What does "irony" mean?

T Clark November 30, 2022 at 17:27 7900 views 72 comments
This from a recent thread by Introbert:

Quoting introbert
I have confessed that I have a fixation on the concept of irony. To me irony is a cheap and easy way, a fix, to exercise the part of my brain that seems to demand philosophical thought. My thoughts on irony extend to its nature as a form of argument, an antagonism, an object of confusion, an element of humor, a threat to objectivity, a method of subjectivism and more.


I have similar feelings about irony, although I’d call mine affection rather than fixation. It’s something I’ve thought about a lot and I’d like to discuss what it means.

Here are some definitions of “irony” from the web:

  • The use of words to express something different from and often opposite to their literal meaning.
  • An expression or utterance marked by a deliberate contrast between apparent and intended meaning.
  • Incongruity between the actual result of a sequence of events and the normal or expected result.
  • A condition of affairs or events of a character opposite to what was, or might naturally be, expected; a contradictory outcome of events as if in mockery of the promise and fitness of things.


I found a website that had some interesting things to say about irony:

Quoting LitCharts
[i]Irony is a literary device or event in which how things seem to be is in fact very different from how they actually are. If this seems like a loose definition, don't worry—it is. Irony is a broad term that encompasses three different types of irony, each with their own specific definition: verbal irony, dramatic irony, and situational irony. Most of the time when people use the word irony, they're actually referring to one of these specific types of irony…

…In the last twenty years or so, the term "ironic" has become popular to describe an attitude of detachment or subversive humor, like that of someone who wears a Christmas sweater as a joke. This more recent meaning of ironic is not entirely consistent with the original meaning of irony…[/i]


The Wikipedia article about irony is also very good:

[i]Henry Watson Fowler, in The King's English, says, "any definition of irony—though hundreds might be given, and very few of them would be accepted—must include this, that the surface meaning and the underlying meaning of what is said are not the same." Also, Eric Partridge, in Usage and Abusage, writes that "Irony consists in stating the contrary of what is meant."

The use of irony may require the concept of a double audience. Fowler's A Dictionary of Modern English Usage says:
Irony is a form of utterance that postulates a double audience, consisting of one party that hearing shall hear & shall not understand, & another party that, when more is meant than meets the ear, is aware both of that more & of the outsiders' incomprehension…

…The New Princeton Encyclopedia of Poetry and Poetics distinguishes between the following types of irony:
  • Classical irony: Referring to the origins of irony in Ancient Greek comedy, and the way classical and medieval rhetoricians delineated the term.
  • Romantic irony: A self-aware and self-critical form of fiction.
  • Cosmic irony: A contrast between the absolute and the relative, the general and the individual, which Hegel expressed by the phrase, "general [irony] of the world."[13]
  • Verbal irony: A contradiction between a statement's stated and intended meaning
  • Situational irony: The disparity of intention and result; when the result of an action is contrary to the desired or expected effect.
  • Dramatic irony and tragic irony: A disparity of awareness between an actor and an observer: when words and actions possess significance that the listener or audience understands, but the speaker or character does not. It is most often used when the author causes a character to speak or act erroneously, out of ignorance of some portion of the truth of which the audience is aware. In tragic irony, the audience knows the character is making a mistake, even as the character is making it.
  • Meta irony: When an ironic or sarcastic joke is presented through an ironic lens, or "being ironic about being ironic" and even meta ironic statements are ironicised
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There’s a lot here and I’m sure there’s a lot more to say, but I’ve always found definitions of “irony” unsatisfying. For me, there’s something missing. I remember my senior year in high school learning about the dual nature of light. The feeling of holding two contradictory ideas in my mind at the same time. Being pulled in two different directions but not being able to choose one over the other to resolve the contradiction. That is the feeling of irony for me.

Comments (72)

Tom Storm November 30, 2022 at 18:49 #759567
Reply to T Clark I was taught (falsely perhaps) that in America the only people to understand irony and use it well in humour and art are the Jews. There is definitely a cultural aspect to its use. Irony is one of my favourite things.

Irony does feature in philosophy - from Socrates' ironic stance of 'knowing nothing' to Kierkegaard; On the Concept of Irony with Continual Reference to Socrates, Rorty; Contingency, Irony, and Solidarity.

Rorty developed his own word, 'ironism'. Wiki has this on it:

[i]Rorty cited three conditions that constitute the ironist perspective and these show how the notion undercuts the rationality of conservative, reactionary, and totalitarian positions by maintaining the contingency of all beliefs.[1] These conditions are:

- She has radical and continuing doubts about the final vocabulary she currently uses, because she has been impressed by other vocabularies, vocabularies taken as final by people or books she has encountered;

- She realizes that argument phrased in her present vocabulary can neither underwrite nor dissolve these doubts;

- Insofar as she philosophizes about her situation, she does not think that her vocabulary is closer to reality than others, that it is in touch with a power not herself.

—?Richard Rorty, Contingency, Irony, and Solidarity. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 1989, p.73

In Contingency, Irony, and Solidarity, Rorty argues that Proust, Nietzsche, Foucault, Heidegger, Derrida, and Nabokov, among others, all exemplify ironism to different extents. It is also said that ironism and liberalism are compatible, particularly if such liberalism has been altered by pragmatic reductionism.[/i]






Vera Mont November 30, 2022 at 18:50 #759568
I don't quite feel any of those definitions are sufficient.

Quoting T Clark
The disparity of intention and result; when the result of an action is contrary to the desired or expected effect.


That happens all the time and is not remarkable. They all seem to be missing a reflexive element that differentiates ironic disparity from any old mundane “The best laid schemes o' mice an' men / Gang aft a-gley.”

I mentioned in another thread the Star Trek Voyager story line of Borg drones having a virtual space in which they were their pre-assimilation individual selves. The irony is: they could create this illusion of separate identities only through the collective consciousness of the hive mind which they were escaping.

See what I mean? In a more immediate situation that might be familiar to many of us: I bought two little magnets for the mailbox lid. I didn't get 'round to fixing it for a while, and in that time I forgot where I put those magnets, thinking: I'll put them in a place I'm sure to remember when I need them.
Or, as my neighbour often says: "I put it in a safe place. I'll never see it again!"

Gnomon November 30, 2022 at 18:54 #759570
Quoting T Clark
The feeling of holding two contradictory ideas in my mind at the same time. Being pulled in two different directions but not being able to choose one over the other to resolve the contradiction. That is the feeling of irony for me.

You described Irony as directed inwardly. That internal ironic feeling could be rationalized as simply realizing that things are not as they seem, or as they ought to be ideally. But emotionally, the feeling may be somewhere between Enlightenment and Disappointment. Either a private joke, or a personal farce.

When the logical or physical contradiction is expressed outwardly, it could be intended as a shared feeling of recognition of what's wrong with a particular situation. That's how stand-up comedians establish empathy with the audience. Satire is when we're all in on the joke.

But, when the conflict between what is, and what seems to be -- or should be -- is directed at a particular person or group, the humor is not intended to be shared, but to hurt the target. Judgmental Sarcasm is an ad hominem attack, which varies from a pinch to a bleeding wound. Unfortunately, forum posters too often mistake Sarcasm as a philosophical argument. Isn't that ironic? :joke:

irony :
Reserve irony for situations where there's a gap between reality and expectations, especially when such a gap is created for dramatic or humorous effect.
satire :
Satire is a way of making fun of people by using silly or exaggerated language. Politicians are easy targets for satire, especially when they're acting self-righteous or hypocritical.
sarcasm :
Irony employed in the service of mocking or attacking someone is sarcasm. Saying "Oh, you're soooo clever!" with sarcasm means the target is really just a dunderhead.
https://www.vocabulary.com/articles/chooseyourwords/irony-satire-sarcasm/
Banno November 30, 2022 at 20:59 #759576



Blame Alanis Morrisette.
Tom Storm November 30, 2022 at 21:03 #759577
Reply to Banno Isn't her song famously about irony, without any examples of irony? Ironic... I don't know the song, just that observation.
Banno November 30, 2022 at 21:05 #759578
Quoting Tom Storm
(falsely perhaps)


Apocryphal has Bill Bryson suggesting that 40% of Americans do understand irony. That's what, a hundred million folk? Enough for to support a market in ironic humour but not enough for America to claim an understanding of irony.

Quoting Tom Storm
Isn't her song famously about irony, without any examples of irony?


So subtle...
T Clark November 30, 2022 at 21:10 #759579
Quoting Tom Storm
I was taught (falsely perhaps) that in America the only people to understand irony and use it well in humour and art are the Jews. There is definitely a cultural aspect to its use.




Quoting Tom Storm
She has radical and continuing doubts about the final vocabulary she currently uses, because she has been impressed by other vocabularies, vocabularies taken as final by people or books she has encountered...

...Insofar as she philosophizes about her situation, she does not think that her vocabulary is closer to reality than others, that it is in touch with a power not herself.


I recognize that other people think about the world and use language differently than I do and I don't think my language is more in touch with some sort of absolute reality than others. But that doesn't cause me any doubts about my language. I guess I don't see the irony in this. Maybe I'm misunderstanding.
Tom Storm November 30, 2022 at 21:18 #759581
Quoting T Clark
But that doesn't cause me any doubts about my language. I guess I don't see the irony in this. Maybe I'm misunderstanding.


I don't fully understand it but I think irony in philosophy might be the gap between our metaphysical system building and reality. All our systems being constructed from language and never quite making direct contact with the world. But this all sounds like postmodernism.

Quoting Banno
Apocryphal has Bill Bryson suggesting that 40% of Americans do understand irony.


Interesting. That comports to my personal experience of the Americans I know. :wink: Is it the other 60% who are susceptible to Donald Trump and don't realize he is an ironist and performance artist, a little like our own Sir Les Patterson?
T Clark November 30, 2022 at 21:27 #759583
Quoting Vera Mont
I don't quite feel any of those definitions are sufficient.

The disparity of intention and result; when the result of an action is contrary to the desired or expected effect.
— T Clark

That happens all the time and is not remarkable. They all seem to be missing a reflexive element that differentiates ironic disparity from any old mundane “The best laid schemes o' mice an' men / Gang aft a-gley.”


As I noted in my post, the definitions miss something I think is important.
T Clark November 30, 2022 at 21:33 #759584
Quoting Gnomon
You described Irony as directed inwardly.


I see irony as an experience, something mental, not as an objective or physical event.
Banno November 30, 2022 at 21:37 #759585
Reply to Tom Storm Has Sir Les ever run for office? He would presumably have a mixed voter base, consisting on the one hand of those who appreciate his contribution to the yarts, and on the other of those who also vote for Barnaby Joyce.
Tom Storm November 30, 2022 at 21:47 #759588
Reply to Banno Not to mention Barnaby and Sir Les' contribution to dick cheese...

introbert November 30, 2022 at 23:01 #759602
The cognitive dissonance aspect of irony is interesting. What immediately comes to mind is Swift's A Modest Proposal, where the reader at the time would possibly (for fun) be torn between actually eating babies or demonstrating for compassion. That is unlikely, but possibly in that instance the dissonance would be between making light of cruelty and enjoying it -or- being compelled morally by a pretty good work of satire. I can see cognitive dissonance happening when there is a sign saying no smoking and you have used its surface to strike a match for your cigarette in the absence of any other suitable surface. The rule not to smoke and your conflicting idea to smoke are dissonant, but the irony of the no smoking sign allowing you to smoke is another ironic level.
Banno November 30, 2022 at 23:17 #759605
Reply to Tom Storm Too far. Stop.
Vera Mont November 30, 2022 at 23:29 #759609
Quoting T Clark
As I noted in my post, the definitions miss something I think is important.


Yes, that's what I was on about also. The fact that the outcome is different from, or even opposite to, the intent is merely unfortunate, and sometimes comical to the onlooker. It's only ironic when the outcome is opposite to the intention because of the intention.
Tom Storm November 30, 2022 at 23:39 #759613
Quoting Vera Mont
It's only ironic when the outcome is opposite to the intention because of the intention.


I often found it ironic how those I knew in Buddhist, mediation circles would talk about shedding attachments and getting closer to enlightenment whilst simultaneously bonking each other stupid, investing in real estate and buying luxury cars.

In Christian circles this used to be called hypocrisy and I wonder if hypocrisy, when viewed from a particular perspective, is just irony as praxis.

Janus December 01, 2022 at 00:37 #759627
Quoting Tom Storm
I often found it ironic how those I knew in Buddhist, mediation circles would talk about shedding attachments and getting closer to enlightenment whilst simultaneously bonking each other stupid, investing in real estate and buying luxury cars.


Is it necessarily ironic? Perhaps they were not attached to those activities, but simply enjoyed them (and were not attached to their enjoyment, either :joke: ).

Quoting Tom Storm
In Christian circles this used to be called hypocrisy and I wonder if hypocrisy, when viewed from a particular perspective, is just irony as praxis.


Only if it's intentional. :wink:
Janus December 01, 2022 at 00:39 #759628
Quoting Vera Mont
It's only ironic when the outcome is opposite to the intention because of the intention.


Intention confusion? Perhaps "it's only ironic when the outcome is opposite to the apparent intention because of the real intention" ?
Tom Storm December 01, 2022 at 00:59 #759632
Vera Mont December 01, 2022 at 02:27 #759641
Quoting Tom Storm
In Christian circles this used to be called hypocrisy and I wonder if hypocrisy, when viewed from a particular perspective, is just irony as praxis.


No, it's just [plain hypocrisy. And dishonesty. Quoting Janus
Perhaps "it's only ironic when the outcome is opposite to the apparent intention because of the real intention" ?


No, that's just duplicity. SOP for PR, business and some politicians - nothing that needs a special category. .
Janus December 01, 2022 at 02:35 #759645
Quoting Vera Mont
No, that's just duplicity. SOP for PR, business and some politicians - nothing that needs a special category.


Quoting Vera Mont
It's only ironic when the outcome is opposite to the intention because of the intention.


So, you're saying that irony (the unintended outcome) is only ever unintentional, or what?

If so, that seems to be an impoverished definition of irony.

Tom Storm December 01, 2022 at 02:44 #759646
Reply to Janus Reply to Vera Mont The people I am referring to were unaware that their practices were in direct contrast to their values. In other words, sincere and unintentional ironists from my perspective.
Banno December 01, 2022 at 06:24 #759674
A proper account of irony is going to have to differentiate it from sarcasm.

I've no idea what sarcasm is.

Vera Mont December 01, 2022 at 06:25 #759675
Quoting Janus
So, you're saying that irony (the unintended outcome) is only ever unintentional, or what?


You set a trap for a rat. A squirrel falls into it. Unintended and not the least bit ironic.
You set a trap for your rival. He doesn't fall into it, but a complete stranger does. Bad luck for him, good luck for your rival, failure for you, but no irony.
The operative word there was "because". Hoist with your own petard.
("The phrase's meaning is that a bomb-maker is blown ("hoist") off the ground by his own bomb (a "petard" is a small explosive device), and indicates an ironic reversal, or poetic justice.")
You set a trap for your rival. He walks past it, totally unaware. You wonder how that could have happened. You go see why the trap didn't go off. It goes off and catches you.
What happened to you happened only because of what you intended to happen to the other person.


.
Banno December 01, 2022 at 06:29 #759677
...and from satire.

Satire, I'm told, is "an obsolete kind of literary composition in which the vices and follies of the author's enemies were expounded with imperfect tenderness."

Sounds like a form we could amusingly resume.
Agent Smith December 01, 2022 at 06:39 #759680
Quoting Banno
A proper account of irony is going to have to differentiate it from sarcasm.

I've no idea what sarcasm is.


Interesting comment mon ami! :up:

The AC overheated? :chin:
Tom Storm December 01, 2022 at 06:46 #759684
Quoting Banno
I've no idea what sarcasm is.


I think it's when you apply irony with a sledge hammer.
Janus December 01, 2022 at 06:53 #759689
Reply to Vera Mont Right, the outcome was unintentional then. That would be an example of situational irony as given earlier in a definition gleaned from somewhere on the net.

Of course, there is also conscious irony, where the apparent intention is not the real intention.
Banno December 01, 2022 at 06:53 #759690
Reply to Tom Storm Or a scalpel.
Banno December 01, 2022 at 06:54 #759691
And then there is Socratic irony, but no one here would know how to use that.
Tom Storm December 01, 2022 at 07:03 #759697
Quoting Banno
And then there is Socratic irony, but no one here would know how to use that.


I don't know anything about it, can you define it for me?
Agent Smith December 01, 2022 at 07:06 #759698
Quoting Banno
And then there is Socratic irony, but no one here would know how to use that


I would like to tender my Apology. :snicker:
Banno December 01, 2022 at 07:08 #759699
Quoting Tom Storm
can you define it for me?


That's the one.

Christoffer December 01, 2022 at 08:26 #759720
There's also irony in the methodology of writing fiction. It can be close to the definition of "poetic irony/justice", but it's mainly used as a form of plant and payoff in thematic ways. Like if a story was about a bank robber, it can be used as a method to gain a "rhyme" to the story that the bank robber's backstory is that he managed other people's money and security before he started robbing. Or that it ends with himself being robbed by a person sharing the same values of justice as he expresses throughout the story.

It's a powerful tool for any writer to quickly identify thematic and dramatic conflicts and to express them in both funny and interesting payoffs.
javra December 01, 2022 at 08:47 #759721
Quoting T Clark
There’s a lot here and I’m sure there’s a lot more to say, but I’ve always found definitions of “irony” unsatisfying.


I’m surprised that no one has so far stated this obvious definition: “Irony” means “having the quality of iron”. For example, “The Iron Age was very irony”.

Yes, this to me can be an ironic comment - without being sarcastic, satirical, or hypocritical. Knee-slapper though it may be.

Sarcasm makes use of mockery whereas irony does not. All satires I know of make use of irony whereas not all ironies are satirical. The hypocrite engages in a form of doublethink in which they hold or act on two contrary views as though both were true or correct, whereas the ironist knows full well of the intended mismatch.

My own take is that the best cases of rhetorical and dramatic irony can be likened to an intelligent blond playing the bimbo, this so as to get their way with minimal resistance from those who presume the blond to be unintelligent or unimportant, hence from others who thereby remain ignorant of what’s in fact occurring: Those in the know - be it the rhetorician, the dramatist, or even fate for some folk, this in addition to the onlooking audience, if any - get that what’s at hand is a concealed means of actualizing an end toward which those not in the know are being led without their immediate awareness.

Socratic irony might well be a misnomer - in that Socrates deemed himself wiser than his opponent in not thinking to know that which he did not know, and there’s no definitive reason to presume Socrates insincere in so affirming. If so, Socrates never feigned ignorance to begin with.

Still, I kind of like the definition first offered in this post. Has a far more definitive ring to it by contrast to the ambiguous dictionary definitions so far here discussed. :smile:
hypericin December 01, 2022 at 09:17 #759723
Quoting Vera Mont
It's only ironic when the outcome is opposite to the intention because of the intention.


By astutely contributing to this thread you have ironically ended it.

Jamal December 01, 2022 at 09:27 #759724
Quoting Banno
Blame Alanis Morrisette


In defence of Alanis...

The notion of cosmic irony (or the irony of fate) might be stretched to cover the unlucky situations that she describes in the song.

He won the lottery and died the next day


The gods bestowed the winning ticket upon a man whom they had already condemned to death the next day, so that he could not enjoy the money. They do it all the time, subverting our hopes and expectations just for a laugh.

Alternatively, the fact that her examples are not ironic is what is ironic.
Banno December 01, 2022 at 09:43 #759725

Quoting Jamal
Alternatively, the fact that her examples are not ironic is what is ironic.


That's my preferred theory...
Quoting Banno
So subtle...

Vera Mont December 01, 2022 at 14:54 #759770
Quoting Janus
Right, the outcome was unintentional then. That would be an example of situational irony as given earlier in a definition gleaned from somewhere on the net.


The outcomes of all those scenarios were unintentional; only one was ironic. The one that jumped up and bit you in the ass.
Vera Mont December 01, 2022 at 14:55 #759772
Quoting hypericin
By astutely contributing to this thread you have ironically ended it.


I wish!
Ciceronianus December 01, 2022 at 16:06 #759784
God's teeth. Only those lacking a sense of humor would complain of irony. As well complain of wit and the witty.

But, now that I think of it, I can't think of a witty philosopher. Wittgenstein, of course, was notoriously lacking in humor.
frank December 01, 2022 at 16:09 #759786
Reply to Ciceronianus
Bertrand Russell was hilarious.
Cuthbert December 01, 2022 at 16:24 #759793
Alanis gets an unfair bad rap for calling non-irony irony. Nelly Furtado told us she was like a bird and she could fly away - not so. Aloe Blacc still claims he needs a dollar, although I'm pretty sure he's reasonably well off. The Beatles assured me that She Loves Me, which turned out to be not quite the case. But nobody complains about them.
bongo fury December 01, 2022 at 16:31 #759799
Altogether now:

It's like a mode of speeeeeech
That you just can't define...
Ciceronianus December 01, 2022 at 16:34 #759802
Reply to frank
Really? I had no idea. Perhaps he wasn't a philosopher, then.
T Clark December 01, 2022 at 16:34 #759803
Quoting javra
I’m surprised that no one has so far stated this obvious definition: “Irony” means “having the quality of iron”. For example, “The Iron Age was very irony”.


Yes...well...

Quoting javra
“The Iron Age was very irony”.

Yes, this to me can be an ironic comment


Perhaps I should have specified we are talking about a noun, not an adjective. Anyway, is your example irony? I don't think so. Maybe that's the best way of defining irony - by talking about what it's not.

Hey, @180 Proof, what's that word for defining something by talking about what it's not?

Quoting javra
Sarcasm makes use of mockery whereas irony does not.


Sarcasm is often ironic, but doesn't have to be. It only has to be nasty.
frank December 01, 2022 at 16:40 #759807
Quoting Ciceronianus
Really? I had no idea. Perhaps he wasn't a philosopher, then.


I think you'd like his Wisdom of the West. Lots of laughs, although the purpose of the book is serious.
Ciceronianus December 01, 2022 at 16:43 #759808
Reply to frank Reply to frank

Thanks. I'll take a look.
T Clark December 01, 2022 at 16:57 #759812
Quoting Christoffer
There's also irony in the methodology of writing fiction.


Are you saying that all fiction is ironic? Let me think about that... Is it ironic that we know a character is not real while they have to act as if they are?

Your post reminded me of a movie - "Stranger than Fiction." In it, a man, played by Will Ferrell, finds that he is living the life of a character in a story being written by an author, played by Emma Thompson. They meet and discuss the plot and how it is affecting the man's life. A pretty good movie. Amusing. I guess that's dramatic irony, although in this case, the character knows things the author did not intend for him to know. Which brings up "The Truman Show."

There's another kind of irony. I'm not sure whether it would be considered dramatic irony or not. That's when a character, narrator, or plot device draws attention to the fact that this situation is artificial, e.g. if a character turns to the audience and makes a comment like Puck in "Midsummer Night's Dream" saying "What fools these mortals be." Or in "Blazing Saddles" where the characters ride out of the story and into the movie studio. I remember a great TV version of "Nickolas Nickleby" where a group of characters from the book look down on the action from above and make comments, including people who have already died in the story.

In that regard, are all musicals ironic?

T Clark December 01, 2022 at 16:59 #759814
Quoting Agent Smith
I would like to tender my Apology.


How is this relevant?
javra December 01, 2022 at 17:21 #759822
Quoting T Clark
Anyway, is your example irony? I don't think so.


Hmm, the definition provided can be an instance of feigned ignorance intended to confound or provoke. Its intended meaning could be that the search for a definitive definition of “irony” might be a wild-goose chase. A playing the bimbo deal.

Else, one can take the face value intent of the definition at its word, in which case it could not quality as irony.
Gnomon December 01, 2022 at 17:43 #759826
Quoting T Clark
You described Irony as directed inwardly. — Gnomon
I see irony as an experience, something mental, not as an objective or physical event.

Yes. I was trying to distinguish the inner feeling of Irony (private experience) from projecting that feeling toward others, as in Satire or Sarcasm (public experience). I suppose that Satire (e.g. stand-up comedy) could be considered an objective form of Irony, in that it depends on a common feeling among the audience. Those who don't share the feeling will not find it funny. Especially, if they are the butt of the joke. :joke:

Objective : 1 · being outside of the mind and independent of it.
Note -- Viral Memes (e.g. knock-knock jokes) begin as subjective ideas, but when they go public, the associated feeling is communicated to others. Many, if not most jokes, are funny because they point-out situations that are contrary to expectations, or to logic, or to social oughts.

Agent Smith December 01, 2022 at 19:04 #759852
Quoting T Clark
How is this relevant?


Please ask Banno.
T Clark December 01, 2022 at 19:40 #759882
Quoting Agent Smith
Please ask Banno.


I'm asking you. You wrote it.
Agent Smith December 01, 2022 at 20:01 #759900
Quoting T Clark
I'm asking you. You wrote it.


Apologies mi amigo, but Banno's the lead vocalist. I'm just a backup singer. Looks like I'm going to be unemployed very soon! :snicker:
Banno December 01, 2022 at 21:28 #759975
Reply to Agent Smith And the coloured girls go do, dedo, dedo, dodeddo...

Take a walk on the wild side.
Hanover December 01, 2022 at 21:50 #759988
Quoting Tom Storm
I was taught (falsely perhaps) that in America the only people to understand irony and use it well in humour and art are the Jews.


What you say is true, which is yet another reason why my presence on this board is critical.

That is sarcasm, not irony by the way. That's something else my people excel at.

Should the fire station burn to the ground, that is ironic.

If one's iron wrinkles one's pants, that is irony about an iron, which is not only ironic, but a pun, and it's even a dad joke.

I'll be here all night. Please tip your waitresses.
Banno December 01, 2022 at 21:53 #759989
Quoting Hanover
Should the fire station burn to the ground, that is ironic.


So you are of the Alanis Morissette school on this topic.
Outlander December 01, 2022 at 21:56 #759990
-wrong thread-
Hanover December 01, 2022 at 21:59 #759991
Quoting Banno
So you are of the Alanis Morissette school on this topic.


I'd have to go back and study the litany of complaints itemized in her song, but I believe mine is different. She describes various things that suck, like winning the lottery and dying soon thereafter. It is not expected that one might live any more or less based upon a lottery win, but it is expected that the fire house is the least likely place to burn to the ground. It is the unexpected event that makes that ironic.

To the extent the concept of irony eludes you, that simply proves @Tom Storm's well researched theory that irony comprehension remains a mystery to the gentiles.

And that comment is sarcastic, and intended to be playful, not meant as an actual cut on Tom's theory, as that would be sardonic, a new concept now for consideration.
Tom Storm December 01, 2022 at 22:01 #759992
Reply to Hanover :cool: :up:



Banno December 01, 2022 at 22:04 #759993
A valuable and erudite addition to our proceedings, Reply to Hanover... :brow:

(The emoji is for our American friends).

Janus December 01, 2022 at 22:19 #759995
Quoting T Clark
Hey, 180 Proof, what's that word for defining something by talking about what it's not?


Why do you want to know, Apophatboy?
T Clark December 01, 2022 at 22:26 #760000
Quoting Janus
Why do you want to know


Quoting T Clark
Maybe that's the best way of defining irony - by talking about what it's not.


Janus December 01, 2022 at 22:30 #760002

Quoting Banno
Take a walk on the wild side.


Or take a dork in the backside...

Quoting T Clark
Why do you want to know — Janus


Maybe that's the best way of defining irony - by talking about what it's not.


In case it didn't sink in the term you asked about is 'apophatic'. Not to be confused with crakaphatic.
Hanover December 01, 2022 at 22:31 #760003
Quoting Banno
A valuable and erudite addition to our proceedings, ?Hanover... :brow:

(The emoji is for our American friends).


I'd categorize this as somewhere between playful and derisive, as you are aware of my lack of seriousness, but you probably do have some level of feeling actual Aussie superiority. Based upon that, I can't call it ironic. If it were ironic, that would indeed be ironic, as we'd have never expected a non-Jew to be ironic to a Jewish person.

Another word beyond irony, sarcastic, sardonic, and derisive we might all consider is "ornery." That's more a general description of the general disposition of old men that comes out in their humor, which often times isn't meant so much to be funny, but it is.

And to add to the never ending pile of terms here, that is what I call self-deprecation, with a misplaced sense of self-awareness, which makes it funny in a different kind of way, like "why would you be ornery if you know you're being ornery"? It's a good question, but it's a thing. I'd call that observational humor maybe, invoking Seinfeld. another member of the tribe.
frank December 02, 2022 at 00:16 #760022
Reply to Tom Storm
Harry Houdini was Jewish. Does that help?
Tom Storm December 02, 2022 at 00:22 #760023
Reply to frank I think he may have lacked irony...
Agent Smith December 02, 2022 at 01:08 #760028
180 Proof December 02, 2022 at 02:23 #760043
Quoting T Clark
Hey, 180 Proof, what's that word for defining something by talking about what it's not?

Apophasis (e.g. apophatic theology).
T Clark December 02, 2022 at 04:46 #760064
Quoting 180 Proof
Apophasis


Thanks. I remember you talking about it before.

Quoting Janus
Why do you want to know, Apophatboy?


Yes, that went over my head till you clarified. Thanks.
unenlightened December 02, 2022 at 10:39 #760104
Irony means the opposite of what it means, unless it is being used ironically, when it should be understood without irony.