Faith

Paula Tozer August 14, 2025 at 14:47 2250 views 82 comments
Disclaimer:
When I made this post, I left something out - the reason I posted it. This is a post that outlines exactly how a person can realize that what they were taught to believe was erroneous. It is also a comment on the state of the world, where religion and politics do not collide, but where they have allied. Observing that men in power have found the most brilliant and pervasive means to control the masses through their powerful superstitions (both sides) seems logical to me. I do understand that there is more than one reason for millions supporting someone who, in my estimation, has contempt for those he and his party lead, but I see religion as the root cause. If you do not agree with me, that's fine. We do not have to engage in word wars. Simply move on. My world is free, at least for the time being. However, if you wish to speak on the topic of coercion through dogma and fear-mongering, I'm ready to respond.

You know, when I first realized that Christians lied, I was upset. I had been fiercely fed the Catholic way of seeing and thinking from before I was born, by being born into the legacy of Catholicism. As a teenager, I focused my opposition on one parent—she was the vigorous enforcer of “the faith” in our household.
Within this framework, the religious folks I knew extolled their version, delivered in their homes of worship, and put on a friendly face while secretly believing that theirs was “the one true religion.” I remember a very influential person in my life being smug when she told me that the Baptist religion—and all Protestant religions were derived from Roman Catholicism.
She had no clue that what she was talking about was the razor-sharp divide between her kind and the men and women who didn’t believe as she believed. What I began to observe, in more subtle tones than the conflicts in Northern Ireland contrasted, was that it was us against them. I’d often hear: When you’re grounded in what you believe, other people’s preaching about their version of a Christian god won’t sway you.
This mindset allowed her to pretend to accept their version of god and to be friendly with other faiths, to the point of sometimes sitting in on a service meant to promote inclusivity of all Christian religions in our area. It was that version of superiority that got passed down to me. I guess we all must feel superior to someone, right?
That was the first lie.
To say it wasn’t her fault—that she was doing the best she knew how—didn’t change what could be reduced to fear mongering and coercion. She vigorously defended her faith and regularly made me the target of her righteousness. Step out of line, and you’ll be condemned, rejected, ridiculed, and sanctioned—steps the representative of her god regularly preached from the Catholic pulpit.
I got angry when I realized she, too, was just a pawn in a religious battle. Even though it had the semblance of civility, the true wrath of her god was visited upon me. That was a battle she truly believed she had to win. A modern-day Joan of Arc. I would be her best work, her triumph over sin.
Much to her dismay, it didn’t work.
After a particularly tragic event that occurred in my life, an event that took her out of my life, some folks thought it prudent to invite me to go to their church. I understood that they thought it was an honor—but they didn’t know me. Not at all. One woman, when I said, “I do not belong to any organized faith,” muttered to herself but within earshot: “What happened to you that caused you to think like that?”
She assumed something must have turned me off religion—a source of comfort for her. It was also obvious that she thought that the tragic event skewed my thinking. That it made me angry at GOD and turn away from HIM.
She didn’t have a clue who I was. Who I am.
At that point, I was approximately ten years into my move away from any form of religiosity. I had rejected all versions that told me what to do, how to live, and how to think. Kierkegaard said, “When you label me, you negate me.” He gave too much credit to outside forces, to you, as I see it.
The best version of me revised his famous admonition to take back my power: “When I label me, I create me.”
It took me decades to declare, I’m not a Christian, and by that time, I was quite comfortable with stating my position on the sky-man-god. I tried to turn her offer down with class, but I don’t think she bought it.
When I got really angry, something came before it: sadness. Disillusionment. Confusion. The discomfort of realizing I’d played right into their god’s hands in my desperate need for connection and love. Granted, it happened before I had an inkling of what a god or a religion was—and that makes it even more insidious.
The worst part? It never worked. I was always rejected, mirroring the vision she reflected of her god.
People who don’t stand for something will fall for anything. There’s truth in that statement. Consider that children are people too—people with highly neuroplastic brains, ripe for the picking. Children are forced to pick a side before they even know there’s a battle raging, because it rages out of their sight, and they don’t have the insight, the perspective, to realize it.
When we start considering catechism, Sunday School, homilies, sermons, and religious “universities” as training in spiritual warfare, we will begin to realize the true nature of corporate, organized, old-time religion.
I write this not because I’m attempting to force-feed you my perspective. To do that, my parent would win, and that’s not an option. My liberation is not up for discussion.
I write because writing is my form of protest. I see what’s happening in our world today, how old-time religion’s archaic values are the force behind the scenes for an authoritarian regime, and how confused the good citizens of that nation are when they try to tease out the knots of how it crept up on them and usurped their version of reality.
It's deeply disturbing to see siblings against siblings, partners turn on one another, and good women and men fight for their right to worship a man they view as a demigod.
In real life, it compels me to ask the same question that woman mulled over within earshot that day, “What happened to you that caused you to think like that?”
What caused you to allow your faith to be turned into a commodity?
What made you condone violence and suffering if it doesn’t come pounding on your door?
In the Nobel Peace Prize-nominated tradition of Carl Rogers’ Unconditional Positive Regard, we must be willing to hear their answers.


Comments (82)

frank August 14, 2025 at 15:36 #1007060
:up: :up: :up:
T Clark August 14, 2025 at 19:22 #1007111
Quoting Paula Tozer
when I first realized that Christians lied, I was upset.


Welcome to the forum.

I am not a theist - I have no particular religious belief. I was raised a protestant until my early teens, when my mother died. Since my father was not religious, I fell away from the church. I married a Catholic and we raised our children in the church. I didn't go to church regularly, but I supported my wife in her and my children's involvement. There was never any serious religious conflict between us. When my children got older, they moved away from the church also. I think that bothers my wife, but I have never seen it cause any conflict between her and my kids. I respect my wife's beliefs and I can see the value it has for her.

Clearly, your experience has been much more painful than my family's. I know lots of people who have experiences that are more like mine than like yours. I'm sure you know lots of people who have experiences more like yours. I guess I would say that the religious believers I know don't lie about their beliefs. I'm sure some, perhaps many, are hypocritical, but I don't think any more so than many of us are hypocritical about our principles and ideologies. Many of us don't always live up to the standards we preach.

I'm sorry you've had such a hard time with this.
kindred August 14, 2025 at 19:47 #1007119
The issue with religion causing division (and wars) amongst people is because when ideology or dogma cannot be defended by reason it’s defended by weapons. It’s an inherent issue with any ideology because they’re rigid in their structure and do not evolve with the times.
Paula Tozer August 14, 2025 at 19:49 #1007120
Thanks for your response! It's been a hard road, and there's more to it, but that's basically how I felt about my time with religion. We lived in a small community that was very bigoted, and the lines between Catholic and Protestant were drawn in the sand, not in a confrontational way but in a subtle way. It actually shocked me when I realized just how much power religion had over my childhood. My parent truly believed she was doing the right thing. In many ways, my upbringing has been an example of what not to do. I moved away from the church in my late 30s, and my mother vigorously disapproved. However, she had her good points too - she was an extrovert who never met a stranger. I've taken the best of what she gave me and released the rest. What led me to write this piece is the bizarre situation that I see happening in the USA, with the Christian Nationalists taking over. I've come to realize that religion is the root cause of all that's wrong with society - it makes people into sheeple, followers who need a shepherd. It stops good men and women from standing up to tyranny under the guise of "live and let live." Thank you for your kindness. I hope my response hasn't offended you.
Paula Tozer August 14, 2025 at 19:51 #1007121
Reply to kindred Yes! Agreed! That's entirely my point. Religion is the cause of what's wrong with our world. More people have been killed in the name of a diety than any other way.
Outlander August 14, 2025 at 20:11 #1007130
Quoting Paula Tozer
You know, when I first realized that Christians lied


Let's put this idea and heartfelt feeling into generational context. Such was felt thousands, if not tens of thousands of years ago.

When good men claimed to make a "government" to repel the evils and ills of human existence: death, violence, robbery, rape, crime, etc.

Most were formed in good intent. But unfortunately., just like every Kingdom formed by the Rule and Power of a Just King. He, at least his body, is still mortal, and so will one day pass away, just like the lowliest thief. We attempt to have education, and more often than not it provides more or less the attempt is was envisioned to. But. There's always the possibility of a bad apple.

So, did "random kingdom xyz" that in fact prevented untold and unfathomable amounts of suffering and led to countless arrests and executions of those unfit to live moral life... such a great legacy, "lie" because it succumbed to the fate all human institutions inevitably succumb to. Corruption? I think not. But it's a fair assessment. And why things are, just a bit different now, shall we say.
Tom Storm August 14, 2025 at 20:23 #1007139
Quoting Paula Tozer
More people have been killed in the name of a diety than any other way.


Can you demonstrate that? I doubt it’s accurate.

I’m an atheist, but I don’t blame religion for everything that’s wrong or bad. Just look at Pol Pot, an atheist whose regime murdered millions of men, women, and children for a political agenda. Mao, another atheist, killed 30–40 million for his political vision. Stalin? Same story. One might even argue that philosophy (if we include political ideologies) may have been been responsible for more deaths than any other pathway.

Sounds like you've had a tough time of things, but perhaps it's important not to assume that one’s own experience is the whole reality of the world.

Hanover August 14, 2025 at 20:29 #1007144
Reply to Paula Tozer The problem is that your post is just a trauma dump, leaving the only appropriate response to be "sorry you went through that," and then maybe sharing similar stories we've had in order to validate your feelings.

Consider that done.

Now describe the lie (the intentional misrepresentation) of the truth by the Church, not just how the people in your life disappointed you. That way we might be able to respond philosophically, as opposed to just offering you personal encouragement.
frank August 14, 2025 at 20:33 #1007146
Quoting Hanover
The problem is that your post is just a trauma dump, leaving the only appropriate response to be "sorry you went through that," and then maybe sharing similar stories we've had in order to validate your feelings.

Consider that done.

Now describe the lie (the intentional misrepresentation) of the truth by the Church, not just how the people in your life disappointed you. That way we might be able to respond philosophically, as opposed to just offering you personal encouragement.


I didn't get that out of it. Philosophy is all about recognizing the forces that shaped you and trying to peep beyond them. If you don't encounter anything negative on that journey, you're probably in denial.

Outlander August 14, 2025 at 20:36 #1007148
Quoting frank
Philosophy is all about recognizing the forces that shaped you and trying to peep beyond them.


But is it really? If one is aware, truly, of what shapes not only one's self but the entire world, is it not something perhaps a bit more internal? :chin:
frank August 14, 2025 at 20:42 #1007155
Quoting Outlander
But is it really? If one is aware, truly, of what shapes not only one's self but the entire world, is it not something perhaps a bit more internal?


I can see why you would ask that, and it's a great question. It really highlights the stakes and what not.
Tom Storm August 14, 2025 at 20:44 #1007156
Quoting Outlander
Philosophy is all about recognizing the forces that shaped you and trying to peep beyond them.
— frank

But is it really? If one is aware, truly, of what shapes not only one's self but the entire world, is it not something perhaps a bit more internal? :chin:


It would seem to me that a key role of philosophy is to transcend one’s limitations - cultural and self-created. To ask better questions and move beyond the quotidian. I suspect there are many ways this could be done.
Paula Tozer August 14, 2025 at 21:11 #1007167
Reply to frank I hear you. It was no fun, that's for sure. However, it played a significant part in shaping my outlook on life. The post was explicitly designed to show how a perspective of a person can be shaped by the prevailing norms of their society. I could be anyone brought up in this way. I'm not special and don't want to be. What it's done for me - it's allowed me to stop thinking in magical terms and to embrace philosophy as a real option. It released me to think further than I could have if I tried to function within the confines of religion. It led me to write books and create two philosophical theories. I'm so much better choosing to move beyond those confines. If philosophy is all about recognizing the forces that shaped you and trying to peep beyond them, then I believe this post is exactly that. Each person comes to their realizations in their own way. This is mine. What I will share in this forum will be my proof of what my experience has taught me.
180 Proof August 14, 2025 at 21:13 #1007170
Quoting Tom Storm
One might even argue that philosophy (if we include political ideologies) may have been been responsible for more deaths than any other pathway.

I don't think "philosophy" has been to blame for mass murders, etc so much as dogmas have (i.e. unthinking, or rationalized, obedience to authority / tradition / popularity / superstition ...)
Paula Tozer August 14, 2025 at 21:13 #1007171
Reply to Tom Storm Yep. If one is only allowed to ask certain questions and accept certain answers the box is intact. Blasting through that BS is the point of philosophical thought, I think...
180 Proof August 14, 2025 at 21:16 #1007173
Paula Tozer August 14, 2025 at 21:23 #1007174
Reply to Tom Storm I did some research and here's what I found. Perhaps these numbers aren't accurate?

Religious Wars in Europe:

The Crusades (1095-1291): Estimates of deaths vary widely, but it is believed that hundreds of thousands of people were killed in these series of religious wars between Christians and Muslims.

The Thirty Years' War (1618-1648): While not solely a religious war, it was deeply influenced by religious conflicts between Protestants and Catholics. Estimates suggest that up to 8 million people died, both directly and indirectly, from warfare, disease, and famine.

The Wars of Religion in France (1562-1598): These conflicts between Catholics and Huguenots (French Protestants) resulted in an estimated 3-4 million deaths.

Religious Conflicts in the Middle East:

The Ottoman-Safavid Wars (1514-1736): A series of conflicts between the Ottoman Empire and the Safavid Empire, driven by religious differences between Sunni and Shia Islam. Estimates of deaths are difficult to ascertain, but they were significant.

The Iran-Iraq War (1980-1988): While not solely a religious war, it had strong sectarian overtones between Shia and Sunni Muslims. Estimates suggest that over 1 million people were killed.
Religious Conflicts in South Asia:

The Partition of India (1947): The division of British India into India and Pakistan, largely along religious lines, resulted in an estimated 200,000 to 2 million deaths.

The Mughal-Maratha Wars (1680-1707): A series of conflicts between the Mughal Empire and the Maratha Confederacy, driven by religious and political differences. Estimates of deaths are uncertain but significant.

Religious Conflicts in Africa:

The Rwandan Genocide (1994): While not solely a religious conflict, it had strong ethnic and religious overtones. An estimated 500,000 to 1 million people were killed.

The Nigerian Civil War (1967-1970): Also known as the Biafran War, it had religious and ethnic dimensions. Estimates suggest that 1-3 million people died.

Religious Conflicts in the Americas:

The Conquest of the Americas: The Spanish conquest of the Americas in the 16th century, driven by religious zeal, resulted in the deaths of millions of indigenous people due to warfare, disease, and forced labor.

The Thirty Years' War (1618-1648): While not solely a religious war, it was deeply influenced by religious conflicts between Protestants and Catholics. Estimates suggest that up to 8 million people died, both directly and indirectly, from warfare, disease, and famine.

Religious Conflicts in Asia:

The Taiping Rebellion (1850-1864): A millenarian movement in China that resulted in an estimated 20-70 million deaths.

The Boxer Rebellion (1899-1901): A violent anti-foreign and anti-Christian uprising in China that resulted in an estimated 100,000 deaths.

These represent only a fraction of the religious conflicts throughout history. The total number of people killed in the name of a god is likely in the hundreds of millions, if not more.

I agree, there are a number of factors that are involved, but everyone believes that their version of god is on their side.

Hanover August 14, 2025 at 21:26 #1007177
Quoting frank
I didn't get that out of it. Philosophy is all about recognizing the forces that shaped you and trying to peep beyond them. If you don't encounter anything negative on that journey, you're probably in denial.


Doesn't the word "Therapy" work better in that sentence than "Philosophy."

What I got out of the post is that she suffers from religion trauma, a thing all too pervasive, and a thing that plenty of people can identify with.

Had her mother been open to her questions, unconditionally loving and embracing, and in all ways the perfect mother, is Christianity vindicated?
Paula Tozer August 14, 2025 at 21:29 #1007179
Reply to Hanover Hey, you don't have to validate me. Or agree. It's about transparency on my part. My upbringing shaped me, as yours shaped you. I agree with Chris Hitchens and Sam Harris in this regard - you don't have to be religious to be a good person. In fact, religion warps the mind of those who must operate within its confines.
Paula Tozer August 14, 2025 at 21:32 #1007182
Reply to Hanover Perhaps. Perhaps not. That was not my reality, so I can't speak to that aspect. And yes, religious trauma is all too pervasive, way too pervasive. That's my point in sharing. A surgical, logical state of mind is sometimes hard won, wouldn't you agree?
frank August 14, 2025 at 21:41 #1007184
Quoting Hanover
Had her mother been open to her questions, unconditionally loving and embracing, and in all ways the perfect mother, is Christianity vindicated?


Christianity is a dying religion. Vindication, even if it were possible, wouldn't help.

Tom Storm August 14, 2025 at 22:18 #1007192
Quoting Paula Tozer
I agree, there are a number of factors that are involved, but everyone believes that their version of god is on their side.


Everyone believes their version of 'truth' is on their side.

The problem isn't so much religion as it is tribalism and dogma.

Quoting 180 Proof
I don't think "philosophy" has been to blame for mass murders, etc so much as dogmas have


I agree. A critical point abotu human behaviours and tribalisms.

Quoting Paula Tozer
These represent only a fraction of the religious conflicts throughout history. The total number of people killed in the name of a god is likely in the hundreds of millions, if not more.


Lists are easy here, thanks to ChatGPT, are some of the non-religious wars and no doubt people will debate the finer points:

20th & 21st Century
Wars & Armed Conflicts

World War I (1914–1918) — Rooted in nationalism, imperial rivalries, alliances, and militarism.

World War II (1939–1945) — Driven by fascism, militarism, expansionism, and racial ideologies (e.g., Nazi doctrine) rather than religion.

Korean War (1950–1953) — Cold War proxy conflict over competing political systems (communism vs. capitalism).

Vietnam War (1955–1975) — Anti-colonial struggle evolving into a Cold War ideological battle.

Falklands War (1982) — Argentina vs. UK over territorial claims.

Iran–Iraq War (1980–1988) — Although both sides were Muslim, the main cause was territorial and political rivalry, not theological difference.

Russia–Ukraine Conflict (2014–present) — Geopolitical, territorial, and national identity disputes.

Ethiopia–Eritrea Border War (1998–2000) — Primarily about border demarcation.

State-led Atrocities & Mass Killings

Holodomor (1932–1933) — Soviet-engineered famine in Ukraine under Stalin; political/economic repression.

Great Purge (1936–1938) — Stalin’s political purges in the USSR.

The Holocaust — Although Jews were targeted partly on religious identity, Nazi ideology was racial/ethno-nationalist, not religious.

Mao’s Great Leap Forward (1958–1962) — Economic policies leading to famine and tens of millions of deaths.

Cultural Revolution (1966–1976) — Political and ideological purging under Mao.

Khmer Rouge Regime in Cambodia (1975–1979) — Pol Pot’s agrarian communist vision, ~1.7 million killed.

North Korean purges and gulags — Political control and suppression of dissent.

Rwandan Genocide (1994) — Ethnic conflict between Hutu and Tutsi.

Bosnian War Massacres (1992–1995) — Mainly ethnic nationalism, though with some cultural identity overlap.

Earlier History

Mongol Conquests (13th–14th centuries) — Expansionist empire building, not religious conversion campaigns.

Taiping Rebellion (1850–1864) — This one had a pseudo-Christian ideology, so not fully non-religious — but many other Chinese civil wars (e.g., An Lushan Rebellion, 8th century) were political/territorial.

Napoleonic Wars (1803–1815) — French expansionism, nationalism, and power politics.

American Civil War (1861–1865) — Primarily about slavery and state rights, not theology.

Franco-Prussian War (1870–1871) — Territorial and political rivalry.

Key Points

Many of the deadliest conflicts in history — World War II, Mao’s campaigns, Stalin’s purges, the Khmer Rouge — were entirely non-religious in origin.

Even when ethnic groups with religious identities are involved, the core cause can be political, nationalist, or economic.

Political ideologies like fascism, communism, and nationalism have caused as many or more deaths than explicitly religious wars.

Hanover August 14, 2025 at 22:25 #1007197
Quoting Paula Tozer
Hey, you don't have to validate me. Or agree. It's about transparency on my part. My upbringing shaped me, as yours shaped you. I agree with Chris Hitchens and Sam Harris in this regard - you don't have to be religious to be a good person. In fact, religion warps the mind of those who must operate within its confines.


My point is simply that this is a philosophy forum, so what difference does it make philosophically whether your mom used religion to build a horribly dysfunctional childhood for you or whether she did hundreds of other terrible things?

In all cases, I'd extend my sympathies. How is that a philosophy issue?

Then you throw in that atheists can be good people too. I agree with you. Was that your point in the OP you wanted to debate?
Hanover August 14, 2025 at 22:26 #1007198
Quoting frank
Christianity is a dying religion. Vindication, even if it were possible, wouldn't help.


Do you think that responsive to my post?
Hanover August 14, 2025 at 22:30 #1007199
Quoting Paula Tozer
Perhaps. Perhaps not. That was not my reality, so I can't speak to that aspect. And yes, religious trauma is all too pervasive, way too pervasive. That's my point in sharing. A surgical, logical state of mind is sometimes hard won, wouldn't you agree?


Sure, personal change is often forged in trauma, and maybe yours was, and possibly yours is a story of overcoming great adversity, and maybe I'm a dick for being combative despite what you've been through, and fill in the rest of the blanks that describe me and you.

I'm just looking for where the philosophical debate lies.
frank August 14, 2025 at 22:33 #1007200
Quoting Hanover
Do you think that responsive to my post?


I do. I didn't see a "poor me" in the OP. I saw this:

Nietzsche:God is dead. God remains dead. And we have killed him. How shall we comfort ourselves, the murderers of all murderers? What was holiest and mightiest of all that the world has yet owned has bled to death under our knives: who will wipe this blood off us? What water is there for us to clean ourselves? What festivals of atonement, what sacred games shall we have to invent? Is not the greatness of this deed too great for us? Must we ourselves not become gods simply to appear worthy of it?


Plus she was talking about a wound that gets passed down, having to do with the bloody conflict between Catholics and Protestants. If you walk away from the wound, you can end up feeling like the ancestral continuum has been broken. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Or so I've heard.
Tom Storm August 14, 2025 at 22:35 #1007201
Quoting frank
I do. I didn't see a "poor me" in the OP. I saw this:

God is dead. God remains dead. And we have killed him. How shall we comfort ourselves, the murderers of all murderers? What was holiest and mightiest of all that the world has yet owned has bled to death under our knives: who will wipe this blood off us? What water is there for us to clean ourselves? What festivals of atonement, what sacred games shall we have to invent? Is not the greatness of this deed too great for us? Must we ourselves not become gods simply to appear worthy of it?
— Nietzsche


What do you take to be the meaning of that often proffered quote?
frank August 14, 2025 at 22:39 #1007203
Quoting Tom Storm
What do you take to be the meaning of that often proffered quote?


That Christianity didn't survive the Enlightenment, when it turned from living religion to fairy tales, the result being an identity crisis that's still unfolding.
Hanover August 14, 2025 at 22:41 #1007204
Reply to frank Really, you believe that she was describing the collapse of Western civilization's reliance upon a foundational diety and challenge of finding a suitable replacement for the avoidance of existential crisis.

Just thought it'd sound more ridiculous to say out loud
frank August 14, 2025 at 22:52 #1007207
Quoting Hanover
Really, you believe that she was describing the collapse of Western civilization's reliance upon a foundational diety and challenge of finding a suitable replacement for the avoidance of existential crisis.


No, I guess not. I still thought it was a cool post, though, clueless as I am.
Fire Ologist August 16, 2025 at 12:12 #1007594
Quoting Paula Tozer
how old-time religion’s archaic values are the force behind the scenes for an authoritarian regime, and how confused the good citizens of that nation are when they try to tease out the knots of how it crept up on them and usurped their version of reality.
It's deeply disturbing to see siblings against siblings,


I get it.

Totally disagree with you and Nietzsche.

God is still just another thing in human society. For the vast vast majority of people, religion and church are just another activity (unless you are priest or active cult member). Maybe people give God and their religion highest honors and praises, but how much time and thought really goes into it for the vast majority of people trying to live?

God and religion are as much a boogeyman as any other. Blame has to fall on one’s own heart first if we are to be free. Religion taught me that.

Blaming parents is typical. Eventually we grow up and realize our parents are as full of shit as anyone else.

And we are full of shit ourselves, often when we see ourselves as victims. When are you really free - when you realize blaming others creates a hollow, empty world.

Everything about me, is up to me and me alone. Not religion or anyone else. I am responsible for me.

Then we can decide for ourselves whether to listen to our parents or our priest or Chris Hitchens.

Religion is as much a force for hope, charity, and love as it is for deception and evil. It’s full of people, so what else should you expect.

Quoting Paula Tozer
In fact, religion warps the mind of those who must operate within its confines.


That’s not absolute. You can replace “religion” with anything depending on the weakness of the person. For some “atheism” warps the mind. For others “pleasure seeking” warps the mind, for others “stoic self-denial” warps the mind.

Weakness in people will always be the root of all the badness. Weakness warps the mind and blaming others for our weakness warps the mind.

Shouldn’t you say government is evil? It has laws that allow it to arrest me and kill me and force me into war and make me kill others - it is absolutist in police tactics. The Catholic Church is a pussycat compared to a decent legislature and a couple of street cops. Why doesn’t the threat of government oppression warp your mind? Like it warps minds in North Korea - and 50 other places?

Religion isn’t the bogeyman. It’s been around since before the dawn of recorded history for a reason. People are built to believe in a future, and with death getting in the way of the future for all of us, we will never let go of religion to protect the future we seek to build.

The future and our plans warp the mind.
Paula Tozer August 17, 2025 at 16:47 #1007829
Reply to Tom Storm Yep. You're right. There are a lot of wars that may not have typical religious origins. However, ideologies that are based on personal beliefs are at the root of most wars, wouldn't you say (I'm being cautious here as I can see I'll get slammed for my wordage and that has to be ok - after all I've brought up a controversial subject that doesn't seem to have its roots in traditional philosophy). I guess it depends on how you define religion (1) a system of faith and worship. (2) a personal or institutionalized system of beliefs and practices. (3) a cause, principle, or system of beliefs held with ardor and faith. With this series of definitions, one COULD argue that whatever you uphold as your belief system can be a point of contention. People can hold their beliefs as sacred even if they are secular. Even philosophers, who pride themselves on being open-minded, really aren't given some of the comments here. Everyone has a theory of everything.
Paula Tozer August 17, 2025 at 16:57 #1007832
Reply to Fire Ologist Reply to Fire Ologist Interesting. I respect your perspective. However, I still think that religious compliance is the reason for the warped perspective we see affecting our world. If people are using religion as a hobby, get a new hobby - perhaps one that actually talks about eternal love without the everlasting torment chaser.
Yep. Parents get sucked into this vortex. I did as well. I taught religious education until I was 39. For a long time afterwards, I felt like a hypocrite. 20+ years of identifying as simply human has changed me, because it taught me to stand by what I say. I struggled with the idea of opening this can o' worms, even on a philosophical forum, where people are supposed to be more open-minded, but did it anyway. It's my story, the point of which is that it is the story of many, the origin of many a secular, philosophical thinker. Quoting Fire Ologist
The future and our plans warp the mind.
Whether the future and our plans warp the mind is contingent upon your Theory of Everything, aka your perspective.

Paula Tozer August 17, 2025 at 16:58 #1007833
Reply to kindred Yes, it is dependent upon ideology.
Paula Tozer August 17, 2025 at 17:06 #1007834
Reply to Hanover Actually, that is exactly what I was describing, through my personal experience. Are you questioning my ability to take such a contoversial stance? Interesting, as you don't know me...However, I must concede that I should have added a disclaimer to the post, given the need for you, superior, philosophical types to feel good about yourself. Quoting frank
No, I guess not. I still thought it was a cool post, though, clueless as I am.

Was this your way of backing down from Hanover's onslaught? How are you clueless? Everyone has the right to their origin story. It brought us here to this space.
Paula Tozer August 17, 2025 at 17:18 #1007840
Reply to Hanover Well, you were being a bit of a dick, but you have a right to your opinion. I didn't sign up for this forum to be a candy ass. I have a very strong perspective and won't back down without a healthy debate. Agreed, it was a difficult go, but you know, trauma is a word slung around a lot these days. I wanted to begin by calling bullshit where I saw it. I'm not an innocent here - I taught religious education until I was 39. When I observed how people have been conditioned to follow without using critical thinking to analyze what they accept unconditionally, and how it has led to millions being led around like cattle with a nose ring by men who want to control everyone's narrative, it is deeply disturbing to me. I may also be in error here, displaying emotion, because I don't have a traditional background in philosophy. I didn't study it in university and didn't learn the vernacular or how to behave in a way that doesn't draw fire from the intellectual gods. This is simply my truth, as is my post. Dude, if you choose to be combative, perhaps its origins are based in your trauma...how would I know? :smile:
frank August 17, 2025 at 18:40 #1007851
Quoting Paula Tozer
How are you clueless?


Pervasively. All the cool kids are.
Paula Tozer August 17, 2025 at 19:17 #1007859
Reply to frank Ha! Can we be friends?
Bob Ross August 17, 2025 at 20:50 #1007884
Reply to Paula Tozer

Welcome to the forum, Paula :smile: .

I am sorry to hear you have experienced what seems to be the worst aspects of organized religion. However, I would challenge you to aspire to learn the strongest and most plausible positions on all sides of the various topics-at-hand and reach your own informed decision. If you get too caught up in fending off the people with unsophisticated positions, on any topic (but in this case theology), then your position will be formulated parasitically on those positions which you wish to oppose and this makes your own position equally, but oppositely, malformed as your opponents.

With respect to theology, there are many sophisticated views on both sides of the theology debate which have no bearing on the ill-formed positions people on both sides can take in practical life.

As far as some of these people in this forum go, such as @frank, they will pump you will a false sense of accomplishment by feeding into straw mans and emotion-pumped critiques of ill-formulated religious views without having the integrity to contend honestly with those who provide the iron-manned versions.
PoeticUniverse August 17, 2025 at 21:19 #1007896
Quoting Paula Tozer
You know, when I first realized that Christians lied, I was upset


To put all of this in a perspective:

'Faith' is no more than a wish and a hope that doesn't grant its object; thus all talk of its truth is not only moot but misleading to the point of intellectual dishonesty. Blah, blah, blah, on and on, anon.
Paula Tozer August 18, 2025 at 16:01 #1008036
Reply to Bob Ross Hi Bob, thank you for the welcome. Please don't feel sorry for me, it's made me who I am.
I've been on both the negative and positive sides of a debate many times, and this one is no different in that regard. People must make a stand for what they know for sure, not quote rhetoric to support that which they have not experienced.
I have no interest in debating theology with anyone. And, thank you for the warning, but I will not be coerced into a false sense of accomplishment. As for questioning someone's integrity...I'm assuming that you have a history of debate with this person?
As for the people who have not only questioned my ability to tackle big subjects, but also suggested that the reason for my philosophical endeavors is a substitute for trauma therapy, that gave me a wry chuckle. I guess I'll gear up for word wars, brought to me by people who have no clue who I am or what I stand for. That's fair. I'm attempting to play on your field now. And I accept your challenge as I have been thinking about it a lot, especially in light of my personal theory of why an authoritarian regime is now in power in the United States. Do other people see what I'm seeing? That was my reason for sharing this post - our world has been corrupted by religion, conditioning us to be led by a poor substitute for a powerful being. And those of us who say, "This is not our issue, not our business," are complicit in its rollout. It's not enough to engage in heated debates on the internet while not only the symbolic Rome, but the whole damn world is burning.
Paula Tozer August 18, 2025 at 16:16 #1008037
Reply to PoeticUniverse Agreed. And I also agree that talking about its truth is moot as well as misleading - it's a psychological bait and switch that takes us away from the real picture. My point in posting this is to provide a glimpse of what happens to people when they are conditioned to be nice and to follow a leader who claims to be a sky/man/god king and leader. This is the confusion we see happening in the world when people are asked to think for themselves (they don't have a clue how to do it and will fight for their limitations so as not to do the work) and "need to believe" in something that is beyond their control, thus shifting everything they cannot explain onto something that can never be proven. I'm an artist, and this is performance art at its most convincing.

Quoting Bob Ross
If you get too caught up in fending off the people with unsophisticated positions, on any topic (but in this case theology), then your position will be formulated parasitically on those positions which you wish to oppose and this makes your own position equally, but oppositely, malformed as your opponents.
. I agree with Bob's perspective.

Years ago, I left any form of religion behind me. I do not identify as an atheist because that would mean that I identify as something I'm not. How can you be anti something that doesn't exist? A good life is not lived through what you are not. The process of negation, in my view, is to lead me to what can stand the test of scrutiny. Subsequently, I cannot say I'm a non-believer, thus making something of nothing.

If I'm in error, then so be it.
PoeticUniverse August 18, 2025 at 17:06 #1008046
Quoting Paula Tozer
How can you be anti something that doesn't exist?


Yes, 'God', as proposed to be some greater mind as the basis of all, cannot be, for it is a system of thinking, planning, designing, and implementing, which cannot be fundamental since its part would have to be more so,

Greater beings may become in the future, so the past and its lesser is not the direction to look, for there is only the simpler and simpler there, unto the lightness of being of the quantum fields.

Quantum fields’ Presence, through transient veins,
Running Quicksilver-like, fuels our gains—
Taking all the temporary shapes as
They change and perish all—but It remains.

All the temporary complexities
From the Eterne must someday fade away,
Even the universe with its grandness,
Dispersing its greatness into blandness.

In between, the Basis sets a story
That gets lived by the transients within,
As life and all the stars, moons, and planets—
In a book from the Babel Library.

What’s Fundamental has to be partless,
Permanent, and e’er remain as itself;
Thus, it can only form temporaries
Onward as rearrangements of itself.

The Simplest can’t be made; it has no parts;
Likewise, it can’t break; ne’er ‘Nothing’ starts;
Thus, Necessity, without alternative,
Makes the Big Bang and our transient hearts.

What’s Fundamental has to be partless,
Lest its parts be more-so and it be less;
It’s ever, ne’er still, else naught could happen;
The quantum ‘vacuum’ weaves the universe’s dress.

The elementaries of a type are
The same, being woven by the same weave,
Only at the stable rungs of quanta;
They’re well anchored, but they’re secondary.

Are the fields spooky as non physical?
Since the elementaries are physical,
And because they are outright field quanta,
The quantum fields are purely physical.

Change, change, change… constant change, as fast as it
Can happen—the speed of light being foremost
The speed of causality—o’er 13 billion years now,
From the simple on up to the more complex.

The ‘vacuum’ has to e’er jitter and sing,
This Base Existent forced as something,
Due to the nonexistence of ‘Nothing’;
When it ‘tries’ to be zero, it cannot.

At the indefinite quantum level,
Zero must be fuzzy, not definite;
So it can’t be zero, but has to be
As that which is ever up to something.
Bob Ross August 18, 2025 at 18:46 #1008072
Reply to Paula Tozer

How can you be anti something that doesn't exist?


Atheism is the belief that there are no gods. It isn’t anti-theism in the sense you are referring: it is the thesis that theism is wrong.

Likewise, religion is the worshiping of a divine deity. There are religious atheists; and there are areligious theists. I just point this out to show you how your view is parasitic on people who have tried to convert you or keep you in mainstream Christianity. This is what I really meant by what you quoted of me: your view is narrowed parasitically on one extreme view within one worldview and I am just trying to broaden the landscape for you to think about for yourself.

I'm assuming that you have a history of debate with this person?


Yes, although I love @frank to death :kiss: , they straw man Christianity all the time and refuse to engage with peoples’ responses that provide the iron manned versions.

As for the people who have not only questioned my ability to tackle big subjects, but also suggested that the reason for my philosophical endeavors is a substitute for trauma therapy, that gave me a wry chuckle.


Well, that’s an ad hominem attack and I am sorry they do that to you. I have no doubt that you are capable of reaching substantive positions on things.

I guess I'll gear up for word wars, brought to me by people who have no clue who I am or what I stand for.


See, that’s the thing though: these kinds of discussions don’t need to be ‘word wars’. It doesn’t need to be a formal debate where we try to convince the audience or where we be as uncharitable as possible to each other’s positions. Instead, this is a place for genuine, intellectual conversations geared towards knowing the truth.

Do other people see what I'm seeing?


Politically, I doubt we agree on anything; but that’s the whole point: we can discuss and learn from each other. Emerson once wisely said: ~”In some way every man is my superior, and in that I can learn from him”.

That was my reason for sharing this post - our world has been corrupted by religion, conditioning us to be led by a poor substitute for a powerful being.


Forgive me, I am not trying to put words in your mouth; but from my perspective it seems like you may have a really negative view of religion because of your horrible exposure to the really bad parts. For example, I think religion total net has done great things for humanity because it has shown us, however imperfectly, what is objectively good. Of course, this will lead us to presumably a disagreement in our ethical commitments; but, the way I see it, God ultimately has to be posited for there to be objective morality.
Paula Tozer August 18, 2025 at 19:28 #1008081
Reply to Bob Ross I assume this is the definition of parasitic that you are referring to: habitually relying on or exploiting others? If this is the case, then anyone who does not agree with the philosophy of a group and calls them out is exploiting them? Do you think that I'm relying on others to support my stance against them? Man, that would shut down everyone that I know and value for their perspective. As I see it, it's a matter of acknowledging your origins and addressing the mess that I helped create. Quoting Bob Ross
Politically, I doubt we agree on anything


Perhaps what you say is true. However, as I don't know you, I would not say that with any certainty. I leave that to the theists. Of course, I can learn from you and from anyone who takes the time to comment here.

Quoting Bob Ross
Forgive me, I am not trying to put words in your mouth; but from my perspective it seems like you may have a really negative view of religion because of your horrible exposure to the really bad parts.


Nope. It's all BS. I can be kind to my neighbors, be a good, contributing citizen, embrace diversity in both culture and gender, give of myself through volunteering and selfless acts, teach my children how to critically think as part of their education, and fore-give you my best intentions regardless of whether we ever meet in this lifetime, without fear of everlasting torment if I don't give my life to a sky/man/god who watches me while I'm sleeping and polices my thoughts, by the way...who's good book tells me, as a female decended from the original woman, I'm the cause of original sin. All Christian religions must agree on this point, and that is, fundamentally, where our paths diverge. I got tired of being a sinner, I didn't put Jesus on a cross...so I changed my mind. I do apologize for the rant.
Tom Storm August 18, 2025 at 20:33 #1008103
Quoting Bob Ross
Atheism is the belief that there are no gods.


Of course, many atheists today don’t formulate it like that, even if it’s a traditional account. For me, an atheist is simply someone who doesn’t believe there are gods. It’s not a knowledge claim; it’s a belief claim. As an atheist I simply say I am unconvinced by any god claims, including the arguments I have encountered, from CS Lewis to Aquinas.

Quoting Paula Tozer
All Christian religions must agree on this point, and that is, fundamentally, where our paths diverge. I got tired of being a sinner, I didn't put Jesus on a cross...so I changed my mind.


Christians don’t all agree on this. Many are taught that the Bible is metaphorical rather than literally true, and that God is not a “magic man in the sky.” Theistic personalism is only one way of construing God. For many Christians, God is understood as the ground of being: mysterious, unknowable, and certainly not a person. Closer to mysticism. Your argument is really directed at a very particular account of Christianity and God.
Fire Ologist August 19, 2025 at 05:47 #1008178
Quoting Paula Tozer
Whether the future and our plans warp the mind is contingent upon your Theory of Everything, aka your perspective.


Whether the religion and our God warp the mind is contingent upon your Theory of Everything, aka your perspective.
Paula Tozer August 20, 2025 at 14:21 #1008393
Reply to Fire Ologist Clever! And I agree that you are accurate - your Theory of Everything does create how you view religion. I would contend that every belief that a person holds contributes to your perspective. But my Theory of Everything cannot agree with yours in this regard - it's not "our" god. It's yours. I don't have a lord and master.
Paula Tozer August 20, 2025 at 14:42 #1008401
Reply to Tom Storm Please provide examples of your claim - of a Christian religion that does not, at its core, rely on original sin and the sinfulness of "mankind." As I sse it these constitute the core of a good Christian's beliefs: (1) Belief in the divinity of Jesus. (2) Belief in original sin, humanity's sinful nature. (3) Jesus' sacrifice that had to atone for our sinful nature. (4) Belief that god resurrected HIS son after we were done with HIM) (5) the personal need for belief, prayer, and repentance by placing our trust in the sky/man/god, who sees you when your sleeping, and knows when you're awake. HE knows if you've been bad or good...well correction...you've always been bad.
I don't care how the person spins it so it makes believing in "something" unknowable palatable, at its core is this fundamental belief.
A good human is a good human, right? I don't require superstition to be in awe of the everyday workings of nature, to be kind to people, and to celebrate my joy for life.
Tom, if believing in a mystical version of a god helps you to sleep better, why would I challenge you? However, I would invite you to consider that you've kept only one piece of the puzzle as your soother. I've been there and done that.
Why not simply enjoy what quantum physics is revealing - that all is energy, connected, and coherent?
Tom Storm August 20, 2025 at 20:22 #1008464
Quoting Paula Tozer
Please provide examples of your claim - of a Christian religion that does not, at its core, rely on original sin and the sinfulness of "mankind."


I grew up in the Baptist tradition which did not accept this doctrine and took issue with it. It also rejected the notion of hell. You'll find this in Protestant and Anglican/Episcopal traditions. And in some Eastern Orthodox and some Methodist.

If you are a modern Christian who understands the Bible as allegories and you believe in evolution, then the story of Adam and Eve is a creation myth and original sin is impossible. Not all Christians are primitive literalists.

To borrow a quote from one of the prominent Episcopal Bishops in America, Bishop Shelby Spong (who died a few years ago) -

Atonement theology assumes that we were created in some kind of original perfection. We now know that life has emerged from a single cell that evolved into self-conscious complexity over billions of years. There was no original perfection. If there was no original perfection, then there could never have been a fall from perfection. If there was no fall, then there is no such thing as “original sin” and thus no need for the waters of baptism to wash our sins away. If there was no fall into sin, then there is also no need to be rescued. How can one be rescued from a fall that never happened? How can one be restored to a status of perfection that he or she never possessed? So most of our Christology today is bankrupt. Many popular titles that we have applied to Jesus, such as “savior,” “redeemer,” and “rescuer,” no longer make sense...
Bishop John Shelby Spong Biblical Literalism: A Gentile Heresy
wonderer1 August 20, 2025 at 20:33 #1008466
Quoting Tom Storm
I grew up in the Baptist tradition which did not accept this doctrine and took issue with it. It also rejected the notion of hell


It seems Australian Baptists have a very different perspective from USian Baptists. I think many USians Baptists would likely declare the Baptist tradition you describe to be unchristian
Tom Storm August 20, 2025 at 20:38 #1008467
Reply to wonderer1 The Baptists don’t have a central hierarchy and allow a range of views. The governance is congregational. There are also Literalists here. But fearful literalists have never been big in Australia.
Tom Storm August 20, 2025 at 20:47 #1008469
Quoting Paula Tozer
Tom, if believing in a mystical version of a god helps you to sleep better, why would I challenge you? However, I would invite you to consider that you've kept only one piece of the puzzle as your soother. I've been there and done that.
Why not simply enjoy what quantum physics is revealing - that all is energy, connected, and coherent?


I’m an atheist, Paula. But I prefer to have an informed view of religions than the simple cartoon accounts of many atheists. I was brought up in the Baptist tradition but found the notion of a god incoherent from an early age. I was never a believer.
DingoJones August 21, 2025 at 14:54 #1008606
Quoting Tom Storm
I’m an atheist, Paula. But I prefer to have an informed view of religions than the simple cartoon accounts of many atheists. I was brought up in the Baptist tradition but found the notion of a god incoherent from an early age. I was never a believer.


Im curious what the cartoon account is in your view. Are you seeing any of that in Paulas posts or do you mean in general?
Tom Storm August 21, 2025 at 20:11 #1008667
Reply to DingoJones I tend to view Biblical literalism as a cartoonish account of God. I started a thread on this. If atheists confine themselves to attacking literalists, they’re just going after low-hanging fruit. So it’s a general point, and it’s also clear that the behavior of Christians, or Muslims, for that matter, has no bearing on whether a God exists. Plenty of theists, like Spong, think religions are often primitive and terrible.
DingoJones August 21, 2025 at 20:35 #1008670
Reply to Tom Storm

Well there ARE bible literalists, so some people do believe a cartoonish thing. Of course it is also low hanging fruit as you say, the easiest attack vector against religion.

Wouldn't the behaviour of believers reflect whether god exists depend on how one is defining god and specifically some of the wisdom or rules he lays down? Like if you claim god is “all good” and believe god wants apostates killed then that contradiction might cast doubt on the gods existence?
kindred August 21, 2025 at 20:41 #1008672
Reply to Tom Storm

Most religious revelation/prophecy is probably bs and I say that as someone who believes in a higher power. To much outdated inconsistencies. Nothing wrong with personal revelation but when it becomes preachy that’s when I lose interest. Even as someone who does believe in god I do not know his true nature or attributes and i certainly won’t take it from a man written book. I used to be an atheist up to my early twenties but as a grew older I had some personal experiences which swayed me rather than scripture which I never found convincing to begin with.
Tom Storm August 21, 2025 at 20:49 #1008674
Quoting DingoJones
Wouldn't the behaviour of believers reflect whether god exists depend on how one is defining god and specifically some of the wisdom or rules he lays down?


I wouldn’t think so. If you believe in divine command then killing apostates is good.

What if there is a god and he’s a thug? Like the one described in the Old Testament. We can perhaps disprove that god is good as humans understand him, but perhaps he’s more Trump than Lincoln…

I’m not sure the behaviour of believers has much bearing upon the existence of a god. Can you say more?

Quoting DingoJones
Well there ARE bible literalists, so some people do believe a cartoonish thing. Of course it is also low hanging fruit as you say, the easiest attack vector against religion.


I think that’s right. And given this is a philosophy site I’d expect less focus on this type of god and more on philosophical arguments.



DingoJones August 21, 2025 at 21:03 #1008681
Quoting Tom Storm
I’m not sure the behaviour of believers has much bearing upon the existence of a god. Can you say more?


In the sense that a god of certain traits (all good being my example) would not allow that/those traits to be represented by followers. Since the traits are being misrepresented with acts by followers that contradict those traits then we might think that such a god doesnt exist. If it did, surely it would do something about evil being done in it all good name?
I guess its a sort of argument of evil that Im making.

Quoting Tom Storm
I wouldn’t think so. If you believe in divine command then killing apostates is good.


Thats why I Mentioned how you define god as part of the basis of my argument above. Divine command justifies all things, not really about morality but authority.

Quoting Tom Storm
I think that’s right. And given this is a philosophy site I’d expect less focus on this type of god and more on philosophical arguments.


Are the philosophical arguments much better? Are any of those cartoonish in your view?

Sam26 August 21, 2025 at 21:07 #1008684
Quoting Tom Storm
I’m not sure the behaviour of believers has much bearing upon the existence of a god. Can you say more?


I’d argue that the behaviour of believers has a direct bearing on whether their concept of God holds up. If being a Christian means undergoing a significant transformation through the Holy Spirit, then that change should reflect the character of the God you believe in. Otherwise, it raises the possibility that God exists, but your understanding of Him is flawed.
Tom Storm August 21, 2025 at 21:12 #1008687
Reply to Sam26 Reply to DingoJones I’m inclined to think that people’s behavior has little bearing on the truth of their beliefs. We can do good things for bad reasons, and we can follow the moral code of fictional characters from novels, yet still perform righteous acts.

The fact that so much evil has been done in the name of Christianity has no bearing on whether there's a god or not.

Quoting DingoJones
Are the philosophical arguments much better? Are any of those cartoonish in your view?


I’ve never heard any that are convincing to me personally, but there’s nothing cartoonish about Leibniz’s argument from contingency or Plantinga’s evolutionary argument against naturalism.

Tom Storm August 21, 2025 at 21:28 #1008691
Quoting kindred
I used to be an atheist up to my early twenties but as a grew older I had some personal experiences which swayed me rather than scripture which I never found convincing to begin with.


Fair enough. The issue with personal revelation and experience is that, for others, it’s just hearsay. (Is that Hume?) Whoever it is, it sounds fair. I’ve heard many first-hand accounts of experiences: Indian girls who say they encountered Krishna, Muslim cab drivers who report seeing Muhammad and the angel Gabriel, Christians who say they saw Mary or ‘felt’ the Holy Spirit. I’d be more convinced if the Hindu girl encountered Jesus and the Muslim cab driver saw Krishna. It seems to me these experiences are primed by culture and expectation.
kindred August 21, 2025 at 21:49 #1008699
Reply to Tom Storm

Yeah that’s cultural bias, the experience I had was not encountering such things but I simply heard a voice in my head say a certain phrase which was very rare only for it to be said by a family member a few minutes later. Obviously the shocking thing was to hear something in my head in the first place almost like a loud voice and not the usual internal monologue, to have this exact phrase repeated by a family member truly shocked me which is why I believe that there’s a higher power, for what else could explain it. For the record I’m not a schizophrenic and the scenario I’ve just described has only happened once but that’s all it took to convince me.
DingoJones August 22, 2025 at 05:11 #1008771
Quoting Tom Storm
The fact that so much evil has been done in the name of Christianity has no bearing on whether there's a god or not.


Unless the god in question could/would/should stop or curb that evil. The fact that there is no intervention, even just a quick “do not kill in my name” from a mountain top or something, suggests no such being exists. No? I mean why wouldn't an all good god say orvdo something?
Or what about prayer? Thats behaviour, can we not judge from the lack of prayer return calls that perhaps there is no such being?
Tom Storm August 22, 2025 at 05:32 #1008773
Quoting DingoJones
Unless the god in question could/would/should stop or curb that evil.


Sure, but for me the problem no one can demonstrate what God believes or what God’s properties are, so any claims about god's relationship to evil or to good are moot and at best, tradition. So for someone to say God is good or that God responds to prayer is on them. But these models of God have no bearing on whether there is a God or not, only on what people claim about God. What difference does it make what the claims are, or what an old book might say about God? God may well be a cunt. Is there any way we can demonstrate either way for certain?

Quoting kindred
For the record I’m not a schizophrenic and the scenario I’ve just described has only happened once but that’s all it took to convince me.


I work in the area of mental health. Plenty of people have one off experinces of voices, noises and other odd symptoms and do not have a diagnosis. So there's that.

Quoting kindred
Obviously the shocking thing was to hear something in my head in the first place almost like a loud voice and not the usual internal monologue, to have this exact phrase repeated by a family member truly shocked me which is why I believe that there’s a higher power, for what else could explain it


Lots of people hear voices, their names being called, or other meaningful things via voices in their heads. Not everyone turns to God to make sense of it. If you do, that’s fine—but for me, this isn’t a reason I would see as justification for a God.

Quoting kindred
I believe that there’s a higher power, for what else could explain it.


No offence intended, but that's a classic 'argument from ignorance fallacy' - "I don't know how else to explain X, therefore God."




Barkon August 22, 2025 at 11:48 #1008802
God is a con in my opinion, it completely abstracts what good means. I don't like when people conflate morality with God-ism--- morality is a nice clean concept in itself.

Most of the bible on God is fluff, but it's mixed in with some wise words and supposedly an historical account. I don't think the bible in its current state is what it was once was envisioned to be.

God brings about more evil in the world; and that's separating God from the rest of the bible, which could credibly bring about good in the right context.

I'm not even sure if the original bible contained God. It could just be another act of evil(editing a good, educational book for thought control).
MoK August 22, 2025 at 15:20 #1008836
Reply to kindred
I am schizophrenic too. I, however, think that my subconscious mind could also deceive me, giving me false hallucinations. I am not denying spirituality either. It could be real.
DingoJones August 22, 2025 at 20:06 #1008872
Quoting Tom Storm
s there any way we can demonstrate either way for certain?


Not beyond Cartesian doubt obviously, but It think we can be reasonably certain….but it sounds like you believe no one has any knowledge about god, from the bible or otherwise. Is that correct, and if so why do you suppose that is?
Tom Storm August 22, 2025 at 23:39 #1008900
Quoting DingoJones
but it sounds like you believe no one has any knowledge about god, from the bible or otherwise. Is that correct, and if so why do you suppose that is?


Even many theists, especially the apophatics, argue that nothing sensible can really be said about God. It’s all mystery. I just take their move one step further: if that’s the case, why not forget about it and piss the God idea off altogether?

In the end, I think theism (as I’ve often said) is a matter of preference, much like sexual orientation: you can’t help what you’re attracted to. It’s shaped by culture, upbringing, aesthetics, and a person’s preferences for how they construe meaning.
180 Proof August 23, 2025 at 02:48 #1008917
Quoting Tom Storm
... [M]odels of God have no bearing on whether there is a God or not, only on what people claim about God.

:up: :up:

(from 2022)
https://thephilosophyforum.com/discussion/comment/774731
https://thephilosophyforum.com/discussion/comment/774753

DingoJones August 23, 2025 at 07:10 #1008941
Quoting Tom Storm
Even many theists, especially the apophatics, argue that nothing sensible can really be said about God. It’s all mystery. I just take their move one step further: if that’s the case, why not forget about it and piss the God idea off altogether?


As we should with all things reduced to “mystery” as a description.

Quoting Tom Storm
In the end, I think theism (as I’ve often said) is a matter of preference, much like sexual orientation: you can’t help what you’re attracted to. It’s shaped by culture, upbringing, aesthetics, and a person’s preferences for how they construe meaning.
7h


I disagree here. I would call it need rather than preference. Some people seem to need religion or god or mystery or whatever and some people do not, some people are comfortable with no greater meaning and some are not. Preference implies an array of different paths on a journey but actually its a matter of being on a journey or not in a journey at all.
I think even when a meaning seeker rejects religion they will find another path to it by another name. The ones who aren’t searching for meaning (or at least meaning beyond the physical world), aren’t selecting any preferences because they aren’t looking for anything (beyond the physical world)


Tom Storm August 23, 2025 at 11:54 #1008964
Quoting DingoJones
I disagree here. I would call it need rather than preference. Some people seem to need religion or god or mystery or whatever and some people do not, some people are comfortable with no greater meaning and some are not. Preference implies an array of different paths on a journey but actually its a matter of being on a journey or not in a journey at all.


I don’t disagree with this. All I mean is that some people are 'turned on' by theism and some are not, just as some are attracted to boys and not girls. I meant preference in that sense, that it is essentially an orientation rather than a reasoned choice. But I think “need” works fine too in a broader sense. And I would include the need 'not to believe' in God along with the 'need to believe'. Both atheism and theism could be understood as sources of affective satisfaction.

Quoting DingoJones
I think even when a meaning seeker rejects religion they will find another path to it by another name. The ones who aren’t searching for meaning (or at least meaning beyond the physical world), aren’t selecting any preferences because they aren’t looking for anything (beyond the physical world)


It has sometimes interested me how many atheists actually believe in supernatural claims. It’s only God they don’t accept. Some atheists I’ve known believe in astrology, ghosts, clairvoyance, and other occult phenomena. So I’m not sure what the connection between God, religion, and the occult actually is for some folk. It’s more the Dawkins-style atheists who are galvanised by empiricism who seem to find any supernatural thesis anathema.

Paula Tozer August 23, 2025 at 13:30 #1008977
Reply to Tom Storm That's interesting, Tom! Thank you for this perspective. I'm glad to hear that my experience isn't universal!
Tom Storm August 23, 2025 at 13:35 #1008979
Paula Tozer August 23, 2025 at 13:45 #1008982
Reply to DingoJones In the case of what you've said, Tom, that you can't help what you're attracted to - I see this as part of the initial indoctrination.

Quoting Tom Storm
All I mean is that some people are 'turned on' by theism and some are not, just as some are attracted to boys and not girls.
To compare it to a deviance..I don't know if I'd go that far.

However, if it's truly an individual preference, I haven't seen this to be the case. Everyone I know has been altered by religious ideology - that includes Catholic, Baptist, as well as other Protestant religions.
In my view, it's absolutely unnecessary to follow a deity.

I think that good people want to be truly decent and caring and that they may be attracted to a philosophy that reflects this outlook on life. It's been true for me, but I never had a chance when I was a kid as I was force-fed the beliefs of my family of origin. My experience isn't an anomaly, it's pervasive in the Christian communities that I've been exposed to.

Quoting DingoJones
I think even when a meaning seeker rejects religion they will find another path to it by another name.


Agreed. Humanity is hard-wired to bring meaning to our experiences. If they reject religion, they will find another way, many of them New Age. I also explored some of these ideas back in the day and rejected them as well. It's strange what some folks will accept as their new religion. As I see it, a philosophical perspective that embraces science and rejects superstition (particularly the sky/man/god idea) is the most practical.
Tom Storm August 23, 2025 at 13:50 #1008983
Quoting Paula Tozer
To compare it to a deviance..I don't know if I'd go that far.


I don't see homosexuality as a deviance. If you do then you're missing my point.

Quoting Paula Tozer
In my view, it's absolutely unnecessary to follow a deity.


My point is not connected to whether it is necessary to follow a deity. My point is that some people are drawn to this form of meaning making and some are not. I see much of this as an innate disposition, an orientation or preference. Are contingent factors like culture, linguistic practices, and upbringing involved? Of course.


Tom Storm August 23, 2025 at 13:54 #1008986
Quoting Paula Tozer
Everyone I know has been altered by religious ideology - that includes Catholic, Baptist, as well as other Protestant religions.


I’m not entirely sure what you mean by ‘altered' could you give an example? But isn’t it fair to say that most beliefs alter us in some way? Politics, culture, and art all leave their mark on us. Some radically so.

Any views on Buddhist, Sikh, Hindu, Parsi, or Jain faiths?
DingoJones August 23, 2025 at 16:14 #1009004
Quoting Tom Storm
I don’t disagree with this. All I mean is that some people are 'turned on' by theism and some are not, just as some are attracted to boys and not girls. I meant preference in that sense, that it is essentially an orientation rather than a reasoned choice. But I think “need” works fine too in a broader sense. And I would include the need 'not to believe' in God along with the 'need to believe'. Both atheism and theism could be understood as sources of affective satisfaction.


The point of disagreement is “reasoned choice”. Obviously it depends on the specific belief or claims but in general I think a lack of belief can be reasoned choice. As you pointed out atheists can belief in similar non rational things as the average believer and I would agree but also think an atheist can have arrived at atheism by “reasoned choice”. Im much more hesitant to say the same about a theist.

Quoting Tom Storm
It has sometimes interested me how many atheists actually believe in supernatural claims. It’s only God they don’t accept. Some atheists I’ve known believe in astrology, ghosts, clairvoyance, and other occult phenomena. So I’m not sure what the connection between God, religion, and the occult actually is for some folk. It’s more the Dawkins-style atheists who are galvanised by empiricism who seem to find any supernatural thesis anathema.


I think it is because these “atheists” are of the meaning seeker type but are just upset with religion and reject it for whatever reason.
Paula Tozer August 23, 2025 at 20:20 #1009036
Reply to Tom Storm The point I was making was that religion alters people. It skews their thinking by placing artificial limits on the way people conduct their lives. Societies without religious ideology evolve differently...more naturally, I think, than do those with a culture based upon "fear/respect for a god." It's impossible to determine how we would have been different if we had been brought up in a pre-colonial indigenous culture, or in any culture that was different than the one in which I was raised.
I completely agree that politics, culture, and art all have their influences. On this point, I also ask you to consider the role that religion has played in each of these different aspects of human life. My initial point with the post was to ask readers to consider the basis for most of the contention and separation that we see globally as being religious ideology. It is pervasive and runs so deep that it cannot be separated without determined effort.
I've studied the philosophical component of Buddhism to a certain degree, and I resonate with a lot of what they teach.
As for the other religions you mentioned, I'm not schooled in their practices and cannot comment.
All I know is Christianity and its variations. However, when it becomes dogma, like any religious practice that inhibits or ostracizes people, it's not my vibe.
Tom Storm August 23, 2025 at 23:00 #1009051
Reply to DingoJones Are you a 'meaning seeking' type of person such as you have described? Where do you sit on this?

Quoting Paula Tozer
On this point, I also ask you to consider the role that religion has played in each of these different aspects of human life. My initial point with the post was to ask readers to consider the basis for most of the contention and separation that we see globally as being religious ideology. I


Yeah well this is a subject so familiar and well covered by atheists that it's close to being a banal observation. I've made the point innumerable times in my atheist proselytising days and on this site we sometimes get members who are active for a while, who hate religion and have little else to offer the God debate than Dawkins or Hitchens style polemics. Not saying you're one of those, just that this style of argument appears here often enough.

Personally I think humans fuck everything up, whether it’s secular or religious. Our drive for control and conformity perhaps. Amongst my friends I count a number of Christians, a priest and a sister too, who are extraordinarily tough on religion and believers and no fans of the oppressive history of the church. There are Christians and Sikhs whose company I prefer over many doctrinaire atheists I've known.
DingoJones August 24, 2025 at 04:14 #1009082
Quoting Tom Storm
Are you a 'meaning seeking' type of person such as you have described? Where do you sit on this?


I am not. Ive spent a lot of time talking to those folks and learning but I don’t seem to be built that way. Where I stand depends on what the claim is but in general Im not moved by appeals to “mystery, “the transcendent”, “the universe” or other such vacuous basis. I guess Im comfortable a) not knowing and b) that there is no greater meaning to it all. Perfectly content with the mere mortal meaning found in friends and family.
Paula Tozer August 24, 2025 at 19:11 #1009206
Reply to Tom Storm Quoting Tom Storm
Personally I think humans fuck everything up, whether it’s secular or religious.

HA! I agree, we have a way of messing with a good thing...power hungry, most trying to be the top gun in a world where violence reigns. It's interesting to hear your perspective - a person who no longer shouts his atheist perspective from the rooftops. I've noticed, among those who do not believe in a deity of any sort, that they do take great pleasure in being right - at least on the forums I've visited. Whether the perspective has had the life flogged out of it or not, it's still relevant to our discussion, I think. To your point - I've listened to Dawkins and Hitchens, and even though they are much closer to the truth than I believe that religion can be, I do not agree with their aggressive posture. Where I live, it's very hard to find someone of like mind (at least so far). My frustration with anyone who accepts what they've been told on blind faith stems from my background and experiences. A priest and a nun who are tough on religion...very interesting...I wonder what they actually know to be true for them?
As a creative, I've come to understand something that may be interpreted as me "believing" in something - some kind of higher power - but I do not consider it to be that way. I have lived and felt the power of inspiration in my life. It's why I write. It's why I'm a creativity coach - I love helping other people feel that surge of power that comes from a mind-spark of inspiration. I believe that inspiration is the result of tapping into the quantum field, collapsing the wave, and drawing what you wish to create into life. It's as close to real magic as I've ever felt. For me, that's my sacred.
However, I also believe that creativity is neutral - inspiration can be used for good or for evil. We have been seeing it play out on a global scale for as long as I can remember.