What are your core beliefs?
What are your core beliefs? My therapist asked me what my core beliefs were. I thought about it and here are my top ten core beliefs.
1. The world is full of suffering, inequality, injustice, and deaths.
2. I hate being alive. I wish I never existed.
3. I wish I could go back in time and prevent all suffering, inequality, injustice, and deaths but I can't.
4. I wish I could make all living things forever happy but I can't.
5. I wish I could make all living things all-loving, all-knowing and all-powerful but I can't.
6. I have saved and improved many lives but nothing I do is ever enough. I never feel good enough.
7. I am tired of my CPTSD, Bipolar Disorder and Chronic Pains.
8. I wish I had killed myself when I was a child.
9. We are all doomed to suffer and die.
10. I wish nothing ever existed.
1. The world is full of suffering, inequality, injustice, and deaths.
2. I hate being alive. I wish I never existed.
3. I wish I could go back in time and prevent all suffering, inequality, injustice, and deaths but I can't.
4. I wish I could make all living things forever happy but I can't.
5. I wish I could make all living things all-loving, all-knowing and all-powerful but I can't.
6. I have saved and improved many lives but nothing I do is ever enough. I never feel good enough.
7. I am tired of my CPTSD, Bipolar Disorder and Chronic Pains.
8. I wish I had killed myself when I was a child.
9. We are all doomed to suffer and die.
10. I wish nothing ever existed.
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But you are still here with us. That can only be because you see a purpose in being alive, but perhaps you don't see that you see that.
Quoting Truth Seeker
For people who are cognisant enough, it becomes clear that life is not about feeling good. This world sucks, undeniably. But that doesn't stop us from pursuing pointless things that make us feel good or make us happy despite how much suffering there is.
I think you would benefit from reading a comic series called Berserk. It is a fun read too.
The reason I haven't taken my life is that would harm my family. I have a duty of care to them. I have a duty of care to all living things. I do my best to save and improve all lives, but I can't save and improve all lives despite my best efforts. 99.9% of all the species to evolve so far on Earth are already extinct. The remaining 0.1% will also die.
Do no harm as in: What we find harmful, I try not to do to anyone'.
Have courage as in: I expect the worst, prepare for the best and try to accept whatever comes.
Trust evidence as in this motto: In Nature We Trust.
I love your core beliefs. They are much more helpful than mine. I am working on replacing my core beliefs with helpful ones. Thank you for sharing.
I would not say I have any core belief. Identity is something fluid, that changes, realising that may be the difference between being scarred for life or healing from a traumatic experience.
Think for yourself: what am I besides my name, my appearance, my knowledge, my titles, my accomplishments, my grades, my bank account, my belongings, my relationships, my reputation, my memories, all these things that can change?
Resting your identity on beliefs will damage your sense of self when those beliefs are challenged. If there is one thing, however, is that I am dedicated to truth and to be a spokesperson for it, while at the same time recognising that some subjects are beyond truth: culture, politics, love, friendship.
Quoting Truth Seeker
You put upon yourself more duties than one can accomplish in a single life, and yet death is still desirable to you. Do you not see the contradiction here?
The more duties I realise I have upon myself, the longer I wish I would live, such that sometimes I wish I would live forever, regardless of whether that life would be pleasant or horrible.
1. Live and help live, live and love.
2. Help all, harm none.
3. Life is worth living despite the negative aspects.
4. We work together to save and improve all lives.
5. We can't change the past, but we can learn from the past and change the future for the better by making wiser choices in the present.
Not only is it impossible to do, but perhaps it is not desirable to make everyone happy. See for example this article https://iep.utm.edu/experience-machine/ (pleasure machine)
If some group rapes and murders your own are you allowed to hit back or is it still do no harm? You really committed to that one? Or is it only until someone else crosses a line? I call bullshit.
Someone starts giving opinions or attitudes you dont like do no harm is getting scrapped real fast. Bullshit. Like you.
Keep throwing the insults, hypocrite.
[quote = paraphrase of J.S. Mill (re: conservatives)] Religious people are not necessarily stupid, but most stupid people are religious.[/quote]
Amen. :smirk:
A link below to a thread dicussion ... for religious apologists like @BitconnectCarlos (of several decades of systematic collective punishment via mass murder, ethnic cleansing & apartheid)
https://thephilosophyforum.com/discussion/comment/851960
Shhh "do no harm" remember?