The hairpin - By Tobias

Caldwell December 10, 2022 at 18:15 1925 views 66 comments
I hold the strands of her auburn hair. It flows like water. The eyes of the tall shy boy are fixed on me. He is in love. To him, I am a part of her. I am her silver hairpin.

She pulls the covers over them; they lay entwined in the winter chill. They look into each other’s eyes. Deep within her new life began. I am her pillow.

I turn easily, as I’m new. Young Martita and her parents enter. The mother gifts her a silver hairpin. It’s an heirloom from oversees. Her hair looks like her mother’s. I am the key to her first apartment.

The woman inside me has silver hair. She almost looks alive. Her husband looks frail. He sends us off while his daughter supports him. I am a wooden casket.

The last 5 years I was a part of him. I will be discarded. Just this morning he told his daughter he loved her. Now I hold his stiff body. I was his wheelchair.

I am unclasped and her hair runs free. They kiss while they lay entwined. Her hair flows over the pillow. I lay on the nightstand. I am Martita’s silver hairpin.

Comments (66)

Noble Dust December 10, 2022 at 19:15 #762601
I liked this a lot, although the first thing I noticed was this:

Quoting Caldwell
I hold the strands of her auburn hair. It flows like water.


Which should be "They flow like water."
Jamal December 10, 2022 at 19:20 #762608
Reply to Noble Dust Disagree. The second sentence is free to refer either to the strands (plural) or the hair (singular).
Noble Dust December 10, 2022 at 19:23 #762611
Reply to Jamal

True, but my mind assigns the pronoun of a new sentence to the object of the previous one in an instance like this. I would find it easier to read if the second sentence referred to the strands.
Noble Dust December 10, 2022 at 19:23 #762613
I think the image is stronger when the object of the previous sentence is referenced in the second sentence.
Jamal December 10, 2022 at 19:24 #762614
Reply to Noble Dust My mind is different. Better? Not for me to say.
Noble Dust December 10, 2022 at 19:24 #762615
Reply to Jamal

Fair enough. See my second comment above.
BC December 10, 2022 at 20:00 #762648
Reply to Noble Dust Either 'it' or 'they' are grammatically acceptable, because it isn't clear which noun the pronoun refers to -- hair or strands. Because they are both correct, either one could be a stumbling block for pronoun checkers like yourself.

That aside, there is one "I" who is several objects--hairpin, pillow, key, casket, wheelchair, and hairpin again. Is the "I" different in each object or the same?
Jamal December 10, 2022 at 20:10 #762652
In any case, "They flow like water" doesn't work, because strands don't flow--hair does. Although mine doesn't.
Noble Dust December 10, 2022 at 20:14 #762653
Reply to Jamal

Neither flows in a literal sense, so either metaphor works.
god must be atheist December 10, 2022 at 20:16 #762654
Reply to Jamal Reply to Noble Dust My strands of hair flow down the drain in the shower.
Jamal December 10, 2022 at 20:16 #762655
Reply to Noble Dust No, I think one metaphor works and the other doesn't.
Jamal December 10, 2022 at 20:17 #762657
Reply to god must be atheist At least you have strands.
god must be atheist December 10, 2022 at 20:23 #762659
Reply to Jamal For a while. Because for a long while they've started to go south, through the drain.

I suggest you watch the movie "Under The Pavement Lies Strand". I could only watch the first ten minutes, it was that bad, but that was worth it. I'm richer for the experience.
Vera Mont December 10, 2022 at 20:50 #762671
Does this issue deserve so much discussion? I don't think the story is about hair!
Amity December 10, 2022 at 21:16 #762682
Reply to Vera Mont
Agree. A bit insulting to the author, I think.

What are your thoughts?
I've still to read again and comment.
The discussion so far is not illuminating.
Jamal December 10, 2022 at 21:25 #762689
Reply to Amity Well, I started out defending the story against ND’s criticism, because I thought the writing was very good. I liked the story and also liked it. I haven’t digested it yet though.
Amity December 10, 2022 at 21:29 #762693
Reply to Jamal
Understood. I haven't digested it either. It's a tricky one. I look forward to your comments. It might help me understand...
Thanks :up:
Benj96 December 10, 2022 at 21:34 #762694
Reply to Caldwell I feel the hairpin represents a comfort that is also fundamentally essential - a functional instrument: "her pillow", "the key to her first apartment", "I am a wooden casket", "I was his wheelchair".

In each case, the hairpin offers "that which keeps it together, that which has the utmost responsibility."

The hairpin in this sense is a metaphor for solidarity. It holds things together.
Vera Mont December 10, 2022 at 21:50 #762705
It is the story of life and love, as seen by objects that are privy to the most intimate moments. The objects are reporting significant moments, from the conception of a child, through the death of the parents, onto the next life. It's beautifully concise, yet revealing.
Amity December 11, 2022 at 09:00 #762818
Reply to Benj96 Reply to Vera Mont

Thanks for stimulating thoughts. @Vera Mont - beautifully concise yourself :up:
I've still to sit down with this and follow the travels of Martita's silver pin...

Look forward to hearing more from @Jamal @Noble Dust and @god must be atheist, please :pray:
Amity December 11, 2022 at 09:04 #762820
Quoting Bitter Crank
That aside, there is one "I" who is several objects--hairpin, pillow, key, casket, wheelchair, and hairpin again. Is the "I" different in each object or the same?


Good question :chin:
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 09:04 #762821
Reply to Amity Okay: I agree with Vera and disagree with Benj96. Rather than a metaphor, I see it as offering a unique perspective, or series of perspectives, on a life.
Amity December 11, 2022 at 09:08 #762822
Quoting Jamal
Rather than a metaphor, I see it as offering a unique perspective on a life.


Thanks.
Why would a hairpin not be a metaphor?
It has travelled and been appreciated over the years from different perspectives not just a life.

[Did you go just go back and edit your post to include 'or series of perspectives' ?! :smirk: ]

Quoting Benj96
It holds things together.


I agree. It holds things together, not just hair. And freedom ensues from its unclasping...it can be a beautiful constraint...
Amity December 11, 2022 at 09:12 #762823
Quoting Vera Mont
It is the story of life and love, as seen by objects that are privy to the most intimate moments


Beautiful :flower:
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 09:22 #762825
Quoting Amity
Why would a hairpin not be a metaphor?


Why would it be a metaphor? Why should what is described always represent something else? The challenge of fiction is not primarily to, with deliberation, convey important messages or general truths, but to do justice to the specificity of things, to the thisness of this or that. Allegory, symbolism and so on are often glib and facile, in my opinion, and are often secondary even when they’re not. At least, it’s not to my taste.

That said, some writers, especially here, do seem to want to say something big or represent something beyond what they’ve explicitly written, so your interpretation might be apt. The danger is that in always looking for something secret, you miss the resonances that are there on the surface. But you know that’s how I feel about fiction, as I’ve ranted about it before. I’ll stop myself now :grin:
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 09:29 #762827
Quoting Amity
Did you go just go back and edit your post to include 'or series of perspectives


Yep :smile:
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 09:30 #762829
In a nutshell, not every story has to be a parable.
Amity December 11, 2022 at 09:30 #762830
Quoting Jamal
The danger is that in always looking for something secret, you miss the resonances that are there on the surface. But you know that’s how I feel about fiction, as I’ve ranted about it before. I’ll stop myself now


Resonances abound everywhere. We can appreciate both surface floaters and deep-sea divers.
You know that. I see depth in your stories which use symbolism and more besides.
Are you being contrary just for the sake of it?

Amity December 11, 2022 at 09:31 #762832
Reply to Jamal
Naughty boy :angry:
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 09:32 #762833
Reply to Amity I’m not being contrary for the sake of it but saying what I really believe, believe it or not. It’s a big subject and it might be better to save it for the main discussion thread or that new discussion that I’ve been promising for years.
Amity December 11, 2022 at 09:33 #762834
Reply to Jamal
Heaven forbid :pray:
Amity December 11, 2022 at 09:34 #762835
Quoting Jamal
It’s a big subject and it might be better to save it for the main discussion thread or that new discussion that I’ve been promising for years.


I wasn't aware of this promise of a discussion. That would be fantastic. It's much needed :sparkle:

Have it on the Main Page, please. So everyone can see it. Not just those already here.
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 09:37 #762836
Reply to Amity We were discussing interpretation a while back and I was criticising the knee-jerk attempt to discover hidden meanings and messages in works of art, and I said I was going to make a thread.

By the way, I don’t use symbolism in my stories. Sympathetic resonances and enlightening symmetries, sure, I attempt them. Jesus I sound pretentious.
Amity December 11, 2022 at 09:41 #762837
Reply to Jamal
Thanks. I've learned something. Sympathetic resonances and enlightening symmetries, eh?
I've more questions but Martita's silver hairpin is being ignored. Later... :up:
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 09:44 #762838
Reply to Amity Cool. By the way I’m not attacking anyone here and I enjoy seeing the full range of interpretations. It’s just a hobbyhorse bugbear of mine that I’m too zealous about.
Benj96 December 11, 2022 at 12:19 #762857
Quoting Jamal
Why would it be a metaphor? Why should what is described always represent something else?


Well we can take it literally of course. In that case it is a sentient shape-shifting hairpin speaking to us about its life and many forms, as the narrator. That certainly adds comedic value to the story.

Why a shapeshifter would choose to be a hairpin of all things I'm not sure. Perhaps they just love being stuck to Martitas head? Lol.

But yes, in any case taking it literally offers new ideas and new questions.

I personally prefer to see it as a metaphor or analogy/parable rather than the literal sense as I assume (but may be incorrect who knows) that the author meant it to be interpreted that way.
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 12:26 #762858
Reply to Benj96 Well, now you're taking me too literally :wink:

There is space between an object in a story standing for something else (like a concept, emotion, feature of life, or force of history), and the object as a literal supernatural or science fiction phenomenon. In magic realism, postmodern fiction, slipstream fiction, as well as in genres that go back centuries, a talking dog might be presented without an explanation of how such a creature could exist, but at the same time it need not represent some high concept. Same with a hairpin.
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 12:40 #762862
One can think, "imagine if a hairpin had a point of view". If this is metaphorical, in a loose sense, then no problem, but it need not be strongly metaphorical, i.e. allegorical or symbolic. It need not represent something other than what it is, that is, what it is imagined by the author to be, viz., a hairpin with a point of view.
Benj96 December 11, 2022 at 12:44 #762864
Reply to Jamal I agree with you. I simply wanted to bring literalism to full fruition for both yours and my amusement. To "humour" the idea as it were.

But it does reach some interesting conclusions I think. Taking on the literal sense: the hairpin to be a shapeshifter, I mused at why on earth it would choose to be such an innocuous/overlookable item? If one could change into any form, why choose one practically unappreciable?

And this was simply summarising my argument that it doesn't matter how literal or metaphorical you take a story to be, it can offer important or interesting questions.

Our assumptions dictate the types of questions we can ask.
Benj96 December 11, 2022 at 12:45 #762865
Quoting Jamal
It need not represent something other than what it is, or rather what it is imagined by the author to be.


Yes definitely. I agree with your points :)
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 12:45 #762866
Quoting Benj96
Yes definitely. I agree with your points


Thanks, that's all I was looking for: quick acquiescence. :wink:
Benkei December 11, 2022 at 15:35 #762887
Quoting Jamal
By the way, I don’t use symbolism in my stories. Sympathetic resonances and enlightening symmetries, sure, I attempt them. Jesus I sound pretentious.


Yes you do.

Meanwhile, every story of mine has layers, so you better search for the symbolism if you want to really understand it.
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 15:39 #762889
Reply to Benkei :smirk:
Hanover December 11, 2022 at 16:47 #762894
Quoting Jamal
In a nutshell, not every story has to be a parable.


That's one worldview. The other is that there is deep hidden meaning in everything.

But that's not to say I disagree with your view that you can cancel out the beauty by ignoring the experience and instead focusing on details you might be subjectively imposing.

Yours seems more Zen like.

frank December 11, 2022 at 16:49 #762895
Reply to Hanover
including stop signs
Hanover December 11, 2022 at 16:51 #762896
Quoting frank
including stop signs


It means drive with abandon. I promise.
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 16:53 #762897
Reply to Hanover Well, that not every story is a parable is not merely a view, but a fact. The set of meaningful stories is a superset (or overlapping set) of the set of parables, and is not equivalent to it. I hope that is meaningful to you.
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 16:59 #762898
Quoting Hanover
But that's not to say I disagree with your view that you can cancel out the beauty by ignoring the experience and instead focusing on details you might be subjectively imposing.

Yours seems more Zen like.


I'm having trouble understanding this.

EDIT: I get it now :up:
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 17:00 #762899
We should probably focus on the story here though.
Hanover December 11, 2022 at 17:18 #762902
Quoting Jamal
should probably focus on the story here though.


Yes, back on topic.

I'd have guessed this was your story based upon the shifting perspectives, reminiscent of your Plum Pie story if I'm remembering right.
Jamal December 11, 2022 at 17:22 #762904
Reply to Hanover Yes, it also reminded me of me.
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Amity December 11, 2022 at 19:37 #762945
The hairpin

OK. That doesn't sound so very exciting. A hairpin: can hold the hair of men or women in place.
Everyday or decorative. Depending on culture and context. Showy or invisible. Symbolic or not.
A hairpin is a hairpin is a hairpin.

But this is not just any old hairpin. It is THE hairpin. What hairpin, whose, when, where, why?
Will our curiosity be sated by knowledge or understanding? Facts or fiction.

The story starts with an 'I'. First-person singular pronoun. Usually a person with an individual character.
This 'I' holds the strands of the auburn hair of a woman. But not too tight because it flows.
There's a young boy in love with the woman but his eyes are fixed on the silver hairpin.
Is it more beautiful? No. He loves it because The hairpin is part of who she is. Is it so meaningful to her? The hairpin is the capital 'I' not just an object.

The story has an interesting structure. In 6 parts of 2 lines each. Like a poem. Of love?
Each part distinct ( separate strands) but flow into one. What holds them together?

Part 2: 'She'. Is it the same 'she'? 'They' are together entwined as one. Is it the same young boy?
When is this taking place? Later. Perhaps. Sperm has penetrated egg. A new creation forming. Then another 'I'. This time the pillow. What importance? A gentle place to rest her head; a support.

Part 3: Another new and significant 'I'. We are introduced to young Martita. Is this the 'she'?
Or could the previous 'she' be her mother who enters with her father. Courtesy of the easily turning key.
The 'I' is key. The key to what? Martita's 1st apartment and a new life. Freedom.

The hairpin (the previous 'I') makes an appearance. An heirloom from abroad. Somewhere exotic?
Beautiful and of value; passed through the generations of a family. Strands of flowing life. The mother's hair is like the daughter's. Was the hairpin her own to give so lovingly?

Part 4: Another 'she'; a new 'me' and 'I'. The coffin holding the silver-haired woman. Which 'she'?
Her husband frail, supported by his daughter. Which family? The one of part 1 or 2. Confused yet?
Is the daughter Martita or is it she who lies dead. The end of her life and love. What came first, the chicken or the egg?

Part 5: The significant 'I' is the wheelchair of the father. Part of him. Like the hairpin was part of the woman. Love passed on.

Part 6: The Final Part of the story.
Have we come full circle?
The 'I' is Martita's silver hairpin. Now unclasped. Hair set free and flowing over the 'I' of the pillow.
Love continues; intertwined with life and everything that matters.

The hairpin of the title is the main character holding the story together.

***

This piece of micro-fiction is a real joy to read and follow, even with some perplexing pronouns.
It expands into a world of emotion. There are elements of joy, hope and sorrow.
Everything in life that the hairpin has observed as if alive...

The delicate pieces are not top-heavy. The balance and lightness shine through, lifting the spirits.
Thank you, dear author :sparkle:




Amity December 11, 2022 at 19:45 #762946
Quoting tim wood
Wow! Just wow!


You're back! It took this beauty. Wow, just wow :fire:
Again, you write movingly and with great sensitivity; sharing poetry with poetry.
Thank you :sparkle:
Amity December 12, 2022 at 10:16 #763083
More thoughts.
The short final sentences of each part relieve the suspense of questions of identity:

1. I am her silver hairpin
2. I am her pillow
3. I am the key to her first apartment
4. I am a wooden casket
5. I was his wheelchair
6. I am Martita's silver hairpin


Reminds me of childsplay :smile:

A game with the aim of guessing an object asking a series of questions. The first being "Is it Animal, Vegetable or Mineral?". If the object in mind is a hairpin, the answer would be mineral.
But is that all there is to the hairpin?
The questions following can only be answered with a Yes or No.

This story provides responses to the 6 riddles but we don't have all the answers.
It inspires more questions for the curious.
Indeed, the final query might be: "Is That All There Is?"...to life...
Alkis Piskas December 12, 2022 at 17:39 #763174
Reply to Caldwell
Nice! I liked that the "speaker" is revealed to be a hairpin a a little late, comoing as a surprise and dissolving the momentary confusion I was tricked in, with the male and female persons involved in the scene and who is who!
Alkis Piskas December 12, 2022 at 17:56 #763182
Reply to Noble Dust
You are right, in a strict way, since the subject is the strands and the object is the hair. However, with a little shift of the subject --by poetic license-- "it flows" may also refer to the hair. But I wouldn't get stopped by this. What follows, the "hairpin" surprise, is excellent!
Caldwell December 14, 2022 at 02:49 #763627
A beautifully written time-travel.
Benkei December 14, 2022 at 06:04 #763653
Reply to Jamal It's better it doesn't. If all the hair has flown, you'd be bald.
Benj96 December 15, 2022 at 18:53 #764177
Quoting tim wood
Step back gentle reader


Sounds like a quote from lady Whistledown in Bridgerton :P
Amity December 15, 2022 at 19:04 #764178
Talking about time travel. Heady days...

Animal, Vegetable, Mineral (1956)

Tobias December 16, 2022 at 10:09 #764341
Thanks to all who interpreted the story. It is not an allegory in the sense that the characters stand for more than just themselves. That does not mean the story does not hold meaning, just that the meaning is not allegorical. There is no hidden message here. I also did not intend for there to be riddles, though there are lots when one descries a life in 200 words.

The main idea was to write a love story. What happens? Tow people fall in love. I have experienced that when falling in love one finds mundane objects of the other fascinating. A hairpin for instance. A hairpin for me is a fascinating object because indeed it binds. I find all kinds of jewelry fascinating actually. The switching of perspectives is done to convey some external perspective. The objects have no stake in it, they are onlookers. The reader becomes a similar onlooker. However, it is also done because it conveys a kind of groundedness or materiality to the affair. Characters are not just characters, they have a life that is embedded in all kinds of material things. Would the boy have fallen in love without that specific hairpin he finds fascinating? Probably, but not certainly. I do not like stylized characters actually, who are just there in one piece, people change and become different also because they find themselves in different surroundings.

A lot of my stories are about unrequited love, misunderstanding, a world where the characters do not belong. This one is not. I wished to write a story about a world where they are at home, where they find themselves and find love.

That was my departure, so, yes, the shy boy gets the girl with the hair pin. They find themselves in bed, in a relationship probably in which they have children. But then, what happens in a successful love affair. The child they beget grows up, leaves the house, starts a life of her own in a new apartment. For parents this is an important event. They give something, something important to them, something to remember them by. Her hair pin.

Then... well love endures, but will have to end, like everything else will. The woman, mother of the daughter, the girl from the first lines dies. She is older, her hair turned from auburn to silver. The man is frail, also old, but loves her dearly. His daughter, the one who lives in the apartment now supports him. He is grieving, as is normal when you lose your loved one.

A couple of years later it is his time... he is old and in a wheelchair. He dies, suddenly and rather smoothly so it seems because he just told his daughter he loved her, which he did.

In the last lines the cycle repeats. The daughter Martita (or possibly Marta now) is in a relationship of her own, maybe conceiving a child. It is the repetition of love, the eternal recurrence. But that requires accepting fate, the fate of loss.

Though there is little of metaphor or allegory in the story, I do love @Amity insight that the hairpin holds the strands of the story together. That is very true, though I have not conceived of it as such. I am happy it is there though because it inadvertently makes the story stronger.



Jamal December 16, 2022 at 10:22 #764343
Quoting Tobias
Though there is little of metaphor or allegory in the story, I do love Amity insight that the hairpin holds the strands of the story together. That is very true, though I have not conceived of it as such. I am happy it is there though because it inadvertently makes the story stronger.


This is really interesting, and a good way to put it. It finds a middle ground between Amity’s view and my own.
Amity December 16, 2022 at 10:41 #764346
Quoting Tobias
In the last lines the cycle repeats. The daughter Martita (or possibly Marta now) is in a relationship of her own, maybe conceiving a child. It is the repetition of love, the eternal recurrence. But that requires accepting fate, the fate of loss.


A beautiful story poetically told. Thoughtful, delicate and a welcome change from violence to love.

Quoting Tobias
I do love Amity insight that the hairpin holds the strands of the story together.


Thank you. Sometimes the inspiration in a story is contagious; stimulating ideas.
Thought-provoking :sparkle:

Quoting Jamal
This is really interesting, and a good way to put it. It finds a middle ground between Amity’s view and my own.


Yes. It is the hairpin that binds :wink:

@Tobias - grateful for such detailed feedback :clap:

180 Proof January 04, 2023 at 11:01 #769379
Reply to Tobias "Loving" re/enchants the world. Sleepy "I-It" becomes "I-Thou" in hindsight. And materiality itself – ding an sich? – a (potentially) meaning-saturated idea. Yes, despite my objectivity-bias, every thing is suddenly alive to me with memories and affections as I reread your brilliant tale of wonder. Thank you! :fire:
Tobias January 06, 2023 at 07:06 #769872
Thank you @180 Proof for your kind words and @tim wood as well. My mindset at the time of writing was indeed wonder about how love suddenly enchants the world and makes things come alive. As for Ding as Sich... I feel love is the Ding an Sich and the hairpin becomes an actor. I was playing here alonf Latourian lines of a thing as an 'actant'. Latour though is quite dry when it comes to 'you'... I guess on thousand plateaus it is difficult to meet each other... Thanks :blush: :sparkle: :fire: