Why do some of us want to be nomads, and is it a better life?
Let me know if this is off-topic, since it might be too within the purview of the (supposedly) scientific field of psychology. Here it goes:
Ever since middle school, there has been an urge in me to say "fuck it" and leave. Who said I need school? Who said I need a stable job? Who said I need a house? Did I? No, but someone else, who supposedly knows better, did. Someone else, who has never tried anything else. There's an inherent rebellion in the fantasy; but there is also something more than that.
There was, and is, a dissatisfaction with the limits imposed on me by a conventional lifestyle. Limits in the form of expectations and threats, the former of which is really just a subtype of the latter. Back then, and to some degree now, I believe(d) the primary issue to be the non-nomadic lifestyle itself, and additionally that many of the other issues of conventional living would coincidentally be solved by a nomadic lifestyle.
Settling down means accepting the good and bad of your environment; settling down means taking responsibility for your interaction with the environment. You settle down based on static premises, yet you yourself are not. Why not leave when you feel like it? Why not bask in the boundless potential of anywhere? Why not always search? Why not always discover?
Settling down means accepting a destination. I seem to always grow dissatisfied with destinations, which makes being on an eternal journey alluring. On the other hand, many would insist that home is essential for everyone. Perhaps being a nomad simply means seeing the entire world as your home?
So, why do some of us want to be nomads, and is it a better life (interpret better how you want)?
Ever since middle school, there has been an urge in me to say "fuck it" and leave. Who said I need school? Who said I need a stable job? Who said I need a house? Did I? No, but someone else, who supposedly knows better, did. Someone else, who has never tried anything else. There's an inherent rebellion in the fantasy; but there is also something more than that.
There was, and is, a dissatisfaction with the limits imposed on me by a conventional lifestyle. Limits in the form of expectations and threats, the former of which is really just a subtype of the latter. Back then, and to some degree now, I believe(d) the primary issue to be the non-nomadic lifestyle itself, and additionally that many of the other issues of conventional living would coincidentally be solved by a nomadic lifestyle.
Settling down means accepting the good and bad of your environment; settling down means taking responsibility for your interaction with the environment. You settle down based on static premises, yet you yourself are not. Why not leave when you feel like it? Why not bask in the boundless potential of anywhere? Why not always search? Why not always discover?
Settling down means accepting a destination. I seem to always grow dissatisfied with destinations, which makes being on an eternal journey alluring. On the other hand, many would insist that home is essential for everyone. Perhaps being a nomad simply means seeing the entire world as your home?
So, why do some of us want to be nomads, and is it a better life (interpret better how you want)?
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To support an urban population requires a more intense use of land involving crop rotation, irrigation, domesticated livestock, and so on, including mining for lime and phosphates to maintain soil fertility. This is what 99% of the population relies on for food, and therefore it takes up all the most convenient land which of necessity is permanently settled. Nomads foraging for food in the fields cultivated by others leads to conflict, so generally nomads these days are confined to marginal land - mountains, deserts, and remote jungles. And they probably don't have great internet access, or health insurance.
I would think a nomadic lifestyle is similar to travelling/backpacking. While I enjoyed the experience, I eventually missed the comforts and security of home, and it felt like a relief to come back.
When I was in school and didnt hand in assignments on time, or deviated in any other respect from the demands of the conventional structure, my teachers would say In the real world, you cant get away with shirking your responsibilities. It was always about this alleged real world. Even then, I never bought into the idea of a real world. Ive lived a nomadic life ever since college. Not in the sense of constant physical travel, which can end up just as conventional and constraining as not travelling. My nomadism is a creative wandering. I think we all want to be nomads in this sense. We all want to expand and enrich our sense of value and meaning. Physical travel can achieve this, but only if done in the right way.
We all want to be Peter Pan, if that means retaining from childhood the passion for enchantment and adventure. But each of us must do it in our own way. How aggressively we are able to wander is a function of a balance between structure and novelty. If we try to wander into new territory that isnt structured enough, that is so alien to our previous experience that we cant find any familiar landmarks to navigate by, then our experience will not be one of magical delight and wonder, but of fear and confusion. Thats why most of us need the familiar structure of externally imposed conventions and institutions (social, corporate, legal, educational, governmental).
I am lazy. I don't often enjoy travel. I have little interest in discovery or searching. I'm not looking for anything. I do a road trip every now and then and drive hundreds of miles into the Australian outback, but I am always glad to come home to my familiar city. I enjoy predictability. I live in the centre of a big city and a few meters from by building there is constant chaos and activity. I think a craving for novelty is probably down to disposition.
And yet youve been active on this site quite a while, asking searching questions, especially of those who opt for bedrock truths in science, philosophy or religion. I suspect at heart youre a Bilbo Baggins, and if a wizard and band of dwarves came knocking at the door of your hobbit hole , youd find yourself off on an adventure.
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At least some of us do.
In middle school, everyone dreams of some form of escape - running away with the circus, joining the merchant marine, camping out in the north woods and living off the land - some variation of the independent loner fantasy. It is an age when fledglings long o fly and feel that adults are both constraining them and demanding too much. And it's true: in the real world, society sets limits to personal freedom and imposes obligations on its members.
Most people grow out of that adolescent rebellion, either because there are things they desire and want to accomplish, or because circumstance forces them onto a path not of their own choosing. But some do run away with a circus of one sort or another or take off on their to see the world.
The nomadic life is a hand-to-mouth existence. One can busk, beg or take odd jobs where he finds them. Since almost nobody will hire an unkempt (no washing facilities on the street) person with no address or phone number (you don't earn enough to subscribe), these would poor, brief jobs. If you could make yourself presentable enough, you could rent out your body, I suppose. It's not exactly a life of adventure.
There are some real world alternatives: seasonal work in landscaping, construction, snow removal, fruit picking, marine shipping. You could go from place to place, rent a room, take a low-paid temporary job, save up for a ticket, then move on. Some people do live that way - but again, it's short intervals of movement between longer intervals of tedium; not exactly adventure. Another possibility is to work long enough to buy a van to live in, but you would still need fresh sources of income. Unless you really did carry a backpack into the north woods. The catch is, it's too cold to survive there without a shelter, which you would have to build... and then you're settled, after all, only a whole lot harder.
Ideally, if you're of a nomadic disposition, you should train for a mobile occupation: join the Red Cross or Doctors Without Borders; be a surveyor, salesman or long-distance trucker.
Quoting Vera Mont
What is this real world you speak of? Ive never encountered it, only a popular conception that there is such a singular thing, and a multitude of notions of what this universal reality consists of.
Quoting Vera Mont
Only the person who orders their life in terms of many special and inflexible convictions about temporary matters
makes themselves the victim of circumstances.
Quoting Vera Mont
Or any job involving remote work that can be done from a laptop anywhere in the world where theres a cell or wifi signal.
I should add that what constitutes travel is not just a function of where and how far you travel in a geographic sense, but HOW you travel. I hike 5 miles every day, mostly in the same woods, but the trees, flowers and wildlife are constantly changingd. I am also writing while I am walking, and my changing ideas meld with the changes in the environment. One has to learn how to look. Anyone living in a large cosmopolitan city has inexhaustible worlds within worlds at their disposal, if they learn how to see them. This is the most effective sort of nomadism, the kind that can be achieved by staying in place.
So, you've been living in Narnia or Oz maybe? I'm pretty sure the societies there also place limits on individual freedom and obligations on their members. Unless you're a witch?
Quoting Joshs
Yeah, like I said, most people. Not ascetic hermits, yogis on the verge of Nirvana or Ayn Rand.
Quoting Joshs
Good example. of a mobile occupation. I'm sure there are others. The biggest problem is, you have to stay put and pay tuition while training, and then you have to persuade some employer to hire you. IOW, you can't start your peregrinations straight out of middle-school. And during that early adulthood, you have to avoid romantic and other entanglements that might serve as anchors.
Quoting Vera Mont
No one can place limits on the freedom of thought, especially when it comes to creative thought that is invisible to conventional society. You cant limit what doesnt exist to you. You can put only put limits on bodies. I know the OP puts the issue of freedom from convention in terms of physical travel, because they see physical escape as the only way not to become sucked into conformity. Im pointing out that one doesnt need to flee ones physical environment to do this.
Quoting Vera Mont
I think Spinoza and Kant are better examples, or anyone in any creative endeavor who manages to see things differently from the status quo. Kant apparently never travelled outside of his hometown, and yet defied the conventional thinking of his time and place. Are these people hermits? Well they certainly have to be comfortable with endless hours of solitary thought.
Quite so. Every adolescent can dream all they want about the places they'll go and the adventures they'll have. And if they lack imagination, they can watch movies and read books. They can hitch a ride on Sagan's ship of the imagination and visit other galaxies, or Wells' time machine and wander in other eras. Jack London's star rover did it very well.
Not quite the same as a nomadic life in the real - actual, physical, material; place where the body needs sustenance, protection from extreme temperatures and disease, sleep and waste-relief - world.
No, they're not examples at all. They don't ditch school at 14 and go off whistling down the road. But private tutor is another occupation that will provide travel if you manage to latch on to a family that gets posted to various places around the world. The real world, mind - you can't go wandering, willy-nilly in somebody else's kid's imagination.
Quoting Vera Mont
My original response to your comment about the real world was focused on your emphasis on social convention. You wrote:
In the real world, society sets limits to personal freedom and imposes obligations on its members.
When I said there was no one real world, I meant that even within the status quo of societal rules and conventions, there are multiple realities at work, in the sense that individuals must interpret rules and conventions as they apply them, even when they believe that everyone in their community is following the same legal and moral
code. The person who is aware of this can use this to their advantage. If one bureaucrat on the phone says no, hang up and try the next one. There are all sorts of ways to maneuver ones way within and manipulate a system by remembering that the system doesnt exist until it is put into practice by individuals, who all have a slightly different take on what it is, how it is supposed to function, what their role is, and what motivates them to particulate in it. Yes, there are real limits and constraints that one must contend with, but these are mobile constraints that respond to the ways we learn to engage with them.
I think that's right. Good posts. :up:
I think the distinction here is between a notion of the real as bolted down , recalcitrant facts that one must abide by, and real constraints on ones wandering that are responsive to ones interpretive frame of reference. I think the concept of travel implies that one will be affected , shaped, surprised and constrained by what one encounters on ones travels. After all , if surprise and discovery were not intrinsic to what it means to take a journey, there would be no point to it. The OP wants to outrun reality , seen as the bolted down facts of conventional society, by constantly changing locations. In other words, it would be a matter of continually swapping out one set of bolted down conventional redirections for another.
The problem with trying to outrun social entanglements is that it becomes very lonely , not to mention that one deprives oneself of the creature comforts of modem life.
I guess they'll know when the police show up at their door. The justice system doesn't accept everyone's personal interpretation of the rules. Once you're locked up, that's a circumstance you can't easily ignore - but as you say, you can escape - to some degree - through fantasy. Interpretation doesn't much alter the need to abide by laws and earn a living.
Quoting Joshs
Yes, in theory, you could waste your life manoeuvring around the rules, but it wouldn't make you any more mobile and it wouldn't feed your (should you have fallen into the life-trap most people do) children.
And, of course, you'd have to count on never getting kidney cysts if you've spurned the constraint of health insurance premiums.
Quoting Joshs
Yes. Imagination vs reality. Quoting Joshs
Yes. It was that question to which I responded, not one about an alternate universe.
No, a moldy philosophical model of what reality is (bolted down facts) vs a more contemporary way of thinking about the real (intra-action that creates material phenomena rather than interaction between pre-existing objects) that has made its way from philosophy into the social sciences.
I hope that will satisfy an adolescent's wanderlust.
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If you want to go off on your own and be a nomad, either on the road with the physical thrills thereupon, or in your apartment thinking great thoughts, be sure you can support yourself. As an ancient on this forum I've seen it all, especially in the world of mountain and rock climbing, where being a "dirtbag" is revered in some quarters - a little like a divine incarnation.
And then something happens and you run up a hospital bill in six figures and need a GoFundMe to survive.
And I have seen the twists and turns life makes, in one instance a friend who lived on fifty cents a day in 1960 and is a billionaire today. And another who started the same and died in a run-down shack, poverty stricken. So, if you want to be a nomad, don't expect society (while it's busy adjusting to intra-action excitement) to come to your rescue.
Good point! :up:
I did have to spend time on the road some when I was working. The longest period was for about 6 months living in residential motels and eating out every night. It's fun for about two weeks. After a while it gets really depressing, at least for me.
Like most things in life, I think it comes down to a matter of temperament. My fantasy of travel takes into account my pleasure in seeing new places and my sedentary nature. That involves hiring a driver and riding all over the country in a limousine, RV, or private bus. Stopping on a regular basis to stay in nice hotels. Booking with a travel agent who can plan my itineraries and take care of any details, e.g. reservations, local guides, ideas for activities. As a less expensive alternative, I'll just keep sitting here on my ass, reading, talking philosophy.
This video explains one kind of travelling; one that appeals to me and would be the one I'd employ. Just the opening segment gives one a very good idea.
My advice is to do that. Run free. See what happens. Life is all about picking your adventure.
Might not work out like you expected, but who am I to know.
Because most value family, home and stability (at least some of the time) more than freedom, excitement and adventure.
Young folks are on average more drawn to freedom etc since they're developing their persona, separate from their family's.
What do you think about the question however? Why do some people want to do this, and is it a better life?
My guess is that it is a better life, but not forever. I do wonder how long it takes before most people start demanding the other things of life that require them to settle down.
So then the question becomes; are we usually better of with more or less external guidance over the evolution of our selves?
Very nice. I missed this when you posted it. I have often said this too. I can take a walk in my city or get on public transport and just by adjusting how I choose to regard things, I am suddenly in a new city, an unfamiliar one - even if I have been through this way hundreds of times before.
There's a richness to this encounter if you (and I am struggling to articulate this) are open to seeing and set aside your preconceptions and anticipations and bring a different form of curiosity to the experience. So much of travel to me seems to be an imaginative act that takes place within us. Maybe you can tidy up the wording for me?
If you do this, please have health insurance. Don't expect society to give you a free ride. If you have an expensive medical procedure and can't pay, the rest of us have to pick up the tab one way or another.
I have health insurance, and even if I didn't, you'd probably not have to pay a dime, unless you happen to come from the same country as me.
Not directly, of course. But the money has to come from somewhere. Income taxes, etc. or if you happen to have a group medical policy, its spread out over many. Good to know you are thinking ahead.
Otherwise, how will you finance your odyssey?