What if a loved one was a P-Zombie?

hypericin July 09, 2022 at 21:19 6800 views 96 comments
Scientists make an astonishing discovery: a certain microstructure in the brain, previously believed to be vestigial, is in fact responsible for consciousness. Moreover, this structure is absent in part of the population.

Behaviorally, its absence makes little difference, apart for a few subtle impairments. But internally, the consequences are profound: those who lack this structure have no internal lives at all. They are P-Zombies. There is striking scientific consensus to this fact, comparable to that for anthropogenic climate change.

A quick test is developed for the presence of this structure. You take it, and of course, you are positive. Unfortunately, your loved one is negative: They are a P Zombie.

How would you respond?

Would you lie to yourself, cling to the <1% of dissenting experts, and carry on the relationship as if they were not a P-Zombie?
Would you continue the relationship with full knowledge of their zombiehood, as ultimately it doesn't matter?
Would you abandon the relationship?
Would you continue the relationship, and treat this finding as permission to give full vent to your most sadistic, narcissistic fantasies? (Polls are anonymous)

Comments (96)

Jackson July 09, 2022 at 21:31 #717100
Worries about zombies is a vestige of the Christian idea of a soul.
Bartricks July 09, 2022 at 21:38 #717101
Reply to hypericin I don't see the philosophical relevance of your questions.

If you discovered that your house, which up to now you had thought was made of wood and plaster, was actually made of brandy snaps and icing sugar, would you a) start eating it; b) move out; c) sell up; d) start thinking you were living in a children's story; e) go and sit in your chocolate cake sofa and watch a box set?
hypericin July 09, 2022 at 21:53 #717105
Reply to Bartricks An asinine reply worthy of a p zombie.
Bartricks July 09, 2022 at 21:58 #717106
Reply to hypericin That makes no sense. P zombies resemble us in every outward way, so there is no 'reply' that is typical of them but not us. And it wouldn't be a real reply if I were a p zombie - it'd be bot generated. So it would be an apparent reply, but not a real one.
But if this is a bot reply would you a) bake a cake; b) make another reply that makes no sense and reveals the sloppy nature of your own thinking; c) start another thread asking philosophically uninteresting questions about a curious scenario?
hypericin July 09, 2022 at 22:00 #717107
Quoting Bartricks
That makes no sense. P zombies resemble us in every outward way


Yet, p zombies are thoughtless, as are you.
Jackson July 09, 2022 at 22:00 #717108
Quoting hypericin
Yet, p zombies are thoughtless, as are you.


Agree.
Bartricks July 09, 2022 at 22:01 #717109
Reply to hypericin So you went with b.
hypericin July 09, 2022 at 22:15 #717113
Quoting Jackson
Worries about zombies is a vestige of the Christian idea of a soul.


No, p-zombies are a thought experiment, not the kind of thing that keeps most people up at night.

If I had to put my "philosophy question" baldly, it would be: "are relationships, especially loving ones, contingent on the sentience of the other party?"
Jackson July 09, 2022 at 22:18 #717115
Quoting hypericin
No, p-zombies are a thought experiment,


I know what it is.
Bartricks July 09, 2022 at 22:18 #717116
Reply to Jackson But how do you know that you agree? How does anyone know anything?

Scientists have discovered that your loved one is genetically a cat, even though they are in every other way indistinguishable from another human. Do you a) have her put down; b) insist she eat from a dish on the floor and stay off the furniture; c) rethink the visit to the bird sanctuary; d)continue as normal and watch a box set?
180 Proof July 10, 2022 at 00:01 #717143
Not care. It's about my "sentience", not theirs.
hypericin July 10, 2022 at 01:19 #717159
Quoting 180 Proof
Not care. It's about my "sentience", not theirs.

Doesn't love require connection? How can you connect with someone you know isn't there?
Why the scare quotes?
180 Proof July 10, 2022 at 01:46 #717163
Quoting hypericin
Doesn't love require connection? How can you connect with someone you know isn't there?

We love people we do not have a "connection" with e.g. celebrities, authors, leaders, the dead, etc. We also love inanimate or abstract objects e.g. stuffed animals, our country / city, our sports team, vehicles, cultural objects, power, wealth, etc. Love is a highly emotional attachment to someone/thing with or without "connection".

Why the scare quotes?

"Sentience" may be epiphenomenal and serve no more of a function than color-sightedness.
god must be atheist July 10, 2022 at 02:53 #717168
Reply to 180 Proof Quoting 180 Proof
"Sentience" may be epiphenomenal and serve no more of a function than color-sightedness.


If this practice of skepticism was followed through thoroughly and logically and truly, then you'd need to put every word in quotes whatever you write.

I think you'd do better by following the language convention according to the unwritten rules of the convention, instead of making maverick exceptions with select words, that are illogically unconnected to the context of your selection.

To wit: function is an epiphenomenon.
Wit is an epiphenomenon.
Be is an epiphenomenon.

I have more and more respect for you as the time goes by and the more I read of your posts, but you actually ANGER :death: :naughty: :rage: :fire: :vomit: me with your illogical writing style.
god must be atheist July 10, 2022 at 03:02 #717169
Quoting hypericin
Would you continue the relationship, and treat this finding as permission to give full vent to your most sadistic, narcissistic fantasies? (Polls are anonymous)


It does not work that way. A true sadist never finds true satisfaction, because he or she does not feel the pain of the victim. This is why sadism / masochism is oft a flip-flop switch. If s/he does not feel his/her victim's pain, then s/he does not feel s/he is inflicting pain. If the subject is a zombie, then the sadist is even farther removed from his/her goal, which is inflicting pain.

This is why trying to inflict pain in bartricks is a losing endeavour. S/he is truly a troll; a rock-eating, heave-ho mountain troll. She has no feelings, she is a badly written A/I program that went loose cannon. To shut her up is impossible by holding a mirror to her; to shut her up you need to not respond to her.


NOS4A2 July 10, 2022 at 03:46 #717188
It’s not a lie to dissent. I would defer to dissent from the prevailing view because the claim that one is not conscious but they still perform the activity of conscious people betrays my intuition and experience.

I would retain my relationships in the belief that greater minds will supersede these views with their own.
hypericin July 10, 2022 at 04:06 #717199
Quoting 180 Proof
We love people we do not have a "connection" with e.g. celebrities, authors, leaders, the dead, etc. We also love inanimate or abstract objects e.g. stuffed animals, our country / city, our sports team, vehicles, cultural objects, power, wealth, etc


Try telling your partner you love them like you love your teddy bear or your sports team. These are not the same relationships, even if the word "love" can be used for all of them.

Quoting 180 Proof
"Sentience" may be epiphenomenal and serve no more of a function than color-sightedness.


This possibility is what the p zombie thought experiment suggests. I've never heard the suggestion that color sightedness serves no function.





hypericin July 10, 2022 at 04:11 #717200
Quoting NOS4A2
betrays my intuition and experience


That does not make it false.

I am stipulating that p zombies are real in this scenario, and you still won't accept it. This is lying to yourself, just as "dissenting" from overwhelming scientific consensus, unless you truly have the expertise to do so. You should have chosen 'a'.
Marchesk July 10, 2022 at 06:21 #717227
I think if you had reason to believe someone was just acting as if they loved you, but didn't, and the relationship was based on the belief in mutual feeling of love, then you would leave them. I don't want to be with someone who's just going through the motions, even if it's because they're a p-zombie, and even if it's very convincing.

Imagine a really good actor was paid without your knowledge to pretend to fall in love with you and start a romantic relationship. The relationship goes well, but then you discover the truth. Do you go on with the lie? I suspect not.

There have been con artists and sociopaths who have fooled people into relationships, but of course their behavior eventually outs the truth. The p-zombie wouldn't.

Other kinds of relationships my have obligations and rewards that don't require a belief in someone's experience of love. Maybe you just enjoy being around that person enough that it doesn't matter? I think it would at least hurt to find out some relationships had no reciprocal feelings. But a romantic one is most likely a deal breaker, unless you're hopelessly in love. Or you've been married long enough, lol.
NOS4A2 July 10, 2022 at 06:34 #717233
Reply to hypericin

That doesn’t make it true, either. Your stipulation is just that, a stipulation, like they stipulated phlogiston or a pantheon of gods. A dissenting view isn’t a lie. You ought to have had an option for dissenting from the prevailing view.
ChrisH July 10, 2022 at 06:40 #717236
Quoting hypericin
Behaviorally, its absence makes little difference


What difference? Or do you mean to say "no difference"?
180 Proof July 10, 2022 at 06:46 #717238
Reply to god must be atheist I've no idea what you're talking about.

Reply to hypericin I neither claimed nor implied that color-signedness "serves no function". Also, what you say about "love" is a non sequitur with respect to the question posed in the OP.
hypericin July 10, 2022 at 06:46 #717239
Quoting NOS4A2
That doesn’t make it true, either. Your stipulation is just that, a stipulation, like they stipulated phlogiston or a pantheon of gods.


In my imaginary scenario I have the power to stipulate whatever I wish. But please, "dissent" away. Is that you I see with the tin foil hat and cardboard sign?
unenlightened July 10, 2022 at 07:18 #717243
Quoting hypericin
In my imaginary scenario I have the power to stipulate whatever I wish.


You do. But I do not have the power to make sense of the philosophical zombie stipulations. It seems to me that the concept relies on a confusion of awareness with identity. Take an alzheimer's sufferer for example who might be your spouse. They may have forgotten your relationship and treat you as a stranger, but you have not, and do not. The relationship has become one-sided in this sense of identity sharing, but the person still feels joy and suffers fear and pain, just as animals do. That basic awareness should be absent while memory and identification is fully functional simply makes no sense to me.

"Alexa, what would you like for supper?"
Marchesk July 10, 2022 at 07:50 #717254
Quoting unenlightened
That basic awareness should be absent while memory and identification is fully functional simply makes no sense to me.


You mean qualia? Because "awareness" or "self reports" are not considered consciousness by philosophers like chalmers, since they can be defined in purely functional terms, and implemented in robots or code. It's the sensations of colors, pains, emotions that make up consciousness. And those aren't functional.
unenlightened July 10, 2022 at 07:58 #717257
Quoting Marchesk
You mean qualia? Because "awareness" or "self reports" are not considered consciousness by philosophers like chalmers, since they can be defined in purely functional terms, and implemented in robots or code. It's the sensations of colors, pains, emotions that make up consciousness. And those aren't functional.


I can't make sense of quaila either. Never knowingly had one. Am I a zombie?
Marchesk July 10, 2022 at 07:58 #717258
Quoting unenlightened
I can't make sense of quaila either. Never knowingly had one. Am I a zombie?


You've never experienced red or pain or love? Sorry to heart that!
unenlightened July 10, 2022 at 08:20 #717259
Reply to Marchesk Oh you mean am I aware of stuff? Sure, of course, all the time when I am awake. But I never experience red - I see red flowers and postboxes and swatches on paint charts.

You are familiar with the ambiguity of 'experience'? Notice the tenses - I have or have not had an experience. It seems odd to say I am having or not having an experience. The case of alzheimers is instructive. Awareness as I call it, qualia as you want to call it or 'experiences' but no past tense experience to speak of. Your question repeats the confusion, from my point of view, of narrative self, as an identification in thought, and awareness as visceral presence in the world.
Marchesk July 10, 2022 at 08:27 #717261
Quoting unenlightened
But I never experience red - I see red flowers and postboxes and swatches on paint charts.


You never imagine or dream red stuff? At any rate, I'm sure you've experienced pain.

Quoting unenlightened
It seems odd to say I am having or not having an experience.


You probably don't have experiences for some of the time you're asleep. I take it to mean it would seem odd to say you don't have experiences while you're aware of something. I agree that is odd for a human being, although there are some conditions like blind sightedness in which partial awareness is missing. But is it odd to say that my phone has no awareness of feeling cold when it tells me it's cold outside? I don't think so, because phones don't have sensations.

Ned Block wrote a paper on the harder problem of consciousness about the android Data, and how we would have difficulty deciding on what basis Data was conscious. Data, like my phone, could tell us that it is cold outside. But this doesn't mean Data would feel cold.

Agent Smith July 10, 2022 at 08:30 #717263
Romance scams!

Honey traps!

Despite all the outwardly expressions of love, there is no love!

That said, speaking for myself, I would fall in love with a p-zombie despite the fact that in movies you shoot zombies in the head; even children kill zombies without raising eyebrows! :chin:
Marchesk July 10, 2022 at 08:31 #717264
Quoting Agent Smith
That said, speaking for myself, I would fall in love with a p-zombie despite the fact that in movies you shoot zombies in the head, even children shoot zombies without anyone batting an eyelid!


He's the real question. Would Jesus die for p-zombies?
Agent Smith July 10, 2022 at 08:36 #717266
Quoting Marchesk
He's the real question. Would Jesus die for p-zombies?


[quote=Ms. Marple]Most interesting.[/quote]

If p-zombies exist, physicalism would be false. Quite a riddle, this!

God is to humans as humans are to stones! And yet...
Marchesk July 10, 2022 at 08:39 #717267
Quoting Agent Smith
If p-zombies exist, physicalism would be false. Quite a riddle, this!


Well, what if the only universe that existed was the p-zombie one? Then physicalism would have to be true! I swear that sometimes Dennett and friends come awful close to arguing for that universe.
unenlightened July 10, 2022 at 08:40 #717268
"Are you awake?" the first aider asks the patient. "No." responds the patient, and the first aider is reassured.

Quoting Marchesk
But is it odd to say that my phone has no awareness of feeling cold when it tells me it's cold outside? I don't think so, because phones don't have sensations.


How does your phone know what it tells you? I imagine it does not know at all whether it is telling you it is cold outside or that happiness is a warm gun... because phones don't have sensations. But humans do, and they have arranged sensors compute and relay a weather report to you via your phone. Again the confusion between thought as the manipulation of information and awareness as presence in the world.
Agent Smith July 10, 2022 at 08:42 #717269
Quoting Marchesk
Well, what if the only universe that existed was the p-zombie one? Then physicalism would have to be true! I swear that sometimes Dennett and friends come awful close to arguing for that universe.


That possibility is moot as even in a world where p-zombies are ~?, we would be mere stones, not even p-zombies, relative to divine consciousness.
Marchesk July 10, 2022 at 08:43 #717270
Quoting unenlightened
Again the confusion between thought as the manipulation of information and awareness as presence in the world.


Alright, so a p-zombie would be the functional equivalent of the first since it lacks awareness.
Marchesk July 10, 2022 at 08:43 #717271
Quoting Agent Smith
That possibility is moot as even in a world where p-zombies are ~?, we would be mere stones, not even p-zombies, relative to divine consciousness.


At least p-zombie Jesus wouldn't feel pain on the cross. In fact, there were Docetists who argued that Jesus didn't suffer.
unenlightened July 10, 2022 at 08:47 #717272
Quoting Marchesk
Alright, so a p-zombie would be the functional equivalent of the first since it lacks awareness.


Yes. A p-zombie would be like a phone, not like a partner.
Agent Smith July 10, 2022 at 08:52 #717273
Quoting Marchesk
At least p-zombie Jesus wouldn't feel pain on the cross.


Why? He wasn't a p-zombie!, Post-crucifixion, all bets are off. I recall reading someone calling Jesus a zombie! :snicker:
NOS4A2 July 10, 2022 at 11:01 #717289
Reply to hypericin

In my imaginary scenario I have the power to stipulate whatever I wish. But please, "dissent" away. Is that you I see with the tin foil hat and cardboard sign?


You did stipulate what you wished, and it ended up implying dissent is lies and consensus is truth. I would wear a tinfoil hat and cardboard sign if it meant I didn’t have to agree with such absurdities.
god must be atheist July 10, 2022 at 16:28 #717370
Quoting 180 Proof
I've no idea what you're talking about.


Well, that's sad. I was writing about your writing style, and pointed out some fundamental mistakes in it.

But since you did not get it, there must be some fundamental problems in my writing style, too.
180 Proof July 10, 2022 at 17:20 #717383
hypericin July 10, 2022 at 19:56 #717430
Quoting NOS4A2
You did stipulate what you wished, and it ended up implying dissent is lies and consensus is truth. I would wear a tinfoil hat and cardboard sign if it meant I didn’t have to agree with such absurdities.


Not necessarily lies, I apologize. I left out other possibilities.
"Dissent" from universal expert consensus, i.e. climate deniers (are you one?), is either lies, or Dunning-Kreuger idiocy. Of course there is always the theoretical possibility of "Maverick Genius", but for our purposes we can ignore that one.

However, you have taken it one step further. I say, "Let X be true...", and you immediately raise your finger and say "I dissent! This contradicts my experiences and intuitions!". I don't know what to say, other than you must have been a joy to teach.
hypericin July 10, 2022 at 20:02 #717432
Quoting 180 Proof
I neither claimed nor implied that color-signedness "serves no function".


How else can I interpret

Quoting 180 Proof
Sentience" may be epiphenomenal and serve no more of a function than color-sightedness.



Quoting 180 Proof
Also, what you say about "love" is a non sequitur with respect to the question posed in the OP.


My OP was about "Loved Ones", so really it was your talk of loving teddy bears and sports teams that was a non sequitor.
bert1 July 10, 2022 at 20:15 #717433
I would thoroughly enjoy abusing them, although I'm not sure I would enjoy it actually, knowing that they aren't actually suffering.
bert1 July 10, 2022 at 20:18 #717434
Quoting 180 Proof
I neither claimed nor implied that color-signedness "serves no function".


It was a natural interpretation of your words.
baker July 10, 2022 at 20:20 #717435
Quoting bert1
I would thoroughly enjoy abusing them, although I'm not sure I would enjoy it actually, knowing that they aren't actually suffering.


You can never know that anyway. It's why revenge is such a drag.
baker July 10, 2022 at 20:23 #717436
Quoting hypericin
A quick test is developed for the presence of this structure. You take it, and of course, you are positive. Unfortunately, your loved one is negative: They are a P Zombie.

How would you respond?


People tend to treat others like zombies anyway: "You are whatever I say that you are. You feel whatever I say that you feel. Your intentions are whatever I say that your intentions are." People tend to treat others as if those others don't really exist, as if they are merely shells with no inner life, other than the one stipulated by other people.
unenlightened July 10, 2022 at 21:52 #717468
Alexa, I love you.
180 Proof July 10, 2022 at 21:54 #717471
Reply to bert1 I.e. a misinterpretation.
bert1 July 10, 2022 at 21:56 #717475
Quoting 180 Proof
a misinterpretation.


For which you bear partial responsibility
180 Proof July 10, 2022 at 22:08 #717484
Reply to bert1 Yeah, so I cleared up some ambiguity by pointing out that I've been misinterpreted. Try again, context matters.
NOS4A2 July 10, 2022 at 22:17 #717490
Reply to hypericin

Not necessarily lies, I apologize. I left out other possibilities.
"Dissent" from universal expert consensus, i.e. climate deniers (are you one?), is either lies, or Dunning-Kreuger idiocy. Of course there is always the theoretical possibility of "Maverick Genius", but for our purposes we can ignore that one.

However, you have taken it one step further. I say, "Let X be true...", and you immediately raise your finger and say "I dissent! This contradicts my experiences and intuitions!". I don't know what to say, other than you must have been a joy to teach.


There is no evidence or compelling argument for the existence of p-zombies in your scenario. Unfortunately the assertion that something is true is not enough to convince me or many others. If you had some evidence or reasonable arguments it would be a different story.
hypericin July 10, 2022 at 22:24 #717493
Quoting unenlightened
That basic awareness should be absent while memory and identification is fully functional simply makes no sense to me.


Computers have memory, and they identify themselves, but they have no awareness. Think of a p zombie as a perfect computer simulation of how a human behaves, without any of the internal stuff.
hypericin July 10, 2022 at 22:25 #717494
Quoting bert1
would thoroughly enjoy abusing them, although I'm not sure I would enjoy it actually, knowing that they aren't actually suffering.


Are you a sociopath then?

Quoting baker
People tend to treat others as if those others don't really exist, as if they are merely shells with no inner life, other than the one stipulated by other people.


I do not. Is this projection?
bert1 July 10, 2022 at 22:31 #717495
Quoting hypericin
Are you a sociopath then?


Oh, I don't know. Maybe, but I was joking I think. I started off not joking thinking it would be fun, then realised it might not be fun at all, then further realised that what fun was to be had would likely be in the suffering of another, and then I decided to stop thinking about it.
Marchesk July 11, 2022 at 01:22 #717552
So technically speaking, a p-zombie would have to be a sociopath, although they probably would behave normally, statistically speaking.
180 Proof July 11, 2022 at 02:29 #717569
Quoting hypericin
My OP was about "Loved Ones", so really it was your talk of loving teddy bears and sports teams that was [s]a non sequitor[/s]

A teddy bear is a "loved one" to a child (and some teens / adults). And try telling a group of "Cheese-heads" tailgating out at Lambeau Field with windchill @ -20° F that they doesn't really love the Green Bay Packers. :sweat:
noAxioms July 11, 2022 at 04:17 #717616
Back to the OP, which seems to have holes.
Quoting hypericin
Scientists make an astonishing discovery: a certain microstructure in the brain, previously believed to be vestigial, is in fact responsible for consciousness.

Exactly what evidence was collected to suggest this conclusion? Your implications are that the lack of this kind of consciousness would make no external difference, which leaves little to nothing for the scientists to measure.

I've stated elsewhere that I am one of those lacking in this "consciousnes" (yes, scary air quotes), since I've never been able to figure out what people have that a machine cannot. Sure, I see red, but only by processing the data coming from my red receptors, and any computer with a camera can do that.
Agent Smith July 11, 2022 at 04:35 #717620
Salient points:

1. To physicalists/nonphysicalists, to make your case prove p-zombies are impossible/possible (respectively).

2. The catch: P-zombies and normal people are indistinguishable.

Possible/impossible, to make the distinction, we must resort to a reductio ad absurdum i.e. the premises must entail a contradiction. Does this contradiction require an observation? If it does then such a proof is ~? (vide 2). In other words, the proof hasta be a priori (independent of experience). What's the nature of a priori proofs? Definitions? Play around with definitions? Pathetic!?
180 Proof July 11, 2022 at 05:38 #717632
hypericin July 11, 2022 at 06:59 #717643
Quoting noAxioms
Exactly what evidence was collected to suggest this conclusion?


Even though behaviorally it makes no difference, subjects might report a difference who have this structure temporarily knocked out. Perhaps there is a lapse of phenomenal memory. This is not really the point of the OP however.

Quoting noAxioms
I've never been able to figure out what people have that a machine cannot.


It's always weird to me when someone makes this claim. A digital camera sees red, and processes the data coming from it's red sensors. But it has no experience. A computer is no different.
unenlightened July 11, 2022 at 07:49 #717645
Quoting hypericin
Computers have memory, and they identify themselves, but they have no awareness. Think of a p zombie as a perfect computer simulation of how a human behaves, without any of the internal stuff.


Yes. There are two possibilities if such a simulation becomes possible; either they are zombies, or they have awareness. It seems to me at the moment, that although it is easy enough to mimic human behaviour in many ways, it is not really possible to mimic awareness without awareness, and that awareness is not an epiphenomenon of information processing. There is a stillness and emptiness to awareness quite different from the business of thought, that I don't think anyone has much considered trying to simulate in a computer, because it seems to have no function. Perhaps that is the secret that it has no function, but is just an epiphenomenon, but I think it has a vital function, which is to impart freedom. Zombies have no freedom.

Agent Smith July 11, 2022 at 07:59 #717647
P-zombies, for obvious reasons, remind me of thespians! Laughing but not actually amused, crying but not actually sad, angry but not, reasoning but no, not, so and so forth! We, as we are, can be p-zombies i.e. p-zombies are actual/real to the extent such an inference is allowed by superb acting.
noAxioms July 11, 2022 at 14:56 #717721
Quoting hypericin
This is not really the point of the OP however.
The point of the OP was apparently to play what-if games given a hypothetical empirical p-zombie test. But I'm addressing the opening assertion that such a test exists, which it cannot by Chalmers' definition.

Even though behaviorally it makes no difference, subjects might report a difference who have this structure temporarily knocked out.
This is self contradictory. Are you making this up or did the scientists in question actually say this? Did they actually say this structure is responsible for the kind of consciousness that the dualists are talking about?
If the subjects reported noticing a difference, then there's a behavioral difference. If it rendered them 'thoughtless' (your words from your 3rd post), they'd not be able to respond at all.
If it rendered them not sentient, they'd not be able to hear the question asked of them. Even a simple mechanical device is sentient since it can perceive its environment. But you're probably using a loaded definition of sentience.
If it disabled one's entire 'inner experience', you'd think the subject would notice the sudden total lack of experience.

All I see from your reply above (I didn't see any quotes from the article) is that the subject noticed the difference, which indicates that the structure is not entirely vestigial. That's all. Your description of having it disabled does not match that of a subject who suddenly is reft of experience and feelings.

Perhaps there is a lapse of phenomenal memory.
What is phenomenal memory? Memory of a phenomenon? All memory is phenomenal by that definition, except I suppose memory of conclusions reached by thought, such Fermat working out his last theorem.
Were the subjects asked about memory of past experiences? I still have zero quotes from them.

I've never been able to figure out what people have that a machine cannot.
— noAxioms
It's always weird to me when someone makes this claim.
You suggest that some people are zombies, but balk when I suggest I'm probably one of them since I don't see the problem that others do so clearly. Ah, but I'm behaving differently, and true zombies apparently must lie about this sort of thing. I don't do that, so somebody must be wrong.

A digital camera sees red
It does not, no more than does an eyeball. A human with an eye sees red. A device with a camera sees red if it in any way reacts to the data instead of just storing it like a camera does. OK, a smart camera with red-eye editing sees red. I'll buy that.

But it has no experience.
By what definition? It's not human, sure, and that's the usual definition. You have a better one that doesn't so much beg your conclusion?

Quoting hypericin
A quick test is developed for the presence of this structure. You take it, and of course, you are positive.
Of course? What if it isn't?
The Nazi's had similar tests, used to justify treating a segment of the population like cattle. The MAGA crowd would love this.
Down The Rabbit Hole July 11, 2022 at 16:34 #717758
Reply to hypericin

Interesting question.

As humans we want for our love to be returned. I imagine that it would completely ruin the relationship.
hypericin July 11, 2022 at 19:34 #717819
Quoting noAxioms
Are you making this up or did the scientists in question actually say this? Did they actually say this structure is responsible for the kind of consciousness that the dualists are talking about?


You completely misunderstood, this is all just background I made up for my hypothetical question. No scientists in question, no such structure has been discovered.

Quoting noAxioms
You suggest that some people are zombies, but balk when I suggest I'm probably one of them since I don't see the problem that others do so clearly.


In reality I would be very surprised if zombies existed. I think it is much more likely that there is a cognitive difference which makes this concept more difficult for some people.

Quoting noAxioms
A device with a camera sees red if it in any way reacts to the data instead of just storing it like a camera does.

A digital camera doesn't just store it, there are a multitude of processes which must occur before the light can be stored digitally. Correcting for red eye is just another transformation.

Quoting noAxioms
By what definition? It's not human, sure, and that's the usual definition.

That is not the usual definition. The usual is something more like "private internal perception". A camera or a computer can respond behaviorally to it's red sensors in essentially the same way you can to yours. But (we presume) only you have an accompanying subjective experience of red.

Try to describe what it is like to experience red to a blind person. You can use adjectives like "warm", "excitable", etc, but that is about as far as you can go. The internal experience is completely private, and completely incommunicable.

If indeed you lack this, this must sound like gibberish.

Quoting noAxioms
Ah, but I'm behaving differently, and true zombies apparently must lie about this sort of thing.


People cite this "no behavioral difference" as if it were some kind of iron law of p zombies, instead of a completely arbitrary stipulation in Chalmers's own thought experiment. In reality, if p zombies did exist, you would expect a behavioral difference of some sort, even if it were the kind of impairment that would only reveal itself in testing.

Benkei July 11, 2022 at 20:44 #717829
I love long walks, my cat and grand piano. I think I can manage loving a perfect facsimile of a person.
noAxioms July 11, 2022 at 21:41 #717843
Quoting hypericin
You completely misunderstood, this is all just background I made up for my hypothetical question. No scientists in question, no such structure has been discovered.
OK, that wasn't clear. I retract my attack on the OP since it wasn't a claim, only a proposition.
I suppose you can thus make up any answer you like.
I've had people ask what would happen if the sun suddenly wasn't there, and how long it would take for the Earth's orbit to change. The question has no answer since the posited scenario isn't possible. In a different universe with different rules, sure, you can ask such a question.

In reality I would be very surprised if zombies existed.
I'd be very surprised if somebody wasn't one, so go figure.

The usual is something more like "private internal perception". A camera or a computer can respond behaviorally to it's red sensors in essentially the same way you can to yours. But (we presume) only you have an accompanying subjective experience of red.
I don't see the difference. Sorry, I just don't. I notice you didn't hazzard a line between what likely has it (a dog? frog? jellyfish? non-gloppy-interior alien?). How could such a thing evolve? At some point a non-dualistic parent needs to breed a dualistic offspring, totally discarding all the beneficial functionality of the parents, offloading the task to this presumably more capable external entity. It makes no sense outside of religious creationism, a total denial of science.

The self-contained AI robot has all of it. It's internal perception. Where else is it going to go on? It is first person. Again, nothing else is doing the perception for it.
On the other hand, the perception proposed by the woo folks is
1) external: a sort of remote control of an avatar by the external entity
2) second person, since the avatar is not doing its own perception, sort of like a go-pro on a remote-controlled drone transmitting the images to the controller, and
3) not free willed since unlike the AI robot, the avatar cannot make any of its own choices. That doesn't sound like something making the physical entity more fit.

Sorry for the rant.

hypericin July 11, 2022 at 22:24 #717854
Damn, I wish I added, "I would not care because I am a p zombie"
Darkneos July 12, 2022 at 00:36 #717871
Reply to hypericin Source? From what I can tell there isn't a structure like that in the brain. So far they've isolated a bundle of nerves that turn it on and off but so far nothing like that has been found.

ALso how could you prove a lack of an internal life? You can't really measure that.
hypericin July 12, 2022 at 02:24 #717912
Reply to Darkneos
Quoting hypericin
You completely misunderstood, this is all just background I made up for my hypothetical question. No scientists in question, no such structure has been discovered.

hypericin July 12, 2022 at 02:38 #717914
Quoting noAxioms
I don't see the difference. Sorry, I just don't.


I am truly, genuinely curious as to what is going on here. Is there a conceptual difference, so that we are talking past each other? Some kind of difference in cognitive style? Do you enjoy an intuitive clarity about consciousness most of us lack? Are you a p zombie?

Let's proceed in the spirit of inquiry, rather than rancorous debate.

A few questions:

Are you able to visualize? Can you create a picture of something, say a beach, on command in your head? Some people lack this ability entirely. I can do it, but the quality is poor.

Can you imagine sounds? I can do this quite well, with great clarity.

Can you imagine touch and other body sensations? I can do this, but here the imagination is easily confused with the real thing, this had lead to very serious psychosomatic problems when I was younger.

What about taste and smell? I actually cannot imagine these, at all.

How do you think? I think primarily by talking to myself. I "hear" my voice in constant dialogue with myself. This dialogue is supplemented with flickery images of poor quality, which are nonetheless a huge help. I was surprised to learn that this is not at all universal. Some people think exclusively with speech or images, some with emotions, some apparently do not use sensory media at all, and think in pure concepts. I think there are more ways I cannot remember.
Darkneos July 12, 2022 at 03:13 #717923
Reply to hypericin I understood it, you would need a way to quantify inner experience for the question to even make any sense.

Even then it doesn't matter either way.
noAxioms July 12, 2022 at 03:33 #717938
Quoting hypericin
Are you a p zombie?
If your definition of one is that it operates the same way a computer would (a pure physical process, no help from an external acausal entity), then yes.
If your definition involves being distinct from somebody who has a fuller experience that I don't, then probably not. My only argument for it is that I don't see any hard problem, and others seem to see one so clearly. That's evidence of a distinction, not just a different opinion.

Mind you (pun intended), I don't take the intuitive view on almost anything. Our deepest instinctual beliefs are a load of lies, but lies that serve a purpose. I don't think time is something that flows despite all my everyday actions being based on such an assumption. My preferred quantum interpretation is utterly incompatible with a classical human identity. I know my physics well enough to use it to pick a consistent philosophy. I started with the physics and worked to a consistent conclusion, not start with a conclusion and dismiss any physics that gets in the way.

Are you able to visualize? Can you create a picture of something, say a beach, on command in your head? Some people lack this ability entirely. I can do it, but the quality is poor.
Can you imagine sounds? I can do this quite well, with great clarity.
You should pick something that a computer can't do. Can you think of one? These questions seem irrelevant.

None of my imaginings are particularly good enough to mistake from external input, but I occasionally take a while to realize some dream events did not occur. This is because they've already been filed in memory, not because my dreams are particularly real at the time. Most dreams are not thus filed since long term memory is for the most part disabled except in fairly shallow sleep.

How do you think? I think primarily by talking to myself.
I do best literally talking out loud to myself, which is why I work out hard problems while walking/biking away from others. As a kid I would shoot baskets for hours, talking about anything except the activity itself. I think best when I move.

The voices in my head are often of others, sometimes for a whole day. Craig Furguson is a fave.
I suspect my youngest son thinks sans language. Images mostly. I have a hard time recalling things before the age of three because those memories are stored in a different non-verbal language than the ones since.

I suspect the computer would be more consistent than an aging person, but perhaps it might think in new ways as it learns them just like we do.
unenlightened July 12, 2022 at 13:16 #718021
Quoting hypericin
Are you a p zombie?


To honestly answer yes, it seems to me that one would have to examine one's interiority and experience and find nothing there. Not the nothing that one finds in one's empty pocket, but the nothing one finds in not having pockets at all. If the answer 'yes' comes to mind, it must, in all honesty, be rejected.
Joshs July 12, 2022 at 14:05 #718028
Reply to hypericin Quoting hypericin
Behaviorally, its absence makes little difference, apart for a few subtle impairments. But internally, the consequences are profound: those who lack this structure have no internal lives at all.


This description is not that far removed from how enactivist cognitive science understands consciousness.
That is, they dispense with the internal-external, subjective-objective divide and argue that awareness is embodied , which means that it is an interaction , either with other persons or other aspects of one’s environment, which can include one’s bodily( affective) environment.
In this view consciousness is not some mysterious inner substance or module, it is an elaboration of organizational and functional characteristics of all living systems.


baker July 12, 2022 at 18:55 #718082
Quoting hypericin
People tend to treat others as if those others don't really exist, as if they are merely shells with no inner life, other than the one stipulated by other people.
— baker

I do not. Is this projection?


Look at the way people usually talk. They typically use you-language.
Marchesk July 13, 2022 at 08:49 #718264
Quoting Joshs
That is, they dispense with the internal-external, subjective-objective divide and argue that awareness is embodied , which means that it is an interaction , either with other persons or other aspects of one’s environment, which can include one’s bodily( affective) environment.


I don't see how dreams fit with this approach. Your body is normally paralyzed during dreams, and your dream content is usually imaginary. You're not typically perceiving the world. How is that not internal to the brain? There's quite a lot to consciousness which is more than just perceiving or interacting with the world. Like imagination, memory and inner dialog. Even perception carries some anticipation of what one is going to perceive. And when we interact with others, we do a sort of simulation or estimation of their internal states. We guess at what they're thinking and feeling.

The problem any sort of behaviorism has had is that it simply can't capture everything that goes on inside people's heads. That's why there's no accurate lie detector test, and no mind reading device. Someone's behavior and their language clues us in, but it doesn't tell the full story.
Agent Smith July 13, 2022 at 10:09 #718281
What is love?

What is a p-zombie?

Double trouble! Both are huge topics, with lotsa unexplored territory, and information on them is exasperatingly sketchy. What could go wrong, will in such circumstances! Bonam fortunam brave explorers, you'll need it!
hypericin July 13, 2022 at 12:18 #718303
Quoting Joshs
it is an elaboration of organizational and functional characteristics of all living systems.


This path ends in the absurdity of the conscious paramecium or Roomba, and furthermore cannot account for the fact that our own conscious awareness is just the tip of the iceberg of unconscious processes.
Joshs July 13, 2022 at 20:32 #718389
Reply to Marchesk Quoting Marchesk
I don't see how dreams fit with this approach. Your body is normally paralyzed during dreams, and your dream content is usually imaginary. You're not typically perceiving the world. How is that not internal to the brain? There's quite a lot to consciousness which is more than just perceiving or interacting with the world. Like imagination, memory and inner dialog. Even perception carries some anticipation of what one is going to perceive. And when we interact with others, we do a sort of simulation or estimation of their internal states. We guess at what they're thinking and feeling.


The question is whether we should
look at such experiences as imagination
and dreaming as merely a re-arrangement of what was already there, the accessing of inert memories in place of contact with fresh, external novelty. Why not look at such experiences as forms of self-transformation? To do this would be to re-think the meaning of internal vs external.

As far as simulating others’ states of mind, simulation theory is o w of three competing f approaches in cognitive science, along with theory theory and interaction theory. Theory theory says that when we try to understand others we consult an internal script.

“Theory theory (TT) and simulation theory (ST), the standard and dominant approaches to social cognition, share the important supposition that when we attempt to understand the actions of others, we do so by making sense of them in terms of their mental processes to which we have no direct access. That is, we attempt to “mind read” their beliefs, desires, and intentions, and such mind reading or mentalizing is our primary and pervasive way of understanding their behavior. Furthermore, both TT and ST characterize social cognition as a process of explaining or predicting what another person has done or will do. TT claims that we explain another person's behavior by appealing to an either innate or acquired “theory” of how people behave in general; a theory that is framed in terms of mental states (e.g., beliefs and desires) causing or motivating behavior. ST claims that we have no need for a theory like this, because we have a model, namely, our own mind, that we can use to simulate the other person's mental states. We model others' beliefs and desires as if we were in their situation.”

“In most intersubjective situations, that is, in situations of social interaction, we have a direct perceptual understanding of another person's intentions because their intentions are explicitly expressed in their embodied actions and their expressive behaviors. This understanding does not require us to postulate or infer a belief or a desire hidden away in the other person's mind.”(Shaun Gallagher)
Marchesk July 14, 2022 at 05:50 #718510
Quoting Joshs
“In most intersubjective situations, that is, in situations of social interaction, we have a direct perceptual understanding of another person's intentions because their intentions are explicitly expressed in their embodied actions and their expressive behaviors. This understanding does not require us to postulate or infer a belief or a desire hidden away in the other person's mind


So how does this account for lying and manipulation? Or someone putting on a front to appear acceptable? How about all the times we wonder to ourselves what someone is really feeling or whether they're telling us the truth? If beliefs and desires are never hidden away in people's minds, then how come we have no accurate way to always tell when someone is lying or what they're feeling?
Marchesk July 14, 2022 at 05:52 #718511
Quoting Joshs
The question is whether we should
look at such experiences as imagination
and dreaming as merely a re-arrangement of what was already there, the accessing of inert memories in place of contact with fresh, external novelty. Why not look at such experiences as forms of self-transformation? To do this would be to re-think the meaning of internal vs external.


Regardless of how you look at it, you're still experience an environment that is not in the external world and is not publically available to others. You may not wish to call it subjective or internal, but it sure has the same hallmarks of being subjective/internal.

Think of a number, any number. Where does that thought exist if not in the brain? How would anyone know what number you thought of without telling us?
Joshs July 14, 2022 at 17:44 #718799
Reply to Marchesk Quoting Marchesk
So how does this account for lying and manipulation? Or someone putting on a front to appear acceptable? How about all the times we wonder to ourselves what someone is really feeling or whether they're telling us the truth? If beliefs and desires are never hidden away in people's minds, then how come we have no accurate way to always tell when someone is lying or what they're feeling?


Good questions. I agree that the way the interactionist position is articulated here gives the impression that we simply read off others’ intentions and thoughts from
their observable behavior. My reading of it is that cognitive processes do not consist of internal representations of an external world. Rather than matching inner with outer, the two are blended in each perception. In other words, while i always bring a history of expectations to my interpretation of a perceptual or conceptual events, those expectations interact with something novel in the event, such that the expectations themselves are adjusted to accommodate the object in very act of perceiving. One’s cognitive system is engaged in a holistic way with the world, and changes itself as a whole( including its ‘stored’ memories) with every experience. This is true even in dreaming and imagination. How else could solitary thought lead to legitimately new insight? Certainly not from a recycling or re-combination of stored representations.

When we attempt to understand others , we neither consult an inner ‘canned’ script , nor veridically read off their inner thoughts from their behavior. Instead , our expectations are exposed to what we observe in interaction with others, and as a result we directly perceive ( without simulation) a version of the other’s intentions , which subsequent experience with the other may validate or invalidate.
Marchesk July 14, 2022 at 18:01 #718812
Quoting Joshs
and as a result we directly perceive ( without simulation) a version of the other’s intentions , which subsequent experience with the other may validate or invalidate.


How does this account for autism, or "mind-blindness"? Or how humans tend to anthropomorphize the world around us? How we find cartoon characters, puppets and animals to have beliefs and desires like us? Or the belief that natures if full of spirts and gods?
Joshs July 14, 2022 at 18:17 #718817
Reply to Marchesk

Quoting Marchesk
Regardless of how you look at it, you're still experience an environment that is not in the external world and is not publically available to others. You may not wish to call it subjective or internal, but it sure has the same hallmarks of being subjective/internal.


It is true that whether I watch another dreaming , or listen to them speak , I cannot say that I can accurately anticipate how they will behave next. If I put to the test my expectations concerning what they are dreaming about or their motives and intentions in speaking to me I will sometimes be validated and sometimes not. This tells me that the other person changing in ways to that go beyond my ability to construe in tightly predictive terms. But does this make their functioning private?

If I am attempting to understand an ecosystem are the features of this system that I fail to model well ‘private’?
What makes something private? If we believe that brains make use of stored representations it would seem that we could call such entities private. They are protected from direct expose to an outside world as well as from other representations. But embodied enactivist accounts of cognition see the brain as part of an ecosystem which includes the body and the world. And even when world seems to be minimally involved in cognitive
activity ( deep thought) , we are still dealing with a total system that is in the business of making changes in itself.
That means that even my own thinking isn’t strictly ‘private’ , given that my mind is subtly reinventing itself and its past every moment of its functioning. It is already out in the world every moment , coming back to itself
from an outside.

Joshs July 14, 2022 at 18:26 #718820
Quoting Marchesk
How does this account for autism, or "mind-blindness"? Or how humans tend to anthropomorphize the world around us? How we find cartoon characters, puppets and animals to have beliefs and desires like us? Or the belief that natures if full of spirts and gods?


A lot of work has been done on autism within the enactivist community.

Take a look at these articles:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3607806/

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/236792668_Understanding_Interpersonal_Problems_in_Autism_Interaction_Theory_as_An_Alternative_to_Theory_of_Mind

ABSTRACT: I argue that theory theory approaches to autism offer a wholly inadequate explanation of au- tistic symptoms because they offer a wholly inade- quate account of the non-autistic understanding of others. As an alternative I outline interaction theory, which incorporates evidence from both developmen- tal and phenomenological studies to show that hu- mans are endowed with important capacities for in- tersubjective understanding from birth or early infancy. As part of a neurophenomenological analysis of au- tism, interaction theory offers an account of interper- sonal problems that is fully consistent with the variety of social and nonsocial symptoms found in autism.

Joshs July 14, 2022 at 18:42 #718825
Reply to Marchesk Quoting Marchesk
Or how humans tend to anthropomorphize the world around us? How we find cartoon characters, puppets and animals to have beliefs and desires like us? Or the belief that natures if full of spirts and gods?


I’m not at all denying that humans understand the world by reference to a system of constructs , channels
of meaning by which we interpret, organize and anticipate events. What I am arguing against is the idea any element of this system is unchanged by moment to moment events. The whole system is in motion at all times like an interwoven tapestry.
Marchesk July 14, 2022 at 23:42 #718900
Quoting Joshs
If I am attempting to understand an ecosystem are the features of this system that I fail to model well ‘private’?
What makes something private? If we believe that brains make use of stored representations it would seem that we could call such entities private. They are protected from direct expose to an outside world as well as from other representations. But embodied enactivist accounts of cognition see the brain as part of an ecosystem which includes the body and the world. And even when world seems to be minimally involved in cognitive
activity ( deep thought) , we are still dealing with a total system that is in the business of making changes in itself.
That means that even my own thinking isn’t strictly ‘private’ , given that my mind is subtly reinventing itself and its past every moment of its functioning. It is already out in the world every moment , coming back to itself
from an outside.


That's all true and I'm not arguing for radical privacy such that's in principle impossible to figure out what someone is thinking or dreaming. But practically speaking, we can't tell what someone is dreaming unless they tell us. We sometimes know what they're thinking from context, but sometimes we have no clue.

So the subjective/objective split can't be absolute. It's true we're part of the world. But to deny there is a subjective/objective split seems to me to go too far in the other direction. I'm currently listening a Sean Carrol/Mindscape podcast where's he's discussing a book on animal sensation with the author, and there are many examples of how animal senses differ enough from ours such that it's difficult to imagine what sort of experience those animals are having.
hypericin July 15, 2022 at 21:29 #719350
Quoting Joshs
and as a result we directly perceive ( without simulation) a version of the other’s intentions ,


This is the part of your account I find objectionable. We cannot directly perceive someone else's internal state. There is a layer of indirection between the other's state and our perceptions.

Facial expressions are not emotions, they are configurations of facial muscles. They are alsosymbols that point to emotions. A sneer is a symbol which has an emotive meaning, and is the English symbol "contempt" in another medium.

We can only "read" another's expressions and body language and spoken language, it is all reading. The fact that it seems immediate does not negate that it is an interpretive act. This interpretive facility must exist for it's failure as Autism to also exist.
Joshs July 15, 2022 at 21:44 #719353
Reply to hypericin Quoting hypericin
The fact that it seems immediate does not negate that it is an interpretive act. This interpretive facility must exist for it's failure as Autism to also exist.


Yes , it is both immediate and interpretive, as is all perception. What I directly perceive of your feelings and intentions is a version of them, just as you who are experiencing them are also interpreting them
for yourself , and as a result you may also not recognize or understand them, and as they change you will need to reinterpret them. If I experienced your states exactly as you do we would be the same person. My point was that this interpretive act is not the consulting of an inner script.
hypericin July 15, 2022 at 23:25 #719389
Quoting Joshs
just as you who are experiencing them are also interpreting them
for yourself


But this is the opposite process. My emotions are immediate to me, what you call interpreting is encoding them symbolically into language. This encoding is a necessary step to use the emotion in symbolic thought. If I can't encode then I can't think about them. In the same way, without my conscious intervention my body encodes my emotions into the symbology of expression and body language.

Whereas you immediately perceive only symbols of my inner state: my face, body, and words.

You see the symbols of my emotions, I encode my emotions into symbols.

Joshs July 16, 2022 at 01:25 #719408
Reply to hypericin

Quoting hypericin
My emotions are immediate to me, what you call interpreting is encoding them symbolically into language. This encoding is a necessary step to use the emotion in symbolic thought. If I can't encode then I can't think about them. In the same way, without my conscious intervention my body encodes my emotions into the symbology of expression and body language.

Whereas you immediately perceive only symbols of my inner state: my face, body, and words.

You see the symbols of my emotions, I encode my emotions into symbols.


You’re using a cognitive science vocabulary that differs somewhat from the psychological approaches to affectivity that I identify with. Your model tends to rely on a computer metaphor: We input a stimulus, encode it symbolically and process and store it. Emotions are meanings that attach to and color cognitions.
The enactive approaches I follow see affectivity as that aspect of sense-making that deals with the relative fit between events and my expectations of them. They are forms of situational assessment. All of my experiences have this affective aspect to them, since all perception is evaluative. This is the basis of language as well. Language isnt merely the encoding of meanings by linking them to arbitrary symbols. Language doesn’t passively refer, it actively construes. Feeling and perception is already proto-language in that it formulates fresh meaning.

When we ‘encode’ emotions , we articulate them expressively. The expression doesn’t just convey something already formed , it also changes what it invokes by giving it expression. What I am doing when I see your affective expression isnt simply reading a code. I am inventing a construction that comes neither from me nor from your behavior , but from a mesh between the two. This mesh is what I immediately construe , just as your feelings and heir elaboration are what you immediately construct from your situation.



unenlightened July 16, 2022 at 16:00 #719612


The longest film project Warhol worked on was the series of Screen Tests he made of various artists, celebrities, collaborators, or whoever happened to walk in the door of his studio. In front of the camera, the subject was told to sit still, not blink; often they disobeyed. Together, the series serves as a kind of mission statement—a celebration of the destruction of high-low hierarchies, placing Susan Sontag next to Edie Sedgwick, Duchamp next to Taylor Mead.
https://news.artnet.com/art-world/andy-warhol-films-1387729

Or for a DIY version, take a long look in the mirror, and see if you can work out how you are feeling from the expression on your face.


[quote=Pretty Vacant - Sex Pistols]There's no point in asking
You'll get no reply
Oh just remember I don't decide
I got no reason it's all too much
You'll always find us
Out to lunch
Oh we're so pretty
Oh so pretty
We're vacant
Oh we're so pretty
Oh so pretty
Vacant.
and we don't care.[/quote]

There's always an extravagance to zombies, don't you think? They always over-act.
Agent Smith July 16, 2022 at 17:30 #719637
Quoting unenlightened
Or for a DIY version, take a long look in the mirror, and see if you can work out how you are feeling from the expression on your face.


Marry me! :heart: