not in serious dispute.

We can note this ourselves, for who among us would recommend suicide to a person apart from under the most extreme circumstances? If death didn't harm a person, then it'd be rational to recommend it all the time. Let's say you've got to have a root canal tomorrow. Well, kill yourself, then you won't have to undergo it. The root canal will be harmful. But death won't be. Yet that's obviously extremely irrational. Why? Because death is a huge harm that eclipses by an order of magnitude the harm of a root canal.
Merkwurdichliebe July 13, 2022 at 01:39 #718184
Quoting Bartricks
The point, however, is that death is clearly extremely harmful. That's in the bank. There's no serious dispute over it.


What about the sacrifice of one life to save millions of other lives? That seems like a death that is extremely helpful to millions (assuming they are not suicidal).

(What if Hitler could have been snuggled to death as a baby?)
Bartricks July 13, 2022 at 01:48 #718187
Reply to Merkwurdichliebe Yes, that just serves to underline the point. Killing yourself to save others from a similar fate is - sometimes - rational because it is sometimes the right thing to do. But it's the right thing to do 'because' death is so harmful, not because it's nothing or no more significant than a stubbed toe.

I was also careful to say that escaping extreme agony is what it seems to take to make suicide in one's own interest. That is, it's what it takes for one to have 'instrumental' reason to kill oneself. Instrumental reasons are not moral reasons. And sometimes we might find ourselves with moral reason to kill ourselves if, say, doing so will save the lives of countless others or some such. (There are other ways too - one might come to deserve to die through one's atrocious behaviour, for instance).

The point remains that all of this is evidence of just how harmful death is to the one who dies. And thus that's probably why religions condemn it as immoral. It isn't actually immoral, at least not in the main (it's irrational in the main, but not immoral). But it is so harmful to the one who dies that it makes sense to condemn it morally, so as to reduce the chances of someone subjecting themselves to it. For someone who is in, say, the grips of depression or some other mental episode is typically not going to be very good at thinking about what is truly in their own best interests, but they may still be motivated to do what is right.
javi2541997 July 13, 2022 at 04:14 #718220
Quoting Merkwurdichliebe
(What if Hitler could have been snuggled to death as a baby?)


Nazism would be able to exist anyway. Hitler was not the only chain of Nazi Germany. The führer could be elected on Goebbles or Himmler, for example. There are some facts inside history that looks like unavoidable.
WWIII and Nazism had to exist to take a good lesson from it. I mean, soon or later, this kind of world issues happen.

What if Putin could have been snuggled to death as a baby? ... well I guess another Russian oligarch with another name would have attacked Ukraine too.
Agent Smith July 13, 2022 at 04:37 #718223
Fun facts

1. Animals don't suicide no matter how extreme their suffering.

2. Humans suicide when extreme their suffering.