Is nirvana or moksha even a worthwhile goal ?

Sirius November 23, 2023 at 15:19 6625 views 61 comments
Is nirvana or moksha even a worthwhile goal ?

The whole ordeal can be understood in terms of a life dominated by non-dualistic living, where the subject is removed from the mind as an impermanent conditioned phenomena and the world is experienced without any hint of attachment or where the subject is identified with eternal bliss and consciousness, and the world regarded as an illusion that has been spun by the webs of Maya.

This is what it is supposed to be. Is it ever like this ? Almost never, especially for monks and yogis. In fact, you are more likely to find the worst aspects of us in them.

Whether it's Nirvana or Moksha, the enlightened life represents a flight from suffering. Ofcourse, life still brings suffering, but the person no longer identifies with it. But this isn't the complete story. It comes at the cost of no longer identifying with all that is healthy, good, beautiful and pleasurable in life. How many of us would give up good food, beautiful women, a big library and a great music collection for a life in the monastery ?

What is even more terrible is this spiritual tradition sets one up for a lifetime battle against oneself. It's a cult of self-overcoming, rooted in self-hatred, unrealistic goals and struck by a fear of relapse into all that enables one to identify with other human beings, i.e our innate weaknesses.

With all that in mind, some philosophers have exaggerated the importance of suffering and restless agitation, as a characteristic of life. They have turned it into a neccesary evil that should be embraced with open arms to improve ourselves. When in fact, it is almost always destructive. Sustained suffering leaves your body searching for death, as it consumes your soul without destroying it.

Maybe hedonism represents best of all the worst ways you can live your life. But no one wants to hear this.

People want to know what is the other alternative.

Nothing. Every cure brings its own sickness here on earth. Sorry for not being a guru. I'm like you all.

Comments (61)

LuckyR November 23, 2023 at 16:55 #855628
Reply to Sirius
An excellent demonstration of the concept of the value of moderation in all things. Life isn't a single variable which should be maximized. As folks like to say: life's complicated. There are numerous variables that have importance at various times in various situations and circumstances. We all get to prioritize them differently. We look back from a wiser future and feel good about some of our decisions and regret others that we would do differently with our (new) wisdom. But having some regrets is okay too.

Overly simplistic philosophies that (over) emphasize single viewpoints ultimately leave me cold as too impractical.
Pantagruel November 23, 2023 at 17:03 #855633
Reply to Sirius Do you think that the answer to this question is (or should be) the same for everyone?
Sirius November 23, 2023 at 17:13 #855635
Reply to LuckyR

An excellent demonstration of the concept of the value of moderation in all things


I agree with everything else you said, except this point. l doubt this maxim is valid. As you see, human nature is too complicated for such generalizations.

Would l tell Newton to spend less time on physics and alchemy, and more on other departments of life ?

Nope. Who am l tell a genius like Newton that he should waste his time on what he probably regarded as frivolous pursuits and not dedicate his genius to physics, pushing our frontiers of knowledge to new boundaries.

Would l tell Cioran to go visit a psychiatrist and stop being a NEET pessimist ? Never

As a side note, even if "moderation" is good, it ultimately depends and varies with the individual.
Sirius November 23, 2023 at 17:15 #855639
Reply to Pantagruel

Do you think that the answer to this question is (or should be) the same for everyone?


Nope. But it's still worth exploring. I'm sure l will find people who agree with me, and in good numbers hopefully.
baker November 23, 2023 at 17:24 #855641
Quoting Sirius
But this isn't the complete story. It comes at the cost of no longer identifying with all that is healthy, good, beautiful and pleasurable in life. How many of us would give up good food, beautiful women, a big library and a great music collection for a life in the monastery ?

Probably not many, because life is still far too easy and far too good for most people to become radical.

Those who experience the diminishing returns in the pursuit of the proverbial "eating, drinking, and making merry", might begin to question whether said pursuit is worth it.

What is even more terrible is this spiritual tradition sets one up for a lifetime battle against oneself. It's a cult of self-overcoming, rooted in self-hatred, unrealistic goals and struck by a fear of relapse into all that enables one to identify with other human beings, i.e our innate weaknesses.

This is a projection of yours.
But I suppose that unless you have personally experienced the above-mentioned diminishing returns, you probably won't be able to relate to those who do.


Sorry for not being a guru. I'm like you all.

You don't say.

Pantagruel November 23, 2023 at 17:27 #855644
Reply to Sirius My point is, are you asking because the tradition appeals to you, but you find it too challenging? Or because you are seeking an alternative? Or is this merely a criticism? You say "what is more terrible". This suggests to me that you have a negative disposition towards the types of practices associated with the pursuit of moksha. In which case, this particular goal isn't for you. It isn't terrible, it simply isn't for you. Why do you feel compelled to defend your choice not to pursue this particular type of goal? For some people it isn't terrible at all. Brain scans of meditating buddhist monks have demonstrated there are remarkable things going on in their minds.
Sirius November 23, 2023 at 17:43 #855654
Reply to Pantagruel

My point is, are you asking because the tradition appeals to you, but you find it too challenging? Or because you are seeking an alternative? Or is this merely a criticism? You say "what is more terrible". This suggests to me that you have a negative disposition towards the types of practices associated with the pursuit of moksha. In which case, this particular goal isn't for you. It isn't terrible, it simply isn't for you. Why do you feel compelled to defend your choice not to pursue this particular type of goal? For some people it isn't terrible at all. Brain scans of meditating buddhist monks have demonstrated there are remarkable things going on in their minds.


The tradition does appeal to me, it is challenging, l am always seeking an alternative, this post is criticism. I don't know about my disposition, since l am all over the place, but it's not hard to find an ascetic inclination in myself. Maybe Buddhism is for me, maybe it isn't.

The above post is not sarcastic. It's a true representation.

Why do l feel the need to publicize my views ? There isn't a single motive. I just decided to vent. God knows what pushed my mind/brain to do this

I know meditation has been proven to be useful, but nirvana/moksha isn’t that. You can meditate all your life and still never reach nirvana. A lot of people seem to conflate beneficial religious practices with the goals of religions / way of life
Sirius November 23, 2023 at 17:58 #855659
Reply to baker

Probably not many, because life is still far too easy and far too good for most people to become radical.

Those who experience the diminishing returns in the pursuit of the proverbial "eating, drinking, and making merry", might begin to question whether said pursuit is worth it.


If you want me to be completely honest. I have felt and do feel the diminishing returns thanks to my depression. Sometimes l wish for death to overtake me. I don't want to live, nor do l want to die.

I know what is it like for nothing to satisfy you, not even an hour long meditation session, medication, a dedicated study of the religious scriptures of all major world religions does the job for me

Why am l bitter ? Cause the medicine l was given didn't cure me of my illness. I have now come to the conclusion that to look for life-saving, life-guiding guidelines is fruitless. Life is too complicated.

There is no Jesus, Muhammad, Buddha who can guide me. No traditional religion, no secular religion, no philosophy, no arts, no literature.

Anything goes

schopenhauer1 November 23, 2023 at 18:13 #855664
Quoting Sirius
It comes at the cost of no longer identifying with all that is healthy, good, beautiful and pleasurable in life. How many of us would give up good food, beautiful women, a big library and a great music collection for a life in the monastery ?


That’s why I advocate not starting life. But also Schopenhauer, the great pessimist. What you speak of is the hedonic treadmill that the ascetic refrains from. The you have, the more you need to maintain and keep it going for the next hedonic kick.

But let's look at the hedonism of Epicurus. His idea was a communal society of friends enjoying a bit of wine, gardening communally for food, laying next to the river and trees, and being okay with philosophical conversation for higher entertainment. That was it. Materially, however, his culture relied just as much on a large Mediterranean trade network. Not as global as today, but still widespread. He too, had the appearance of an optimist who thought that a commune amidst a larger network was possible. But that's just it, communes only exist because the larger network of economic output outside it allows them to live that lifestyle. So oddly enough, it is using the drudgery labor force so one can maintain an internal idealized labor force.. Rarely does a commune use everything from its own output and only its own output. I am sure the pottery, they used, for example came from far off. Perhaps they only live on oil and wine from their own vinyards, perhaps.. But not likely.

Anyways, moving on.. Pessimism is Buddhism/Hinduism/Gnosticism shorn of its mythological trappings. That is simply seeing the world as a burden, and thus rebelling against the burden.
schopenhauer1 November 23, 2023 at 18:27 #855674
Reply to Sirius
By the way, you may get something from this here:
The World as Will and Representation by Arthur Schopenhauer, translated by R B Haldane and J. Kemp Second Book:But what now impels us to inquiry is just that we are not satisfied with knowing that we have ideas, that they are such and such, and that they are connected according to certain laws, the general expression of which is the principle of sufficient reason. We wish to know the significance of these ideas; we ask whether this world is merely idea; in which case it would pass by us like an empty dream or a baseless vision, not worth our notice; or whether it is also something else, something more than idea, and if so, what. Thus much is certain, that this something we seek for must be completely and in its whole nature different from the idea; that the forms and laws of the idea must therefore be completely foreign to it; further, that we cannot arrive at it from the idea under the guidance of the laws which merely combine objects, ideas, among themselves, and which are the forms of the principle of sufficient reason.

Thus we see already that we can never arrive at the real nature of things from without. However much we investigate, we can never reach anything but images and names. We are like a man who goes round a castle seeking in vain for an entrance, and sometimes sketching the façades. And yet this is the method that has been followed by all philosophers before me.


And being a huge fan of Schopenhauer's estimation of things, regarding his metaphysics, I would say this previous post has most of my critiques and question of his metaphysics in one go:
Quoting schopenhauer1
But again, as poetic as this looks, as I indicated in that quote, it loses any explanation outside of theistic speculation. Theism would denote that God (All-Will) wanted to reveal himself to himself and thus individuated himself via emanations into lower worlds via some Platonic unfolding from universalized Forms to gross individualized forms in the world of time and space. This is all Platonic/Neoplatonic.

Schop is advocating for non-theistic All-Oneness that individuates into multiplicity. That is harder to explain intelligibly as to how All-Will can become multiplicity. This in the end, for all his awesome ideas, becomes a mere assertion. All he can do is point to other non-helpful assertions such as the Vedas/Upanishads whereby the idea of Maya and "illusion" enters the equation. All is one, but we don't realize it. But then the illusion becomes the thing to be explained. Why is the "illusion" so complicated in its phenomenal form if everything is at base oneness? If anything, the more complexity of scientific discoveries reveals this. You can superficially say that physics reveals a sort of "oneneess" in something like a Unified Field Theory, but that is very superficial as that itself is gotten to because of complex mathematical formulations that reveal that, not because it is so apparent because of its basicness to being.

Rather, being seems to be interminably complex and individuated, contra Schopenhauer. He (and others) take the idea of things like "ego" (individual-selfish-drive) and "compassion" (the drive to feel empathy and help people despite one's selfish pull), as some sort of reified unity, when in fact they are just dispositional psychological attitudes, nothing more. They are complex pheonemona and it's often hard to tell what is purely ego and purely compassionate. One can twist those two concepts to variations all day (loving myself is loving others is loving everything is loving myself again, etc. etc.). But this is all just word-play and concept-games at this point, not true metaphysics.

It is yet to be determined why illusion would enter the system at all for Schopenhauer. My way to try to recover this is to emphasize Schop's idea of Will's immediacy and not it's transcendence. That is to say, there can never be a prioricity in his system. This World of Appearance is literally Will-objectified/personified. There is no Will and then appearance. But again, that doesn't say much either except what we already know, that the world appears to us a certain familiar way and that there is another aspect of it that is mere unity. That doesn't explain why unity needs appearance.

Perhaps the only answer is a quasi-theological one. Will needs appearance to be its double-aspect because Will wants it in some way so as to have a way to enact its striving nature. Striving without objects, is basically nothing. But then, here we go again with a theological explanation of some sort of logos, desire, reason, etc.


The World as Will and Representation by Arthur Schopenhauer, translated by R B Haldane and J. Kemp Second Book:But what now impels us to inquiry is just that we are not satisfied with knowing that we have ideas, that they are such and such, and that they are connected according to certain laws, the general expression of which is the principle of sufficient reason. We wish to know the significance of these ideas; we ask whether this world is merely idea; in which case it would pass by us like an empty dream or a baseless vision, not worth our notice; or whether it is also something else, something more than idea, and if so, what. Thus much is certain, that this something we seek for must be completely and in its whole nature different from the idea; that the forms and laws of the idea must therefore be completely foreign to it; further, that we cannot arrive at it from the idea under the guidance of the laws which merely combine objects, ideas, among themselves, and which are the forms of the principle of sufficient reason.

Thus we see already that we can never arrive at the real nature of things from without. However much we investigate, we can never reach anything but images and names. We are like a man who goes round a castle seeking in vain for an entrance, and sometimes sketching the façades. And yet this is the method that has been followed by all philosophers before me.


Certainly @Wayfarer has much to say on these matters. You may want to revisit that thread actually and pull some things from there as Schop's ideas have been discussed and are pertinent to your question about asceticism:
https://thephilosophyforum.com/discussion/comment/831351
Pantagruel November 23, 2023 at 18:37 #855678
Quoting Sirius
I know meditation has been proven to be useful, but nirvana/moksha isn’t that. You can meditate all your life and still never reach nirvana. A lot of people seem to conflate beneficial religious practices with the goals of religions / way of life


And this is why it is all about your expectations and your goals. Whether those are conformant or consistent with the goals of the community of practice can only be decided by you. In general, advanced spiritual training usually involves the active setting aside of personal preferences as one inherent aspect of the practice. It doesn't sound like that meshes with your goals.
baker November 23, 2023 at 18:51 #855679
Quoting schopenhauer1
And being a huge fan of Schopenhauer's estimation of things


A huge fan of his trust-fund lifestyle. It's easy to be pessimistic when one doesn't have to work to pay one's bills!
baker November 23, 2023 at 19:00 #855683
Quoting Sirius
Anything goes


And yet circles aren't squares.

If you have time on your hands, then maybe look at the work of Matthew Ratcliffe
https://york.academia.edu/MatthewRatcliffe
schopenhauer1 November 23, 2023 at 19:01 #855684
Quoting baker
A huge fan of his trust-fund lifestyle. It's easy to be pessimistic when one doesn't have to work to pay one's bills!


Hey troll, read my whole post, and you'll see the irony of your trolling. (Hint: read the part about Epicurus in the post above the one you quoted).

I also found it ironic that you couldn't understand the bit of trolling that political satire functions as when lampooning people's beliefs regarding political matters, yet, all you do is lampoon people's posts, trying to find some sort of ad hominem weakness.
baker November 23, 2023 at 19:11 #855687
Reply to schopenhauer1 What a romantic!
Nils Loc November 23, 2023 at 19:25 #855689
Quoting Sirius
In fact, you are more likely to find the worst aspects of us in them (monks and yogis).


A hasty generalization. Though there is plenty evidence of hypocrisy/exploitation of gurus/teachers over their devotees. The worst part is when devotees are taught to put their teachers on a pedestal, to have absolute faith in them as if they were gods/kings on earth. This sometimes seems like a legacy construct of controlling/exploiting folks.

The perennial problem of the guru is understood by the adage: "Do as I say, not as I do."

Quoting Sirius
It comes at the cost of no longer identifying with all that is healthy, good, beautiful and pleasurable in life.


I don't think this is true either.

Quoting Sirius
What is even more terrible is this spiritual tradition sets one up for a lifetime battle against oneself. It's a cult of self-overcoming, rooted in self-hatred, unrealistic goals and struck by a fear of relapse into all that enables one to identify with other human beings, i.e our innate weaknesses.


You might as well be describing here the internal struggle of those suffering through Capitalistic striving for success or status. There is always a cult to deal with, either the one you enjoy, the one you're trapped in, or the one you're fleeing from.






Tom Storm November 23, 2023 at 20:33 #855711
Quoting schopenhauer1
I also found it ironic that you couldn't understand the bit of trolling that political satire functions as when lampooning people's beliefs regarding political matters, yet, all you do is lampoon people's posts, trying to find some sort of ad hominem weakness.


I have tried to point this out myself. I suspect that if searing is foundational to a worldview, there's not much point engaging with them about this since they will just take it as evidence of your bad faith.
schopenhauer1 November 23, 2023 at 20:51 #855712
Quoting Tom Storm
I have tried to point this out myself.


As you rightly should.

Quoting Tom Storm
I suspect that if searing is foundational to a worldview, there's not much point engaging with them about this since they will just take it as evidence of your bad faith.


Can you define searing here? Like having a searing critique? I’m not sure that’s a worldview, that’s the problem. Rather, it’s a sort of bad faith arguing style to provoke ire. It’s trying to be a kind of joker that is deflating the philosophy through ad hom satire. It’s too transparent and aggressive to come off more than a type of trolling though.
Tom Storm November 23, 2023 at 21:02 #855715
Quoting schopenhauer1
Can you define searing here? Like having a searing critique?


I meant sneering. Sorry. Typo.
Sirius November 23, 2023 at 21:14 #855716
Reply to schopenhauer1



But again, as poetic as this looks, as I indicated in that quote, it loses any explanation outside of theistic speculation. Theism would denote that God (All-Will) wanted to reveal himself to himself and thus individuated himself via emanations into lower worlds via some Platonic unfolding from universalized Forms to gross individualized forms in the world of time and space. This is all Platonic/Neoplatonic.

Schop is advocating for non-theistic All-Oneness that individuates into multiplicity. That is harder to explain intelligibly as to how All-Will can become multiplicity. This in the end, for all his awesome ideas, becomes a mere assertion. All he can do is point to other non-helpful assertions such as the Vedas/Upanishads whereby the idea of Maya and "illusion" enters the equation. All is one, but we don't realize it. But then the illusion becomes the thing to be explained. Why is the "illusion" so complicated in its phenomenal form if everything is at base oneness? If anything, the more complexity of scientific discoveries reveals this. You can superficially say that physics reveals a sort of "oneneess" in something like a Unified Field Theory, but that is very superficial as that itself is gotten to because of complex mathematical formulations that reveal that, not because it is so apparent because of its basicness to being.

Rather, being seems to be interminably complex and individuated, contra Schopenhauer. He (and others) take the idea of things like "ego" (individual-selfish-drive) and "compassion" (the drive to feel empathy and help people despite one's selfish pull), as some sort of reified unity, when in fact they are just dispositional psychological attitudes, nothing more. They are complex pheonemona and it's often hard to tell what is purely ego and purely compassionate. One can twist those two concepts to variations all day (loving myself is loving others is loving everything is loving myself again, etc. etc.). But this is all just word-play and concept-games at this point, not true metaphysics.

It is yet to be determined why illusion would enter the system at all for Schopenhauer. My way to try to recover this is to emphasize Schop's idea of Will's immediacy and not it's transcendence. That is to say, there can never be a prioricity in his system. This World of Appearance is literally Will-objectified/personified. There is no Will and then appearance. But again, that doesn't say much either except what we already know, that the world appears to us a certain familiar way and that there is another aspect of it that is mere unity. That doesn't explain why unity needs appearance.

Perhaps the only answer is a quasi-theological one. Will needs appearance to be its double-aspect because Will wants it in some way so as to have a way to enact its striving nature. Striving without objects, is basically nothing. But then, here we go again with a theological explanation of some sort of logos, desire, reason, etc.
— schopenhauer1



I'm always happy to see someone who admires Schopenhauer. He has played a pivotal in shaping my worldview.

I take Schopenhauer's viewpoint to be identical to what is found in the Upanishads, as long as you don't talk about the personal Saguna Brahman. The will in itself has two aspects to it, it appears to be the driving source behind all that exists phenomenally, whilst being pure consciousness upon which the phenomena rests.

An apt example is that of a dream in which you exist as one character amongst many other characters. You have a body in your dream and operate with 5 senses. But once you wake up, you realize it was all an illusion, and that all the different objects in the dream were just you.

The illusion only exists phenomenally from the perspective of those who are trapped inside it. But for those who escape it, the illusion isn't real. It's like coming across a mirage. You keep going in its direction, believing it to be real, but once you reach the place, you realize it was all an illusion. The mirage doesn't exist.

Schopenhauer's ethics is based on a feeling of compassion for others due to the fact that they are not different from you. Moreover, once you start treating others as yourself, the veils of multiplicity will be lifted. Your life will become a reflection of non-dualism, where the subject is the object.
Wayfarer November 23, 2023 at 21:18 #855718
Quoting Sirius
If you want me to be completely honest. I have felt and do feel the diminishing returns thanks to my depression. Sometimes l wish for death to overtake me. I don't want to live, nor do l want to die.


And you have no interest in being free from that? Or is it you don’t believe it’s possible? Do you think that condition is a factor in your judgement as to what constitutes Nirv??a?
Tom Storm November 23, 2023 at 21:50 #855722
Quoting Sirius
Is nirvana or moksha even a worthwhile goal ?


Every belief system seems to advocate for a first prize of some kind, whether that be liberation, a classless society, or the Kingdom of Heaven. We tend to go after the prize that appeals to our personal tastes and inclinations. Or the dictates of socialization.

Quoting Sirius
How many of us would give up good food, beautiful women, a big library and a great music collection for a life in the monastery ?


Depends on the monastery.

Quoting Sirius
Maybe hedonism represents best of all the worst ways you can live your life. But no one wants to hear this.


How would we demonstrate that any particular way of living is 'best'. Best for my temperament, or needs? Best for society? Best for 'truth? Pick your criterion of value.

And hedonism comes in hard and soft forms. It's not all cocaine and being blown by supermodels.

Personally, I have not come to any deliberate decision about how best to live. I like to improvise and wing it. I have not been socialized or raised in an Eastern religious traditions, so why should they feature in my life? I have read some Buddhism and some Hinduism and studied comparative religions briefly at University. There are some very interesting fames and model of reality provided by these faiths, but so what? Is there any reason why I would twist my life around a belief system I don't really understand and isn't part of my culture?

Many of us seem to be persecuted by the idea that we should be more serious, more transcendent, more ethical. I'm somewhat simplistic - I think we should just get on with living and try not to be a cunt.
Sirius November 23, 2023 at 21:55 #855724
Reply to Wayfarer

And you have no interest in being free from that? Or is it you don’t believe it’s possible? Do you think that condition is a factor in your judgement as to what constitutes Nirv??a?


My mental health does influence my judgments. But the ideas in my OP have occurred to me repeatedly.

Actually, the problem isn't with nirvana itself. As a goal , it is not only conceivable, but a select few do manage to attain it.

The problem has more to do with how it's projected or sold as a goal to everyone, which included myself. I firmly believe it's incredibly unhelpful and even harmful to become a Buddhist for the purpose of attaining nirvana. It's akin to studying maths to win the fields medal or solve one of the 7 millennium problems. I can almost guarantee disappointment to anyone who does this.

People just don't seem to take the spirtual traditions seriously anymore, not even monks ( I notice this despite being a nobody, a novice )

On the bright side of things, I noticed people in Buddhist countries usually aim to be reborn in a better state next life. In fact, meditation isn't even a common practice and the religion mostly serves ritual and ethical roles. It's no different from Abrahamic religions. The average Muslim isn't aiming to attain fana either and it is makes sense.

TLDR : For those who are not meant to attain nirvana, going for it is akin to an inexperienced climber aiming to reach the peak of K2. It will be nothing short of a disaster

schopenhauer1 November 23, 2023 at 21:59 #855725
Quoting Sirius
I'm always happy to see someone who admires Schopenhauer. He has played a pivotal in shaping my worldview.


He has an ingenious way of looking at things and focuses on the big picture of philosophy whilst touching on most of the other aspects and how it fits into the system. He is a system-builder par excellance. A great foil to today's parsing of problems separately. I don't think any of the other system builders were as comprehensive whilst still being consistent and clear to a reader with some philosophical background.

Quoting Sirius
An apt example is that of a dream in which you exist as one character amongst many other characters. You have a body in your dream and operate with 5 senses. But once you wake up, you realize it was all an illusion, and that all the different objects in the dream were just you.

The illusion only exists phenomenally from the perspective of those who are trapped inside it. But for those who escape it, the illusion isn't real. It's like coming across a mirage. You keep going in its direction, believing it to be real, but once you reach the place, you realize it was all an illusion. The mirage doesn't exist.

Schopenhauer's ethics is based on a feeling of compassion for others due to the fact that they are not different from you. Moreover, once you start treating others as yourself, the veils of multiplicity will be lifted. Your life will become a reflection of non-dualism, where the subject is the object.


Good summarization of Schop in a few paragraphs. I admire the ability to be succinct but comprehensive, one of the hardest things to do when dealing with lofty concepts.

So without rehashing that thread that already had many of the arguments, I will just reiterate that one can always doubt the unitary Will. Also, I find it hard for Schopenhauer to have Will-individuated in the "mirage" without some intention or myth behind it (why is it not a nothing-unitary-oneness?).

It is a novel way to answer how it is that we have a subjective experience. It is Will mediated through a mind's space, time, and causality, objectified via pure Form into the "mirage" of a dross material world mediated by the principle of sufficient reason. It starts with Mind and works its way to Physical, not the other way around, is thoroughly Idealist. However, that ever remains an interesting and ingenious system written about and synthesized, not THE system that exists per se.

Rather, what I do take as truth from Schopenhauer is his normative understanding of Suffering. Suffering is at the heart of the animal experience. In the Eastern sense, Suffering is a sense of separation, because lack. We are not at home because we are always needing more. But I see it more as just evolution's drive. A subjective feeling of the drives of a metabolically-hungry creature. And the more complex the subjectivity, the more Suffering.
Wayfarer November 23, 2023 at 22:08 #855728
Quoting Sirius
The problem has more to do with how it's projected or sold as a goal to everyone, which included myself. I firmly believe it's incredibly unhelpful and even harmful to become a Buddhist for the purpose of attaining nirvana. It's akin to studying maths to win the fields medal or solve one of the 7 millennium problems. I can almost guarantee disappointment to anyone who does this.


It's 'projected and sold' to those who want to it to be, of which there are many. Of course it's true that because it is conceived of as the answer to all human problems then it morphs into the most precious of all commodities and something that everyone would want. But there's an obvious vicious circularity in that which anyone who seriously engages with such traditions will hopefully see through. That is the subject of one of the early popular books in Western Buddhism, Cutting through Spiritual Materialism, Chogyam Trungpa

I think the whole mindset of 'getting' and 'how to attain' and 'when are we going to arrive there' are part of the problem. You're right in saying that if that is the motivation, then it's a fool's quest. But often, spiritual conversions and epiphanies happen through loss and suffering, more than through the desire to get somewhere. To refer to Trungpa again, he describes that as 'balanced disillusionment' - like, not falling into the pit of despair, but understanding the futility of many of the things we had formerly deemed worthwhile goals.

I have pursued Buddhism as a personal philosophy to some extent and for sure, in my youth, I felt that enlightenment was something you could reach out and touch, that it would be like one of the anecdotes Alan Watts always tells, you'd hear something or see something and aha! I saw through that fairly early, and my interest and commitment has waxed and waned, but it doesn't revolve around 'attaining Nirv??a' or the failure at so doing. One vedantic term for mok?a is sat-chit-ananda, ???????????, generally translated as 'being' (sat, satya, 'what truly is') 'consciousness' (citta, heart or mind, consciousness) 'bliss' (a common suffix on Hindu names). And 'bliss' ought not to be overlooked, it is not reserved for the precious few that have reached the end of the journey, it is part of the 'true nature' which is 'obscured by adventitious defilements', and more than just an intellectual description of what Hindus must be talking about.
Benj96 November 24, 2023 at 01:21 #855771
From my understanding, nirvana is the state of just "being". Because "being" is not confined to definitions. Who, what, why, when, where, and how things "be/are" defines them. By one or more parameters. There are definitions for what it is to be a human, to be depressed, to be in love, to be a molecule, to be viscosity or acceleration, to be fictional, to be a kilogram, to be a planet, a galaxy and so on and so forth.

But there is no such definition for "being" itself. Which overlaps with the Tao - an indescribable, non reducible, flow of transitions and change, lacking any true definition but nonetheless witnessed/observed.

Being is like an eternal continuum of possibilities. And I suspect someone in a state of full recognition or acknowledgement of the simplest sensation of being are relatively at peace. Things seem trivial in that regard. Not to be worried about. Death seems like an illusion because "being" in it's simplest form doesn't die. Dying is for the living. And again they are all definitions of one or more aspects of what it is to "be".

The issue is its not simple to achieve that state. And because the mind forgets, gets distracted, learns bad habits, its also not easy to maintain that state. Every single assumption, bias, prejudice, valuation, craving/desire, discrimination between things that you have in your mind are limits or boundaries between what it is to be "you" (in the sense of ego) and what it is to just "be" (no ego).
LuckyR November 24, 2023 at 16:51 #855927
Reply to Sirius
As usual it depends on perspective. "Mad geniuses" accomplish great things that benefit the human race, however commonly their obsession impacts them negatively (often quite negatively) from their personal perspective. Thus using your example, if I'm advising my dear friend Isaac Newton who is considered to have died a virgin, exhibited bizarre behavior in his elder years due to mercury poisoning from his alchemical "research", lost his fortune having put a huge percentage of his wealth in the South Sea company before it crashed and had to live out his years in his niece's home, I would have advised him to develop relationship skills, moderate his alchemical pursuits and financial investments.
praxis November 24, 2023 at 17:01 #855931
Reply to Sirius

It's really no different than the concept of heaven. What would heaven be like? If it's continuous happiness and joy then it is static and dead.
Janus November 25, 2023 at 02:57 #856050
Reply to praxis There seems to be no logical imperative that continuous happiness and joy be static and dead.
praxis November 25, 2023 at 03:38 #856052
Reply to Janus

Can we settle on boring?
Janus November 25, 2023 at 03:40 #856053
Reply to praxis I don't think constant joy and happiness would necessarily be boring either.
praxis November 25, 2023 at 03:47 #856054
Reply to Janus

It would be an inhuman condition so I don’t think we can say much about it at all.
Janus November 25, 2023 at 03:53 #856055
Reply to praxis :up: Probably not.
I like sushi November 25, 2023 at 06:35 #856067
Quoting Sirius
With all that in mind, some philosophers have exaggerated the importance of suffering and restless agitation, as a characteristic of life. They have turned it into a neccesary evil that should be embraced with open arms to improve ourselves. When in fact, it is almost always destructive. Sustained suffering leaves your body searching for death, as it consumes your soul without destroying it.


I have seen this kind of thing a few times. I feel the issue is more or less about equating ‘struggles’ in life with ‘suffering’. To have something in life to tackle is what makes life what it is. To refuse the trails and tribulations in life because they are tough is to not live at all.

Hedonistic views will culminate in an understanding that peak pleasure is attached by prolonged pain. Water is the best drink in the world if you are parched, yet if you are a little thirsty it will not give the same pleasures.

Note: Pleasures are all about ‘relief’ in some form. Generally we all need variety (relief from monotony).

‘Goals’ that can be reached are not our true guiding stars. You will lie and deceive yourself everyday, so just guard against this as best you can and accept that the struggle will continue - enjoy :)
I like sushi November 25, 2023 at 06:37 #856068
Reply to Janus There is no such thing as constant ‘joy and happiness’ and if this is an unreachable goal you have then maybe ask why this is so?
I like sushi November 25, 2023 at 06:38 #856069
Reply to praxis I have been in such a state a few times (prolonged periods). It will end in a crash if did not begin with one.

What goes up must come down.
Moliere November 25, 2023 at 10:25 #856101
Reply to Sirius

I mean it sounds nice to me, but I don't think it makes sense to pursue it anxiously because that's counter-productive to the goal -- at least for me I have to accept who I am and live with that, and who I am is not that. I have my various anxieties and strange attachments and wanting to be content does not change this. But I still want to be happy and content with life. Why wouldn't I?

The problem, as you note, is that this can be harder to do than it seems.

But at the least I think that striving for contentment is counter-productive. Indeed, contentment strikes me as a lack of striving at all!

 
Quoting Tom Storm
Many of us seem to be persecuted by the idea that we should be more serious, more transcendent, more ethical. I'm somewhat simplistic - I think we should just get on with living and try not to be a cunt.


:D

Janus November 25, 2023 at 20:25 #856207
Reply to I like sushi What makes you think I would have such a goal? Such a goal would make itself unattainable.
I like sushi November 26, 2023 at 00:14 #856255
Reply to Janus It is logical to have an unattainable goal.
Janus November 26, 2023 at 00:21 #856256
Reply to I like sushi You introduced the idea of constant joy and happiness as a goal, whereas as I have not addressed that question, or the OP's question, at all except in response to you. You are merely repeating what I already said, which was that the goal of attaining constant joy and happiness would be self-defeating, so what exactly is your point?
I like sushi November 26, 2023 at 00:25 #856258
Reply to Janus Ok. Ignore me then.
Janus November 26, 2023 at 00:26 #856260
Reply to I like sushi If that is what you want...
unenlightened November 26, 2023 at 20:37 #856430
There are no worthwhile goals. If life is the goal, it is already achieved; if extinction is the goal it will be achieved eventually in every case. Set up the goal posts wherever you like and kick a can between them, or just kick a a can down the road. Or ask a stupid question and get some answers. Remember to breathe, or forget.
Janus November 26, 2023 at 21:39 #856450
Quoting unenlightened
There are no worthwhile goals.


Interesting goals perhaps, or at least goals that enable interesting journeys?
javra November 27, 2023 at 00:57 #856479
Quoting unenlightened
There are no worthwhile goals.


Damn, this so far feels like some really melancholically pessimistic stuff. Maybe it’s not. Maybe you’ve obtained a state of being devoid of both needs and wants. In which case, bravo and keep it up. Still, in my experience, day to day wants such as that alleviating thirst, or hunger, or an itch, or of getting sufficient sleep sure amount to worthwhile aims when held for good reason, and generally pleasure-producing when the goals are not obstructed.

Here’s two poems for you, whose vibe I generally hold only in the best of times, but they seem a worthwhile state of mind to express all the same:

-----

A SAIL

White is the sail and lonely
On the misty infinite blue;
Flying from what in the homeland?
Seeking for what in the new?

The waves romp, and the winds whistle,
And the mast leans and creaks;
Alas! He flies not from fortune,
And no good fortune he seeks.

Beneath him the stream, luminous, azure,
Above him the sun’s golden breast;
But he, a rebel, invites the storms,
As though in the storms were rest.

(by Mikhail Lermontov; translated by Max Eastman (I like this translation but can’t find it online))

-----

“Let me live out my years in heat of blood!
Let me lie drunken with the dreamer’s wine!
Let me not see this soul-house built of mud
Go toppling to the dust a vacant shrine!”

(by Jack London, from the opening of his book, Martin Eden)

-----

Potentially noble and thereby worthwhile goals, I say. At least, if one’s into this kind of thing.





unenlightened November 27, 2023 at 09:02 #856517
Quoting javra
Damn, this so far feels like some really melancholically pessimistic stuff.


Now a poem, one gives thanks for, but one does not ask for it to have a goal, not even to comfort the melancholy. But they illustrate my point. One does not denigrate the lives of others who choose a different path, not even a poet, not even a bad poet. Yet the op in sublime ignorance passes judgement over not one but two venerable traditions because they fail to satisfy his own feeble criteria of instrumentalism. It's a piece of egregious "what's-the-point-ism?" that deserves to be exposed for the depressing elitist nonsense that it is.

So I repeat, there is nothing about goals that make them worthwhile. Once get that into your head and you can begin to live a life in freedom.
baker November 30, 2023 at 20:36 #857579
Quoting Sirius
If you want me to be completely honest. I have felt and do feel the diminishing returns thanks to my depression.

That's not the recognition of diminishing returns I'm talking about. I'm talking about someone who works hard in order to be able to afford the proverbial eating, drinking, and making merry, and who realizes that the eating, drinking, and making merry don't compensate for the hard work needed in order to be able to afford the eating, drinking, and making merry. I'm talking about people who, for example, one day realize that they need to work for an entire day in order to earn the money to be able to go to the cinema, and that the pleasure of watching the film doesn't outweigh the hardship needed to earn the money to be able to go see the film.

I know what is it like for nothing to satisfy you, not even an hour long meditation session, medication, a dedicated study of the religious scriptures of all major world religions does the job for me

Why am l bitter ? Cause the medicine l was given didn't cure me of my illness.

Who gave you that medicine?

In the Hindu system, for example, you'd need to be some 75 years old, having accomplished everything a person is supposed to accomplish in this world in terms of raising a family and building a business, and only then could you even begin thinking about "moksha".
In the Buddhist system, you're supposed to either ordain as a monastic, or live as a productive lay person. And it's only as a monastic that one might think about pursuing nirvana. Everyone else is supposed to be busy earning money in as ethical a way as possible.
baker November 30, 2023 at 20:55 #857588
Quoting Wayfarer
The problem has more to do with how it's projected or sold as a goal to everyone, which included myself. I firmly believe it's incredibly unhelpful and even harmful to become a Buddhist for the purpose of attaining nirvana. It's akin to studying maths to win the fields medal or solve one of the 7 millennium problems. I can almost guarantee disappointment to anyone who does this.
— Sirius

It's 'projected and sold' to those who want to it to be, of which there are many.


It's often 'projected and sold' in a decontextualized manner, especially socio-economically decontextualized. Eastern religions are often being presented here in the West as something one can and should do on one's own, alone, in the midst of a socio-economic environment in which those Eastern religions are alien, while the Western socio-economic environment is actually often even hostile to those religions.

So it's not merely the seeker's own fault, his greediness, his "spiritual materialism" or "spiritual consumerism".

Many Western people interested in Eastern religions are trying to do something (such as "attain moksha") for which they have no socio-economic basis, and they aren't even aware of this lack.

Older, more experienced "seekers" owe the newcomers the courtesy to make them aware of that, so that they wouldn't waste time.
Wayfarer November 30, 2023 at 22:02 #857629
Quoting baker
It's often 'projected and sold' in a decontextualized manner, especially socio-economically decontextualized. Eastern religions are often being presented here in the West as something one can and should do on one's own, alone, in the midst of a socio-economic environment in which those Eastern religions are alien, while the Western socio-economic environment is actually often even hostile to those religions.


I agree. But I was responding to an OP which was basically dismissing the whole idea on the basis of it being unreal. I'm well aware of the challenges of integrating such traditions into another cultural framework but that ought not to be used to simply write off any such attempt. What Buddhism and Hinduism do provide are radically different ways of framing the problems of the human condition.

Janus November 30, 2023 at 22:41 #857638
Quoting unenlightened
So I repeat, there is nothing about goals that make them worthwhile. Once get that into your head and you can begin to live a life in freedom.


So, according to you no goal is worthwhile even if pursuing it leads to interesting, enlivening or inspiring experiences or enlightening insights?
unenlightened December 01, 2023 at 08:46 #857733
Reply to Janus Are you confusing a goal with a gateway? Goals are ends, gateways are beginnings. They can look similar.
Janus December 01, 2023 at 22:02 #857868
Reply to unenlightened A subtle distinction? Say I want to be an artist and I see my goal is to be the best artist I can be. Or my desire to go on a journey of artistic discovery is seen instead as a gateway. A worthwhile goal or a worthwhile desire? Mere semantics?
unenlightened December 01, 2023 at 22:31 #857874


Quoting Janus
A subtle distinction?


Quoting Janus
Mere semantics?


Quoting unenlightened
They can look similar.


Do you think we are going to arrive at more clarity with these questions? I think I explained things clearly enough. A goal that leads somewhere, and end that is a becoming? Yeah, mere semantics.

Janus December 01, 2023 at 22:43 #857880
Reply to unenlightened Are you asking whether you or I will arrive at more clarity? I find clarity in drawing any distinction that seems valid. I don't find the sweeping judgement that no goals are worthwhile to be clear or convincing.
Wayfarer December 01, 2023 at 23:02 #857888
I remember a key phrase from one of the first Zen books I read, Zen Mind Beginner's Mind. That is to practise meditation with 'no gaining idea'. It's quite a challenging maxim, as the act of Zazen and the discipline undertaken in Zen training is very strenuous. So it is natural to think that all this training must have some result, must 'bear fruit' as the saying has it. But that is still, according to S?t?, a 'gaining idea' - it is the idea that 'I' am getting somewhere, moving towards something, enlightenment, in this case. I think the principle is, not to get something or somewhere, but to learn to appreciate what is already so - no matter what that is - as if really we've already been bestowed with supreme enlightenment, but we've forgotten how to appreciate it. So training becomes more like Plato's 'anamnesis', an exercise in unforgetting.

[quote=Shunryu Suzuki, Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind]But as long as you think, "I am doing this," or "I have to do this," or "I must attain something special," you are actually not doing anything... when you do not try to do anything special, then you do something. When there is no gaining idea in what you do, then you do something.[/quote]
Janus December 02, 2023 at 00:15 #857909
Reply to Wayfarer This may be true in the "quest" for enlightenment, but in the context of everyday pursuits, and the enrichment of life in terms of interest, it doesn't seem to follow. Goals can be effective motivators in those contexts.
Wayfarer December 02, 2023 at 01:31 #857939
Reply to Janus Sure, 100%, but I think it has bearing on the question posed in the OP.
Janus December 02, 2023 at 01:35 #857942
Reply to Wayfarer Yes, I agree it does. I guess I was still caught up in the exchange with @unenlightened.
Bylaw December 18, 2023 at 11:47 #862355
Quoting Sirius
What is even more terrible is this spiritual tradition sets one up for a lifetime battle against oneself. It's a cult of self-overcoming, rooted in self-hatred, unrealistic goals and struck by a fear of relapse into all that enables one to identify with other human beings, i.e our innate weaknesses.
In the main I agree. Though I would add that I think one can, actually, win or 'win' this battle and not longer have the parts of oneself one had. One has successfully dis-identified them to such a degree that the neurons involved have withered - take that as a metaphor or literal description depending on your paradigm. That's not a path for me. I have sympathy for people who want to eradicate parts of themselves they associate with pain. And I actually believe that if you follow the practices for a long time you can end up in less pain. But also less who you were. If you don't like those parts of yourself, well, go for it. If you do, well, then it's probably going to be just as you described.

There is a universalization of both the goal and process where one cuts off parts of oneself. I don't think it is a universal. But I don't feel much urge to stop people who decide that's what they want to do.
Lionino December 18, 2023 at 15:58 #862392
Reply to Sirius No civilisation was ever built on forgoing suffering and pleasure, neither was any great theory of science formulated, or any great building built. I want power, I want money, I want knowledge, I want beautiful women, because it is in my nature just like the cat that, even when well fed, wants to hunt. Every youthful person has war in them because it is the human drive to wish to achieve things — then we grow old in mind and "make peace with things" not because we are somehow wiser but because we no longer have the power to change the things that ought to be changed. We are not pandas who are glad with sitting around and eating bamboo. To deny suffering is to spit on every drop of blood our ancestors bled.
If we want to deny that part of our nature, why don't we go ahead and deny the desire to drink water and to eat food?
Corvus December 19, 2023 at 19:20 #862787
Quoting Sirius
Is nirvana or moksha even a worthwhile goal ?

No.