To smokers: What request would make you refrain from smoking in a part. situation?

baker July 19, 2022 at 17:06 2175 views 8 comments
To smokers:

What request would make you refrain from smoking in a particular situation?

In a private situation, what would the other person need to say to you for you to refrain from smoking in their presence? How would they need to formulate their request in order for you to heed it?

Comments (8)

Jamal July 21, 2022 at 17:32 #721097
Reply to baker Coming from someone I'm with, just about any kind of request to refrain from smoking would work on me. Coming from a stranger in public, it would depend on the situation. If I were outside I might refuse, but a polite and friendly request would be most likely to work.

I usually vape these days, but people even complain about that sometimes.
L'éléphant August 02, 2022 at 05:59 #724767
Reply to baker The person making the request could say they suffer from asthma or some sort of respiratory illness and couldn't be around smoking.

I'm not sure why the question, though. Smoking is prohibited indoors in all establishments. So, there's no need to reformulate a request, just say smoking is not allowed here, please.
Noble Dust August 03, 2022 at 06:57 #725200
Reply to baker

I've never been asked not to smoke, but living in a big city, I would probably just move far enough away from the person and continue. As the Elephant mentioned, I'm not sure why you asked the question.
baker August 08, 2022 at 18:44 #726794
Reply to Noble Dust Reply to L'éléphant Reply to Jamal

It's about neighbors and coworkers who smoke (at work or in break).

I open the windows in the morning to get some fresh air, and what do I get? The odious smell of my neighbors smoking.

While in the country where I live smoking is prohibited indoors in most establishments, many people ignore that. If I were to say "smoking is not allowed here, please", then, in the best case scenario, I'd get laughed at. (Not to mention that there are not just a few non-smokers who will jump to the defense of smokers.)
baker August 08, 2022 at 18:47 #726795
Quoting Jamal
I usually vape these days, but people even complain about that sometimes.


Smokers tend to have a diminished sense of smell. They can't tell how bad the smell from smoking is.

It's one of the reasons why it's useless to talk about it with them. They can't relate.
baker August 08, 2022 at 18:48 #726796
Quoting L'éléphant
The person making the request could say they suffer from asthma or some sort of respiratory illness and couldn't be around smoking.


And get laughed at or told to leave.
Jamal August 09, 2022 at 04:06 #726872
Unfortunately, a noxious personality is much harder to give up than smoking.
Agent Smith August 18, 2022 at 14:59 #730375
Back somewhere around 2004, breathing air in New Delhi was equivalent to smoking a packet of coffin nails a day. So yeah....smoking, breathing city air, it's the same thing, bruh!